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Topic: Call to Action: Help Single Black Men Keep A Woman
Posted By: FarraFace
Subject: Call to Action: Help Single Black Men Keep A Woman
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:42pm
Repost?

A Call to Action: Help Single Black Men Keep A Woman

http://www.clutchmagonline.com/2012/12/a-call-to-action-help-single-black-men-keep-a-woman/" rel="nofollow -



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Posted By: Bunnyahh
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:45pm
well goddammClap  TRUTH has been spoken

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Hi BHM!! Lovely day I'm having. How about you?


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:46pm
farra up in here spitting that hot fiyaClap

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Women, midwest, WO-MEN. I know you're stunted in height but I didn't know that your shortcomings extended to your brain function - ImThatDiva


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:46pm
Does one NEED to be married between the ages of 25 and 29?

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Posted By: babyk94
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:47pm
I pretty much agree with that list


Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:47pm
Nice list


Posted By: Marmonette
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:48pm
Demetria Lucas is on a roll...

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heyyyyyyyy


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:50pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Does one NEED to be married between the ages of 25 and 29?

you're missing the point so...



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If you are or have ever been a member of BHM, you are inherently a hoodrat.B


Posted By: babyk94
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:52pm
Lol I actually with this list forreal. I'm reading it again


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 10:54pm
Originally posted by Marmonette Marmonette wrote:

Demetria Lucas is on a roll...

She is! She even got one one the Rules of Being a Jump-Off. LOL

I think she's a member/lurker here. Geek


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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:18pm
Good post Farra!Smile



*Sips tea and waits for it lol*


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Posted By: Jr1127
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:27pm
ClapClap


Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:29pm
Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

well goddammClap  TRUTH has been spoken


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My mind explodes


Posted By: beebeexx
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:30pm
I cannot wait for this referring to women as "females" thing to die a glorious death.


Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:32pm
Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

I cannot wait for this referring to women as "females" thing to die a glorious death.


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My mind explodes


Posted By: fairyQueen092
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:36pm
Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

I cannot wait for this referring to women as "females" thing to die a glorious death.

Yesss, and women say it too now, i cringe

Great list

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Bhm sucks. Lets see how long it will take to get siggys back -__-


Posted By: fairyQueen092
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:41pm
*waits for the "ugh is this another niccas aint sh*t topic?" crew to come in*

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Bhm sucks. Lets see how long it will take to get siggys back -__-


Posted By: HaitianDiva64
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:47pm
I really don't know but sort of have a clue: why is female bad


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:49pm
Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

I really don't know but sort of have a clue: why is female bad

imo is sounds super derogatory and is never used positively...it's usually used when the person makes an aint sh*t statement


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I'm from The Wishanicca Woods boo-Dreamz

If you are or have ever been a member of BHM, you are inherently a hoodrat.B


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:51pm
Wom? Dead

*goes to edit*

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Posted By: fairyQueen092
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:51pm
Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

I really don't know but sort of have a clue: why is female bad


Any animal can be a "female" technically, but only humans can be women. Notice how you never hear guys being referred to as "males"

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Bhm sucks. Lets see how long it will take to get siggys back -__-


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:53pm
Quote Notice how you never hear guys being referred to as "males"

I do that on here all the time. Smile


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 11:55pm
thanks

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PEACE


Posted By: khivey
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:13am
This is true. No one ever calls attention to the boat loads of men who are single and can't keep a woman, but because they have "situations" or "unofficial" relationships it is looked upon as they have their choice but choose not to, when the reality is...they can't hold onto the one they want to settle down with so they keep the others around to save face.

S/N: I would like to see a similar article written from a male's point of view. 


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Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:16am
Black people are so broken ugh


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:43am
*monitors*

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Chris and Koochie split! - Mrshairdo

Sometimes when sh*t happens...you say fucc - Cyndi Lauper

let's look death in the face and say "whatever man". -Hurley.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:45am
can't lie...I do use the word "female" *shamefully slinks out of thread draggin' feet. *

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Chris and Koochie split! - Mrshairdo

Sometimes when sh*t happens...you say fucc - Cyndi Lauper

let's look death in the face and say "whatever man". -Hurley.


Posted By: Ashleyano
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 1:04am
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

can't lie...I do use the word "female" *shamefully slinks out of thread draggin' feet. *
+1Ouch


Posted By: Junior Jr
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 6:46am
yall know she wrote this in jest, right?
 
jr.


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Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 6:51am
Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

yall know she wrote this in jest, right?
 
jr.
maaaaaan F, RG the coon III

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My mind explodes


Posted By: Junior Jr
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 7:02am
let that brotha enjoy his cavewoman
 
jr.


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Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 7:18am
10. You Want to Date Forever
Marriage is a big commitment that should not be taken lightly. But you desire the privileges of a husband and for an eternity without taking any vows. No woman in her right mind will put up with this once she catches on.


Amen. Seriously. The issue with this too is that women play wife all the time without actually being that. We need to stop laying out the spread and men need to stop expecting it.



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TWERKIN' MY WAY DOWNTOWN
CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
-Midna


Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 7:19am
5* post.

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Mrs.ImThatModdlessDiva
TWERKIN' MY WAY DOWNTOWN
CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
-Midna


Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 7:20am
Originally posted by fairyQueen092 fairyQueen092 wrote:

*waits for the "ugh is this another niccas aint sh*t topic?" crew to come in*
Right?

The interesting this is that people say all the time we need to stop fingure pointing and starting speaking about the issues, but when the issues are layed out, it's called an "isn't sh*t" list.


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Mrs.ImThatModdlessDiva
TWERKIN' MY WAY DOWNTOWN
CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
-Midna


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 7:47am
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

farra up in here spitting that hot fiyaClap
LOL

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God forgive me for my brash delivery
But I remember vividly what these streets did to me


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 7:50am
Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:



S/N: I would like to see a similar article written from a male's point of view. 
we see them all the time.


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God forgive me for my brash delivery
But I remember vividly what these streets did to me


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 7:52am
These types of blog posts are silly.



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Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 7:59am
Damn, aint this some reality!


Posted By: Limalady
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:11pm
It was an interesting take.


Posted By: tasty0619
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 12:18pm
Good Post.

And I too hate the use of the term female when referring to women. 


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Posted By: Sinnamon_Mami
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 2:27pm
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

farra up in here spitting that hot fiyaClap



Insert Boom gif here please

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Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 2:31pm
I will say that I've been guilty of #3 (terrible communication) and #10 (Dating forever)




Posted By: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 2:32pm
What the hell is this damn sh*t?

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I'm fed up! *flips table*


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 2:33pm
Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

I will say that I've been guilty of #3 (terrible communication) and #10 (Dating forever)


Why do you date forever?


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God forgive me for my brash delivery
But I remember vividly what these streets did to me


Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 2:39pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

I will say that I've been guilty of #3 (terrible communication) and #10 (Dating forever)


Why do you date forever?

Cause I didn't want to marry her(even though I tried to convince myself)... but I had gotten in so deep that I didn't know how to get out. I wasn't prepared to deal with an emotional woman who felt attacked.

I prolly couldv'e gotten out much easier had I cheated... atleast she wouldv'e gladly left knowing that I was the problem... and ruined my things and not felt any guilt.


Posted By: fairyQueen092
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 2:46pm


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Bhm sucks. Lets see how long it will take to get siggys back -__-


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 2:51pm
I feel the same way oodles, but with everyone. Thanks for answering.



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God forgive me for my brash delivery
But I remember vividly what these streets did to me


Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Dec 20 2012 at 3:24pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I feel the same way oodles, but with everyone. Thanks for answering.


You can ask me anything Nita


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Dec 28 2012 at 5:22pm


And if you mad I bumped a thread from 9 whole days ago, please sit all the way down and completely STFU.

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Posted By: zolloh
Date Posted: Dec 28 2012 at 5:40pm
if only an entire thread could be posted within another whole thread LOL


Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: Dec 28 2012 at 5:41pm
still thought the op was awesome

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My mind explodes


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Dec 28 2012 at 5:41pm
@zolloh: I know, right?!

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 28 2012 at 5:41pm
MM and his hand should read this

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I'm from The Wishanicca Woods boo-Dreamz

If you are or have ever been a member of BHM, you are inherently a hoodrat.B



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