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Topic: Ghetto?
Posted By: ScorpioLuv
Subject: Ghetto?
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:43pm
Is it ghetto to have 2 kids in the same year, but they're not twins?

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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:45pm
No.

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Posted By: Ms.Best
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:45pm
Depends on your financial and marital status.


Posted By: solena
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:46pm
No. Maybe irresponsible or just plain stupid depending on the persons situation but ghetto no.


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:46pm
i guess only if they'll black and don't have the same dad
isn't that how ghetto works?


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:46pm
Huh?
Lol dang ppl call anything ghetto.

No

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Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:47pm


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Posted By: greenttby
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:49pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

i guess only if they'll black and don't have the same dad
isn't that how ghetto works?


The ghetto can't get a break.


Posted By: herwoman
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:50pm
If she is black It's ghetto, if she is white it was planned. I don't make the rules that's just how it be.

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Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:51pm
Nope.
But it is a possibility it could be considered irresponsible depending on their circumstances surrounding them.
 


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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:52pm
Yes if you're on govt assistance.



Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:55pm
By 2 different men, yes. 


Posted By: Becky
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:56pm

If she's Black .. it's Ghetto and if she's White it's Poor White Trash .... but I don't think it's either.

I just think it's rather .. gross. I mean you just pushed that big kid outta ya .. and your va jay jay .. was able to turn around and f*** again so much such that you got pregnant again? Dead Seems like you'd be out of commission for a while after having a kid.
 
However, it CAN'T be good on the body to produce two children in such a short space of time.
 
Gross.


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:57pm
no. y would it be?
other circumstances can make it a dumb move though.

but not just by having 2 kids in the same year.


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Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:57pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Yes if you're on govt assistance.


Originally posted by Naturalchick30 Naturalchick30 wrote:

By 2 different men, yes. 


This


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Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 5:58pm
Of course not. Regardless of actions or conduct, no one is ever ghetto.
If they are by 2 diff men, both of which are dead beats and/or in prison and the mother is 15 , and drank while pregnant, it is not ghetto.
 
Nothing or no one is EVER ghetto.
 
any one that doesn't agree is a "hater" and "judgemental".
 
LOL


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Posted By: AwesomeAries
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:01pm
Aren't you supposed to wait to have sex again?
Don't you need time to get it right, get it tight.
*does not have kids*


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:01pm
lord, please dont try to bring science into this 


Posted By: laceyfront
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:02pm
 
Can she afford them?
Is she married to the father?
Is he the father of both?
 
If you answered no to any of these questions then I would say yes.


Posted By: RedFoxx
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:02pm
Originally posted by Becky Becky wrote:

If she's Black .. it's Ghetto and if she's White it's Poor White Trash .... but I don't think it's either.


I just think it's rather .. gross. I mean you just pushed that big kid outta ya .. and your va jay jay .. was able to turn around and f*** again so much such that you got pregnant again? Dead Seems like you'd be out of commission for a while after having a kid.

 

However, it CAN'T be good on the body to produce two children in such a short space of time.

 

Gross.

what in the sam hell???

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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:03pm
I plan on having my kids in sets of two.

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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:04pm
Y'all are attaching all these negative qualifiers to it.
Why?

The question was two kids in a year.

In certain circumstances it isn't ideal and can be irresponsible but why are we automatically leaping towards that?

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Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:06pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Y'all are attaching all these negative qualifiers to it.
Why?

The question was two kids in a year.

In certain circumstances it isn't ideal and can be irresponsible but why are we automatically leaping towards that?

there's no other way to make the question make sense

and i believe that was the intent 


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:06pm
Because the question was so broad. I find nothing ghetto about it unless it fits a certain circumstance.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:06pm
Originally posted by Becky Becky wrote:

If she's Black .. it's Ghetto and if she's White it's Poor White Trash .... but I don't think it's either.

I just think it's rather .. gross. I mean you just pushed that big kid outta ya .. and your va jay jay .. was able to turn around and f*** again so much such that you got pregnant again? Dead Seems like you'd be out of commission for a while after having a kid.
 
However, it CAN'T be good on the body to produce two children in such a short space of time.
 
Gross.

The body likes it....which is why it's so easy to get pregnant right after. 


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Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:08pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Y'all are attaching all these negative qualifiers to it.
Why?

The question was two kids in a year.

In certain circumstances it isn't ideal and can be irresponsible but why are we automatically leaping towards that?


exactly



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Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:15pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Y'all are attaching all these negative qualifiers to it.
Why?

The question was two kids in a year.

In certain circumstances it isn't ideal and can be irresponsible but why are we automatically leaping towards that?


She asked if it was ghetto ppl said what would make it ghetto. She could have avoided the negative qualifiers that are associated with ghetto by simply asking if its a good ideal or not to have 2 kids in the same years that arent twins.


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Posted By: MissinCali
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:17pm
only if you are black and they have different dads...

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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:23pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

No.


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:24pm
no

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Posted By: Faithfully2002
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:26pm
Ghetto? No.       



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Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:26pm

White people call that Irish Twins and no it's not ghetto. 



Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:27pm
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Y'all are attaching all these negative qualifiers to it.
Why?

The question was two kids in a year.

In certain circumstances it isn't ideal and can be irresponsible but why are we automatically leaping towards that?


She asked if it was ghetto ppl said what would make it ghetto. She could have avoided the negative qualifiers that are associated with ghetto by simply asking if its a good ideal or not to have 2 kids in the same years that arent twins.


i guess..lol. thats just not how i tend to answer questions.

there is this psych test for a job-- they ask you to draw a house. Simple enough... draw a square w/ a triangle on top of it.. and a door and be done.

but what many ppl do... they start drawing windows, a garage..grass..flowers.. a tree. sun etc.

and they fail...lol

the extras will get you an L.


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Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:39pm
ain't my fault they live in a box


Posted By: ScorpioLuv
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:40pm
I asked bc I saw a girl I grew up with this morning and exclaimed to myself "damn, u pregnant again?!" I had seen this girl this past spring very pregnant and buying two 40s. I remember praying one wasn't for her. That's how I remembered she was prego. I told someone else I knew this, and they called it ghetto.

I already know she's not married. Don't ask me if it's by the same guy.

Idk why men love to knock up the slow girls. I remember her bc she was in the special Ed class next door in school. Two girls I've seen in 2 days from that class with 2-3 kids from that class. But that's another thread.

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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:42pm
If you saw a pregnant woman buyin 40s you knew damn well this was ghetto.


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:43pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

If you saw a pregnant woman buyin 40s you knew damn well this was ghetto.


But that wasn't the original question at all.

Ahh nevermind

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Posted By: juniordetective
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:44pm
What? No it's not ghetto. I know a girl who is 10 months younger than her sister.

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Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:44pm
No....why would it be ghetto?


Posted By: ScorpioLuv
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:45pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

If you saw a pregnant woman buyin 40s you knew damn well this was ghetto.
I asked bc I meant in general. The person I told the story to today, called it ghetto before I said anything about 40s. As soon I I said I saw her about to pop this past spring, they said ghetto

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Sons of bitches,smh


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:45pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

If you saw a pregnant woman buyin 40s you knew damn well this was ghetto.


But that wasn't the origanal question at all.

Ahh nevermind


I don't understand the point that's trying to be drilled...we all answered the question by giving our perspectives because that's what sparks conversation. If the thread was full of yes or no responses then there is no conversation.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:46pm
no...there was a member here who did it lol
she popped them out really quick...i think she and her dh just wanted the kids out
or maybe the kids were exactly a year apart


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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:48pm
There's not an issue if someone says no and then attaches their why but if we say yes but attach when it is a yes then we are being negative?


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:48pm
I hated seeing the special ed girls with kids.
Slow people need to be fixed.


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:49pm
I didn't say y'all were being negative I said y'all are automatically attaching negative qualifiers to it.
I just wondered why.

Op said she was asking generally.

Just interesting that's all

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Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:49pm
smh sang... 



ok so like.. ive been sitting here for like 30 seconds trying to figure out how its possible to have 2 kids in the same year.... 


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:50pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

There's not an issue if someone says no and then attaches their why but if we say yes but attach when it is a yes then we are being negative?


geezus


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:51pm
Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

I asked bc I saw a girl I grew up with this morning and exclaimed to myself "damn, u pregnant again?!" I had seen this girl this past spring very pregnant and buying two 40s. I remember praying one wasn't for her. That's how I remembered she was prego. I told someone else I knew this, and they called it ghetto.

I already know she's not married. Don't ask me if it's by the same guy.

Idk why men love to knock up the slow girls. I remember her bc she was in the special Ed class next door in school. Two girls I've seen in 2 days from that class with 2-3 kids from that class. But that's another thread.


same reason men date young women?


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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:51pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

smh sang... 



ok so like.. ive been sitting here for like 30 seconds trying to figure out how its possible to have 2 kids in the same year.... 

One in Jan....wait six weeks get preg mid Feb/Early March.....Have a baby in December. 

There are more than 9 months in a year.


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Posted By: juniordetective
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:52pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

smh sang... 



ok so like.. ive been sitting here for like 30 seconds trying to figure out how its possible to have 2 kids in the same year.... 


One kid could be born in January-Mid March and the other kid could be born in October-December.


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:52pm
I have a friend who has a sister 9 months her junior I think.
Never asked how.

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:52pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

smh sang... 



ok so like.. ive been sitting here for like 30 seconds trying to figure out how its possible to have 2 kids in the same year.... 

One in Jan....wait six weeks get preg mid Feb/Early March.....Have a baby in December. 

irish twins

...and many women do not wait 6 weeks. tory spelling got pregnant so quickly between her 3rd and 4th


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Posted By: juniordetective
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:52pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

smh sang... 



ok so like.. ive been sitting here for like 30 seconds trying to figure out how its possible to have 2 kids in the same year.... 

One in Jan....wait six weeks get preg mid Feb/Early March.....Have a baby in December. 

There are more than 9 months in a year.


That's if they wait the 6 weeks.


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:53pm
I know quite a few who have Irish twins in the family.

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Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:54pm
Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

If you saw a pregnant woman buyin 40s you knew damn well this was ghetto.
I asked bc I meant in general. The person I told the story to today, called it ghetto before I said anything about 40s. As soon I I said I saw her about to pop this past spring, they said ghetto

they had to have known something more about the story. be it the person, their race, whatever.

it makes no sense to call 2 babies in a year ghetto.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:54pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I didn't say y'all were being negative I said y'all are automatically attaching negative qualifiers to it.
I just wondered why.

Op said she was asking generally.

Just interesting that's all


A better question would've been "what do you think of a woman having two kids in the same year?"

The word ghetto was in the question to get those type of responses. To answer the question i would need to say what WOULD make it ghetto.


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:54pm
 
ok i get it. i feel hella slow 



Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 6:55pm
i was thinking of like.. the entire pregnancy, twice. 


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:00pm
off topic:
I always thought it was odd that me & my sibs were 2 years apart. 2 of us have birthdays in one month and the birthdays are 3  days a part.   2 have birthdays  in the very next month and their birthdays are also 3 days a part.

There is a 2 year age diff b/w all of us. Kinda made me think my parents only had sex every other year and in the same month of those years LOL. 
 


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:02pm
Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

off topic:
I always thought it was odd that me & my sibs were 2 years apart. 2 of us have birthdays in one month and the birthdays are 3  days a part.   2 have birthdays  in the very next month and their birthdays are also 3 days a part.

There is a 2 year age diff b/w all of us. Kinda made me think my parents only had sex every other year and in the same month of those years LOL. 
 


many ppl in my dh's family are september oct nov babies. they all must love sexing in the winter. 


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Posted By: modelbusiness82
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:02pm
I believe the term is officially called "irish twins"...meaning, your parents barely waited the appropriate required time before getting down to business again.

Is it ghetto? Not necessarily.

Is it intelligent? That's debatable. 


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Posted By: juniordetective
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:03pm
Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

off topic:
I always thought it was odd that me & my sibs were 2 years apart. 2 of us have birthdays in one month and the birthdays are 3  days a part.   2 have birthdays  in the very next month and their birthdays are also 3 days a part.

There is a 2 year age diff b/w all of us. Kinda made me think my parents only had sex every other year and in the same month of those years LOL. 
 


My brother is 3 years younger than me but then I have a step brother who is a year younger than me. So every year between January 21 and April 26 we seem like we're all one year apart.

Then my younger sister is 12 years younger than me and my older step sister is 12 years older. Our birthdays are March, April, and May.


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Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:03pm
i like your body and color juniorD 


Posted By: modelbusiness82
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:07pm
Honestly, I see nothing wrong with it IF you're financially and mentally prepared. Now that I'm 30 and just engaged, I'm not going to lie, when we get married next year, I'm not wasting time. We've been together for a super long time already and have already lived with each other for about 5 years now. There's no "getting to know each other" period left to explore. So, I'm not interested in being pregnant when I'm 37 lol.

Now, if you're just popping them out indiscriminately and have no real means of successfully supporting yourself and/or your brood...that's a fail.


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:09pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

off topic:
I always thought it was odd that me & my sibs were 2 years apart. 2 of us have birthdays in one month and the birthdays are 3  days a part.   2 have birthdays  in the very next month and their birthdays are also 3 days a part.

There is a 2 year age diff b/w all of us. Kinda made me think my parents only had sex every other year and in the same month of those years LOL. 
 


many ppl in my dh's family are september oct nov babies. they all must love sexing in the winter. 


are they every other year sex'ers too? lol


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Posted By: ScorpioLuv
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:10pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

I asked bc I saw a girl I grew up with this morning and exclaimed to myself "damn, u pregnant again?!" I had seen this girl this past spring very pregnant and buying two 40s. I remember praying one wasn't for her. That's how I remembered she was prego. I told someone else I knew this, and they called it ghetto.

I already know she's not married. Don't ask me if it's by the same guy.

Idk why men love to knock up the slow girls. I remember her bc she was in the special Ed class next door in school. Two girls I've seen in 2 days from that class with 2-3 kids from that class. But that's another thread.



same reason men date young women?
But by lower intellectual women by birth (they don't grow out of it) do u care about the kids intellect? Or the kids at all?

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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:12pm
Originally posted by juniordetective juniordetective wrote:



My brother is 3 years younger than me but then I have a step brother who is a year younger than me. So every year between January 21 and April 26 we seem like we're all one year apart.

Then my younger sister is 12 years younger than me and my older step sister is 12 years older. Our birthdays are March, April, and May.


I have half sibs too (brady bunch style) but their birthdays are spread out in different months and some are 1 year apart, some more.  I guess by the time my mom and dad got married and had us 4, they were on a sex ration.LOL


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Posted By: modelbusiness82
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:13pm
@jonesable...

I think it's just easy pickings. It's like picking up the apples that fell on the ground rather than putting in effort for the ones where you need a ladder and to stretch and pick them off the tree.

Why put in effort to snag a "catch" if all you want is to just get off? Why not just go after the silly girls (whether that's a true mental deficiency or poor judgement in general) who won't make you work for it?


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:14pm
Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

I asked bc I saw a girl I grew up with this morning and exclaimed to myself "damn, u pregnant again?!" I had seen this girl this past spring very pregnant and buying two 40s. I remember praying one wasn't for her. That's how I remembered she was prego. I told someone else I knew this, and they called it ghetto.

I already know she's not married. Don't ask me if it's by the same guy.

Idk why men love to knock up the slow girls. I remember her bc she was in the special Ed class next door in school. Two girls I've seen in 2 days from that class with 2-3 kids from that class. But that's another thread.



same reason men date young women?
But by lower intellectual women by birth (they don't grow out of it) do u care about the kids intellect? Or the kids at all?

these men do not care about those women or their seed


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:14pm
Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

@jonesable...

I think it's just easy pickings. It's like picking up the apples that fell on the ground rather than putting in effort for the ones where you need a ladder and to stretch and pick them off the tree.

Why put in effort to snag a "catch" if all you want is to just get off? Why not just go after the silly girls (whether that's a true mental deficiency or poor judgement in general) who won't make you work for it?


you sound like dr phil when he talks about low-hanging fruit LOL


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Posted By: ScorpioLuv
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:15pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

I asked bc I saw a girl I grew up with this morning and exclaimed to myself "damn, u pregnant again?!" I had seen this girl this past spring very pregnant and buying two 40s. I remember praying one wasn't for her. That's how I remembered she was prego. I told someone else I knew this, and they called it ghetto.

I already know she's not married. Don't ask me if it's by the same guy.

Idk why men love to knock up the slow girls. I remember her bc she was in the special Ed class next door in school. Two girls I've seen in 2 days from that class with 2-3 kids from that class. But that's another thread.



same reason men date young women?
But by lower intellectual women by birth (they don't grow out of it) do u care about the kids intellect? Or the kids at all?


these men do not care about those women or their seed
Ok

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Posted By: modelbusiness82
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:17pm
Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

@jonesable...

I think it's just easy pickings. It's like picking up the apples that fell on the ground rather than putting in effort for the ones where you need a ladder and to stretch and pick them off the tree.

Why put in effort to snag a "catch" if all you want is to just get off? Why not just go after the silly girls (whether that's a true mental deficiency or poor judgement in general) who won't make you work for it?


you sound like dr phil when he talks about low-hanging fruit LOL


haha!LOL

I'm just sayin...I see it all the time here in the BX...the silly girls stay with rounded bellies while the dude is on to the next. No lie, I swear there's a guy on my block who has like 3 or 4 kids by 2 of the girls who live literally a few buildings down from each other.

I SMH at these girls and wonder what happened that their mama never taught them to NOT deal with a dude on the block who deals with other girls on the block. It's a skankfest out here!


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Posted By: zsazsa
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:19pm
why don't people just mind their own business.




Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:23pm
^^hi zsa

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Posted By: zsazsa
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:51pm
waves to purple. Heyyyyyyyyy


Posted By: csungrl09
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:08pm
LOL me and my brother were both born in the same year. 

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Posted By: Ms.Best
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:10pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I hated seeing the special ed girls with kids.
Slow people need to be fixed.





I read your comments, then look at your avi, reread your comments then relook at your avi then think " you're just so pretty to be so ignorant"


Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:15pm
Originally posted by Ms.Best Ms.Best wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

I hated seeing the special ed girls with kids.
Slow people need to be fixed.





I read your comments, then look at your avi, reread your comments then relook at your avi then think " you're just so pretty to be so ignorant"
 
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Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:16pm
Originally posted by greenttby greenttby wrote:

Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

i guess only if they'll black and don't have the same dad
isn't that how ghetto works?


The ghetto can't get a break.
LOL

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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:17pm
There's nothing ignorant about what I said.
HS drop outs need to be fixed too.


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Posted By: Babydoll9163
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:21pm
No. It's not ghetto.

It seems irresponsible though.



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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:30pm
^^yes this is my thinking too. no biggie. Some couples (women) plan this so they will be close in age. 

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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:33pm
how can having kids be ghetto?Confused


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Posted By: EasterBell
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:34pm
If she not in a good financial situation with supportive environment and the babies are not from the same man, then yes it's pretty ghetto.


Posted By: RachelRegina
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:39pm
My sister and I are like this. I don't think it's ghetto but lawd, I know my momma cooch was hurting!


Posted By: RachelRegina
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:42pm
Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

Aren't you supposed to wait to have sex again?
Don't you need time to get it right, get it tight.
*does not have kids*


Yeah you're supposed to wait at least six weeks. In my mothers case, she waited EXACTLY six weeks and got preggo with my sister.

It was kinda weird growing up explaining to folks why we are the same age for a month and some change when we're not twins lol. Not to mention we look very alike. we always got mixed up in school.....even had the same teachers in most cases.


Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:44pm
Originally posted by RedFoxx RedFoxx wrote:

Originally posted by Becky Becky wrote:

If she's Black .. it's Ghetto and if she's White it's Poor White Trash .... but I don't think it's either.


I just think it's rather .. gross. I mean you just pushed that big kid outta ya .. and your va jay jay .. was able to turn around and f*** again so much such that you got pregnant again? Dead Seems like you'd be out of commission for a while after having a kid.

 

However, it CAN'T be good on the body to produce two children in such a short space of time.

 

Gross.

what in the sam hell???
 
 
LOLLOL


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:45pm
I don't think it's ghetto. If you can afford it then I don't see the problem. Me personally, I don't think I could handle two kids so close in age like that though.


Posted By: RachelRegina
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 9:49pm
The slang term is called "Irish Twins" as it has been stated quite it few times in here. It's called that from the stereotype that Irish Catholics have children back to back to back.

I was born Feb 84 and my sister Dec 84. We are the same age for about a month and a week (I think) then it's my bday.

I remember explaining it to some people in school and of course their dumbasses would say, "Are you sure you're not twins?"


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 10:12pm
Originally posted by Naturalchick30 Naturalchick30 wrote:

Originally posted by RedFoxx RedFoxx wrote:

Originally posted by Becky Becky wrote:

If she's Black .. it's Ghetto and if she's White it's Poor White Trash .... but I don't think it's either.


I just think it's rather .. gross. I mean you just pushed that big kid outta ya .. and your va jay jay .. was able to turn around and f*** again so much such that you got pregnant again? Dead Seems like you'd be out of commission for a while after having a kid.

 

However, it CAN'T be good on the body to produce two children in such a short space of time.

 

Gross.

what in the sam hell???
 
 
LOLLOL
well becky is right. mine are a almost 2 years apart and my body wasnt even healed from the first one yet. it caused all kinds of pain during my second pregnancy when he started to grow. Cry it was hard to stand sometimes.


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Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 10:15pm
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

Originally posted by Naturalchick30 Naturalchick30 wrote:

Originally posted by RedFoxx RedFoxx wrote:

Originally posted by Becky Becky wrote:

If she's Black .. it's Ghetto and if she's White it's Poor White Trash .... but I don't think it's either.


I just think it's rather .. gross. I mean you just pushed that big kid outta ya .. and your va jay jay .. was able to turn around and f*** again so much such that you got pregnant again? Dead Seems like you'd be out of commission for a while after having a kid.

 

However, it CAN'T be good on the body to produce two children in such a short space of time.

 

Gross.

what in the sam hell???
 
 
LOLLOL
well becky is right. mine are a almost 2 years apart and my body wasnt even healed from the first one yet. it caused all kinds of pain during my second pregnancy when he started to grow. Cry it was hard to stand sometimes.

I do agree with Becky as far as the possible health risk and it kind of being gross but all women's bodies are different though. Some women bounce back quicker and heal quicker than others after a pregnancy.


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 10:26pm
Damn having kids back to back is gross?


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 10:36pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

Damn having kids back to back is gross?

As far as getting pregnant like RIGHT after you've just had a baby I think it's disgusting especially if you had sex before you were barely even healed up from just having the child.


Posted By: Sinnamon_Mami
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 10:36pm
I had mine back to back 15 months apart... You can start having sex after your 6 weeks of healing, and people usually forget after your first child, it's easier to get pregnant again.. I love that they're close in age: they are the best of friends because they're so close in age..I don't think it's ghetto, but other people might.. I've realized it doesn't matter what you do, because your black, someone will deem it as "ghetto"

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Posted By: modelbusiness82
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 10:44pm
IMO...it's only "ghetto" (regardless of race) if you can't afford to have "as many as the Lord will allow". You can be Hispanic, you can be white...etc. But if you can't afford your kids, invest in birth control. 

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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Dec 16 2012 at 2:34am
lol

the body can deal with it..

the only diff thing that impacts it is your lifestyle and general state of health and wellbeing

some people are just sicker than others, that doesnt mean that the body can not cope with multiple births in a the space of 12 months

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Posted By: rsslove
Date Posted: Dec 16 2012 at 2:49am
Ghetto? No
 
Irish twins? Yes


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 16 2012 at 3:19am
Making poor decisions is ghetto.
BHM has learned me.


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Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Dec 16 2012 at 3:36am
Originally posted by rsslove rsslove wrote:

Ghetto? No
 
Irish twins? Yes


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Posted By: Prazol60
Date Posted: Dec 16 2012 at 4:54am
It happened to three people very close to me... I think it is gross and one had serious health problems because of it. 



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