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Topic: when you bump into an ex..
Posted By: afrokock
Subject: when you bump into an ex..
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 2:49am
i read something in the relationship section the other day that got me thinking

when you bump into an ex and they are with someone who is almost a carbon copy of you, would you think that its creepy,feel flattered or just chalk it up to your ex having a type or maybe even perceive it as your ex wanting that old thing back?



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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..



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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 2:50am
People have types.
I probably wasn't the first anyway.


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 2:53am
naww she's white and extremely unattractive. i might post a pic cause it's late night/early morning and im tired of writing this paper.

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Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 2:54am
Ha.... he wished he would find a carbon copy of me *flips hair over my shoulder*

At first I would be flattered but then I would be insulted cuz I know that trick is nothing like me Stern Smile

But he likes big booty dark skinned girls so it's unlikely


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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 2:56am
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:


Ha.... he wished he would find a carbon copy of me *flips hair over my shoulder*

At first I would be flattered but then I would be insulted cuz I know that trick is nothing like me Stern Smile

But he likes big booty dark skinned girls so it's unlikely

lol

[mj] shamon, ye hee[/bad]

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 2:56am
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

naww she's white and extremely unattractive. i might post a pic cause it's late night/early morning and im tired of writing this paper.


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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 2:57am
Waits for pitcha


Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 2:58am
I would just assume she's his type, just like I was.

I did have an ex who used to tell me I was the first/only brown skinned girl he talked to cuz he usually liked "redbones" (his words). I would see pics or Facebooks, and he definitely was not checking for us brown-dark women. He used to say that sh!t like I should be honored, which is part of the reason we ended.

Every chick I've seen him with since, has been a brown chick, so I kinda feel like I made him open up his horizons .


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 3:14am
waits

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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 3:17am
lol...@ the thought of him tryna get a copy of me.

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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 3:21am
*Waits for busted O pic* lol

I'd perceive it as my exes having personality/physical likes that attracted them to the new boo.

Now if the new boo looked just like me and had a similar personality, I would be freaked out more than a little bit.LOL


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Posted By: Eden.
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 3:44am
lol ye she had piercings and thick rimmed frames and everything. it was crazy. she was just a lil taller and had more tats.

i knew he had a type tho


Posted By: missunfoolish
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 4:35am
yea this happened before

i was just like.. eh whatever
kind of annoyed though lol


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 5:37am
Originally posted by Eden. Eden. wrote:

lol ye she had piercings and thick rimmed frames and everything. it was crazy. she was just a lil taller and had more tats.

i knew he had a type tho
lol..

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: khivey
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 6:11am
Nope..but I see this with other guys I know.

I notice that I resembled the mother or sister with exes..it is pretty creepy and usually I don't notice it until someone else points it out. I remember for a while I would always ask to see family pictures and I would look to see if there was some sort of resemblance and it was the case LOL


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Posted By: Addicted19034
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 6:11am
All my exes live in diff states.



Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:04am
aww yall i feel asleep Cry

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Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:44am
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

naww she's white and extremely unattractive. i might post a pic cause it's late night/early morning and im tired of writing this paper.


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Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:46am
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

I would just assume she's his type, just like I was.

I did have an ex who used to tell me I was the first/only brown skinned girl he talked to cuz he usually liked "redbones" (his words). I would see pics or Facebooks, and he definitely was not checking for us brown-dark women. He used to say that sh!t like I should be honored, which is part of the reason we ended.

Every chick I've seen him with since, has been a brown chick, so I kinda feel like I made him open up his horizons .


Why would you even accept a man like this.. No wonder you two broke up, he sounds ignorant. LOL


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Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:47am
If an ex somehow manages to get a carbon copy of me, I will be amazed.

Then I'll be hella creeped out.


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Posted By: solo
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 7:49am
My ex is dating someone who looks a lot like me except:
She's skinnier than me and has no ass
Didn't play a sport
Is older than both of us and still getting her bachelors
Not too cute in the face and has ratchet tendencies

However she is Greek and when he crossed he got him a Greek girl. And she loves him way more than I ever did... That dude was hard to deal with.

So he's doing pretty well.

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Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 9:39am
ummmm its happened to me twice. guy #1- i wasn't dating him with marriage in mind so it really didn't matter. We looked so much a like, we could've been sisters.  guy #2 - she didn't look anything like me. (i didn't think she was attractive) but she was giving it up and i wasn't....so ya'll do the math

other than that...i've never ran to any of my execs after a breakup so i've never had to deal with it. 

my exes don't look alike. 


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:02am
he has a type but the only thing me and his current have in common is the we're light skin. i'm his preferred look tho cuz she skinny with no azz Approve He lauce Tongue

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Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:08am
Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:

Nope..but I see this with other guys I know.

I notice that I resembled the mother or sister with exes..it is pretty creepy and usually I don't notice it until someone else points it out. I remember for a while I would always ask to see family pictures and I would look to see if there was some sort of resemblance and it was the case LOL
 
Lol I get this all of the time.  Strangers have even mistaken us for siblingsStern Smile


Posted By: Chyna_Li
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:09am
nah
i seem to always go for the same types as well


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:10am
id be flattered. 
but i know that he'd never find another like me so id snicker 




Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:17am
Originally posted by solo solo wrote:

My ex is dating someone who looks a lot like me except:
She's skinnier than me and has no ass
Didn't play a sport
Is older than both of us and still getting her bachelors
Not too cute in the face and has ratchet tendencies

However she is Greek and when he crossed he got him a Greek girl. And she loves him way more than I ever did... That dude was hard to deal with.

So he's doing pretty well.


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Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:39am

"Don't you ever get to thinkin' you're irreplaceable"

 
If I felt anything, it would be that.
 
A guy I dated waaaaaay back in the day got with just about every tall, light-skinned woman with long hair from Boston to Miami. It wasn't particularly flattering.


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Posted By: Wildfire
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:43am
they dont got no copies of me nowheres




Stern Smile


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Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:44am
Me neither . One of a kind baby.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 10:48am
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

"Don't you ever get to thinkin' you're irreplaceable"

 
If I felt anything, it would be that.
 
A guy I dated waaaaaay back in the day got with just about every tall, light-skinned woman with long hair from Boston to Miami. It wasn't particularly flattering.

YOU BETTER QUOTE THE QUEEN!

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Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Dec 10 2012 at 11:12am
I'm fairly sure my ex has taken a time out since I broke up with him. If he hasn't, I think he would try to find a copy. The closet he'd get is a mutual friend of ours. Since this isn't horseshoes or hand grenades, he'd still be WAY off. Anyone after me will PALE in comparison.

My reaction would be, " !! Nice try though."

I wouldn't particularly feel anything. We're on good terms and talk, but he's not my problem/concern anymore.

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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:22pm
lol
I'd probably just think he has a type.

my GFs say my hub looks like one of my exes. I didn't notice it until they mentioned.


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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:29pm
My 2 of my exes gf's look better than me.



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Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:35pm
I'd find it interesting but then I'd go right back to not giving a damn.

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Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:39pm
Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

I'd find it interesting but then I'd go right back to not giving a damn.




Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:40pm
No one I date ever seems to have a type

My ex's gfs don't look like me

My currents ex's ain't even my race sooo yeah


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Dec 15 2012 at 7:44pm
Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

they dont got no copies of me nowheres




Stern Smile


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