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Topic: Gynecologists - what is your preference
Posted By: lambkin
Subject: Gynecologists - what is your preference
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:15pm
Inspired by the grooming thread LOL

Man or woman gyn? What is your preference?

I prefer men, I don't like seeing a woman down there.


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Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:17pm
I prefer a lady. 

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Posted By: Babydoll9163
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:17pm
I've only ever had a male gyno. I don't really care about the gender.


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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:17pm
don't care

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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:19pm
i always request a lady

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Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:20pm
I used to want a male gyno, but now I'm passed the point of caring.

Get in, get out, and don't be too rough.

I've heard some women only want other ladies, though....they say they're a little more "sympathetic"


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:20pm
don't care. do your job


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:22pm
I will not go to a male .
That would just be a disaster.

I randomly started crying when I was in an elevator with a white guy the other day. Lol

It's that bad . Female please


Posted By: texasmami0117
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:22pm
I prefer a lady because my SO told me I prefer a lady LOL


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:24pm
both at the same time


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Posted By: Rumbera
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:24pm
don't care.
 
All of them have been men


Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:26pm
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

both at the same time

NassyLOL.


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:28pm
my first was an old black man. no thanks. and bc my school was a teaching hospital someone else looked on.
now i go to a nice black lady. i like her


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Posted By: SpunkiBrewsta
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:32pm
man. less small talk.


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:33pm
i have a man.
i need a new one.

the one thing i loved about my dr-- he is located in an office right across from my house.

the one thing i hated about him-- everyone I know goes to him. he's seen everyone I know's gina. from my mom-- sis...he's delivered damn near all my friends kids. its just odd to me.



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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:34pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I will not go to a male .
That would just be a disaster.

I randomly started crying when I was in an elevator with a white guy the other day. Lol

It's that bad . Female please
whats going on with you?Confused


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:35pm
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:


Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I will not go to a male .
That would just be a disaster.

I randomly started crying when I was in an elevator with a white guy the other day. Lol

It's that bad . Female please
whats going on with you?Confused


I am often uncomfortable around unknown males in enclosed areas.


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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:41pm
oh awww i can understand that. Hug

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Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:43pm
i dont really have a preference but mine is male. ive been through a lot of gynecologists LOL *whore*LOL until i found one i really like and i feel respects and listens to me.  for some reasons ive had some pretty negative experiences with female gynecologist.


Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:47pm
Last time I visited my gyno to pick up some bc pills, she had a male medical student observing with her. My gyno wanted to do a breast exam and dude was looking at me funny like he was looking forward to watching or something. Made me uncomfortable. I was like, nah, lets schedule the exam for next time. 

I could not and would not have a male gyn.


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Posted By: danieb23
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:48pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:


Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I will not go to a male .
That would just be a disaster.

I randomly started crying when I was in an elevator with a white guy the other day. Lol

It's that bad . Female please
whats going on with you?Confused


I am often uncomfortable around unknown males in enclosed areas.
Hug


Posted By: gabi03
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 3:51pm
doesnt matter to me, but I prefer a woman obgyn. I like to talk about my anatomy with someone who has the same parts as me. I know they all have the same education but personal experience with a vagina I think gives women obgyn's the advantage sometimes.


Posted By: lambkin
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:14pm
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

Last time I visited my gyno to pick up some bc pills, she had a male medical student observing with her. My gyno wanted to do a breast exam and dude was looking at me funny like he was looking forward to watching or something. Made me uncomfortable. I was like, nah, lets schedule the exam for next time. 

I could not and would not have a male gyn.


That happened to me when I went for a breast ultrasound. The doctor said I had beautiful breasts LOL

He was a bit creepy though


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Posted By: lambkin
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:19pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


so when their fingers are inside your vagina.....why do they try to talk to you?

be quiet while you are in there....only ask questions that have to with vagina....not my day


LOL  IDK, some are quiet and some like commenting on my privates.

I've never had the chatty ones who wanted to discuss weather.

I had one condescending bastard I don't go to anymore.



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Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:20pm
I prefer a woman.
 
Mine is a woman.. A black woman in fact. She is awesome x 10! Approve
 
In fact, all of my doctors are women..


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Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:22pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


so when their fingers are inside your vagina.....why do they try to talk to you?

be quiet while you are in there....only ask questions that have to with vagina....not my day
 
 
I had a visit in October and while she was digging in my cooch, she was asking me about my natural hair and telling me that she is transitioning to natural.. Dead
 
It seems like they talk the most when their head is between your legs for some reason.


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Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:26pm
lambkin, that is so not coolLOL

I just wonder though. Of all the fields of medicine to choose from, why would any man choose to be a gyn? I assume they all have creeper tendencies tbh. Its all in my head though, probably.


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Posted By: Babydoll9163
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:26pm
A lot of them talk because they know how uncomfortable the procedure is. Making you talk takes your mind off of it (at least it does for me).

My gyn talks before mostly. The only thing he discusses while the exam is going on is what he's doing i.e. you will feel a small pinch, I'm going to press on your stomach, etc. etc.



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Posted By: lambkin
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:26pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by lambkin lambkin wrote:

Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


so when their fingers are inside your vagina.....why do they try to talk to you?

be quiet while you are in there....only ask questions that have to with vagina....not my day


LOL  IDK, some are quiet and some like commenting on my privates.

I've never had the chatty ones who wanted to discuss weather.

I had one condescending bastard I don't go to anymore.



asking about my life while you caress my walls....no thanks

it is even worse when it is a woman

and when they feel my breasts......too intimate

maybe it is b/c my new gyn is an attractive black womanOuch


Here it's not customary for a gyn to check breasts. But if it were, I'd prefer a young, attractive one.
At my first exam at 19, the doc was ancient, over 70.




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Posted By: lambkin
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:28pm
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

lambkin, that is so not coolLOL

I just wonder though. Of all the fields of medicine to choose from, why would any man choose to be a gyn? I assume they all have creeper tendencies tbh. Its all in my head though, probably.


What is not cool? Smile

I don't know, I heard that here they don't have the option of choosing. They just go where they are sent.


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Posted By: LushHair_Fein
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:33pm
Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

I used to want a male gyno, but now I'm passed the point of caring.

Get in, get out, and don't be too rough.

I've heard some women only want other ladies, though....they say they're a little more "sympathetic"


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Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:34pm
not cool that you gyn said you have nice breasticles

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Posted By: texasmami0117
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:36pm
The whole thing is awkward no matter who is down there...i'm either trying to tough it through the pain (that coochie-expander really hurts) or trying not to fart. Ermm


Posted By: Babydoll9163
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:36pm
lol I feel you Samone. I don't know what it would be like if he was trying to ask personal questions while all in my vag.




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Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:51pm
I would be so embarrassed if I had a hot male GYN.
I would die a thousand deaths if my vagina started pulsating on some mess.


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Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:56pm
You know, I always felt I preferred a lady, but after my last Pap smear, which was done by a male, I realize I just don't care. I don't know these people and most likely won't see them again.


Guess I'm bigyno or something.

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Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 4:57pm
a woman. i had a really traumatic experience with the male gyno that did my first exam. i wish going to the gyno was not necessary


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Posted By: honeyb87
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 6:37pm
Def. a woman. A black woman at that. 

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Posted By: IslandSuga
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 6:44pm
I had a bad experience with a woman when I was in highschool so my gyno's now have been men. I like that they're quick and to the point, but sometimes they're not always sympathetic and wanting to chat about my body. In the future I would want a woman, a black one at that. 


Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 6:50pm
Men don't understand what the female body goes through. Don't care how much schooling he has, he will never understand.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 6:51pm
Originally posted by Miss SDY Miss SDY wrote:

I prefer a woman.
 
Mine is a woman.. A black woman in fact. She is awesome x 10! Approve
 
In fact, all of my doctors are women..
I'm jalous.Ouch



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Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 6:53pm
i've only had women gynecologists, but i've had men gastroenterologists

so it really doesn't matter, im still being violated :(


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 7:15pm
Female. 

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Men don't understand what the female body goes through. Don't care how much schooling he has, he will never understand.

IA, my gynecologist is really able to relate o me wih my feminine issues whereas I doubt a male would be able to relate or sympathize. 


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 7:15pm
I've had only female gynos and female nurses


My first appointment was last yr and the Gyno invited the nurse back in (without asking me) because she thought it would be "more comfortable" for me Confused

Umm no b*tch. What would be "more comfortable" is if there was only 1 person at a time looking at my vagina


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 7:21pm
There's always had a nurse in the room. I thought the law says there always has to be a nurse in the room to be sure the doctor doesn't attempt to do anything 'extra'Dead.

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Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 7:23pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

There's always had a nurse in the room. I thought the law says there always has to be a nurse in the room to be sure the doctor doesn't attempt to do anything 'extra'Dead.

I've never had a nurse in the room at my appointments. I don't think I'd want a nurse in the room either to be quite honest. I don't need a million and one ppl all up in my cooch.


Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 7:24pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

There's always had a nurse in the room. I thought the law says there always has to be a nurse in the room to be sure the doctor doesn't attempt to do anything 'extra'Dead.

There's only been one person in the room with me, and that was the lady checking my cooch. She was a nurse practitioner, though...does that somehow negate what ever doctor/nurse law that's in place?


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 7:34pm
I've had the same woman for almost 25 years now and have sent her so many patients over the years. She delivered my nieces. I've had male ob/gyns in the past. One I had to cut loose after he kept making comments and asking weird questions like: what I used for hair removal and why didn't I have an razor bumps ("it's so nice and smooth").

Me and my gyn chat constantly during the exam. In the beginning, I usually struck up the conversations first.  But I'm a talker lol.

eta: I prefer women

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Posted By: decemberdiamond
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 7:57pm
I enjoy my male ob/gyn he keeps it professional and comfortable


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 8:09pm
female. had a bad experience with a male gyno.

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Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 8:48pm
I have had both a male and female gyno. For the most part,I will get a woman.

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Posted By: Babydoll9163
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 8:52pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


only if the doctor is a man.....I believe


There's always been a nurse in the room with my male gyno. I thought it was standard for everyone. lol the things you learn.


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Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 9:00pm
Aww OuchHug

Di you care share?

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

female. had a bad experience with a male gyno.


Posted By: creole booty
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 9:34pm
My child's father just said he doesn't like make drs because he feels like they don't take their time and their usually unsympathetic, pricks, cocky, and unpersonable.

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Posted By: MissinCali
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 10:23pm
all of my Dr's except for my Dentist are female..

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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 10:27pm
awww to the bad male experiences...Hug





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Posted By: Beautiful_One
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 10:29pm
Prefer a male Alwayz.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 13 2012 at 10:31pm
I am gender neutral but prefer my obgyn to have an accent for some reason lol I'll take one of those British Indian docs.


Posted By: lambkin
Date Posted: Dec 14 2012 at 1:01am
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

not cool that you gyn said you have nice breasticles


Meh, didn't upset me... he didn't make a pass at me or was inappropriate +  doctors adore me for some reason LOL


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Posted By: lambkin
Date Posted: Dec 14 2012 at 1:02am
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

I am gender neutral but prefer my obgyn to have an accent for some reason lol I'll take one of those British Indian docs.


This is so cute and funny LOL


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Posted By: miana79
Date Posted: Dec 14 2012 at 1:17am
I wish I could find find a black female doctorDisapprove


Posted By: honeyb87
Date Posted: Dec 14 2012 at 1:44am
Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Men don't understand what the female body goes through. Don't care how much schooling he has, he will never understand.


This. Clap


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Posted By: juniordetective
Date Posted: Dec 14 2012 at 3:39am
I want a black female gynecologist.

But I'm not old enough to go to one yet. I went to one about BC though. She was a middle-aged White lady.

My mom's gynecololgist is an old White man.


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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Dec 14 2012 at 3:44am
Originally posted by honeyb87 honeyb87 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Men don't understand what the female body goes through. Don't care how much schooling he has, he will never understand.


This. Clap
heck i dont think half them women understand, using them big ol tools...im like yo lady not everyone has a gap like you do.

my indian gyno gets it though.LOL



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Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Dec 14 2012 at 3:52am
Originally posted by juniordetective juniordetective wrote:

I want a black female gynecologist.

But I'm not old enough to go to one yet. I went to one about BC though. She was a middle-aged White lady.

My mom's gynecololgist is an old White man.

What did you get the BC for? They recommend all sexually active women to see one. Actually, they recommend all women 15+ to go see one, but they really want you to go if you're sexually active. 


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