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Topic: Is it rude for your guests
Posted By: tropical-punch
Subject: Is it rude for your guests
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:28pm
to bring their dog with them when they come to stay/visit you, especially if you do not have dogs and do not like animals in your house?



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Posted By: foxyroy19
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:29pm
Very rude!

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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:30pm
It's disgusting.
Animals belong outside.


Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:31pm
they should have asked. but at the same time, where did you expect them to keep their doggy?



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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:32pm
Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

they should have asked. but at the same time, where did you expect them to keep their doggy?



there are dog hotels if it's an extended trip

my mom's friend leaves her dog in the car bc my mom is petrified of dogs
what usually happens is that kids play with him outside while my mom cowers in the house


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Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:34pm
aren't dog hotels like super expensive?
some people consider dogs family. its hard to be away from them for some. 


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Posted By: nikietc
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:34pm
yes.

I live in a dog/cat-free building, so they'd be SOL anyway.

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Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:35pm
this happened to my mom. her sister brought her dog and he did the one thing she did not want him to do. Piss on the floor. And she didn't even attempt to clean it up. My grandma was the one who ended up cleaning it. Angry


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:36pm
Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

aren't dog hotels like super expensive?
some people consider dogs family. its hard to be away from them for some. 

that's a cost of having a dog
/shrugs/


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Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:36pm
yes it's bloody rude.
One of my colleagues brought her big ass dog o the office.
It's bad enough that it was summer and her wet dog odor was acting up, but then she brought her bloody dog with her!!!To the office???? for real though? 
Not a small little thing, a big ass animal that reaches my hips!!! 
The office wreaked for the est of the afternoon of rank wet dogs.   


Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:37pm
If they haven't asked you if it's okay first then I think it's rude since not all people are comfortable with dogs. 


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:37pm
yes, if they know you don't like animals in your house 

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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:38pm
So damn rude.

I also think its rude to invite ppl to your house without telling them you have 6 big dogs.

My professor did this ish and one of our book readings for the literary club.
I mean huge dogs.
Me and the black guy there weren't feeling it at all.
Then we had a potluck one night and the dogs were all up on us.

Ughhh

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Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:39pm
I have a fenced yard and a garage. *shrug*

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Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:39pm
thats the cost of someone you love that has a dog. sometimes you let them stay in your house. 

*shrug*


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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:40pm
yes its rude and you wont bring your dog into my home. nope never ever. yuck. not even on my balcony. nope. yuck gross

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Posted By: foxyroy19
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:41pm
I think it is extremely rude and once they were at the door it was your responsibility to tell them that you don't allow dogs of any size in your home.  People need to know what to expect before crossing the threshold.  Boarding a dog is not that expensive for a couple of days it becomes expensive if the dog has not be given the shots appropriate to be boarded.

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:42pm
Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

thats the cost of someone you love that has a dog. sometimes you let them stay in your house. 

*shrug*

not even.

when ppl with pets travel they typically have to make arrangements which includes a doggie hotel. how is this any different?

i find that dog owners are loathe to accept the idea that some people do not like dogs, including yours. so no, i do not care if he is "super friendly." put that bitch on a leash per the city bylaws


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Posted By: JamCaygirl
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:43pm
Damn rude....

I had a friend who invited a couple over for dinner and they brought the dog....

All was fine until the guest fed the leftovers from their plate to the dog on the hostesses china....

who tf does that? I would have been beyond upset...

she threw the plate out


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Posted By: foxyroy19
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:43pm
I am upfront with people that come to my house or plan to come to my house that I have pets...if you have a fear or  real or imagine allergies...do not enter...no skin off my nose.

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:45pm
Originally posted by JamCaygirl JamCaygirl wrote:

Damn rude....

I had a friend who invited a couple over for dinner and they brought the dog....

All was fine until the guest fed the leftovers from their plate to the dog on the hostesses china....

who tf does that? I would have been beyond upset...

she threw the plate out


omg on real housewives of beverly hills, Lisa's dog drank out of Adrienne's expensive goblets...had to be like 1k minimum goblets.  everyone at the table was like Confused


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Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:46pm
I see people feeding their dogs from their forks
I nearly passed the hell out!

I had a dog as a child, and I looooved him so. But the day he shat on our carpet in our bar was the day my mother told my father, either the dog goes, or I do. lmao. She was wrong for that since the dog was MINE. 

Haven't had a pet since. And since your dog can't live outside in this country, I doubt I ever will until I move back to the Caribbean.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:46pm
Never in my 21 yrs of life have I ever heard of someone bringing their dog to someone's house to visit.


Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:47pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

thats the cost of someone you love that has a dog. sometimes you let them stay in your house. 

*shrug*

not even.

when ppl with pets travel they typically have to make arrangements which includes a doggie hotel. how is this any different?

if you're travelling to a friend or family's house, [which isn't a hotel] it can easily be considered that the dog is welcome. if the friend/family knows you have a dog, and probably intend on travelling with him, they should have said something.

this isn't some golden rule. most people calling it rude aren't even uncomfortable around dogs. 
so.. you can f*ck and leave your dna in someone's house, but they can't bring a dog (considering that its well behaved, and you'd clean after him)


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:48pm
seems strange

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Posted By: foxyroy19
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:48pm
I understand where you are coming from Flowing....LOL

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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:48pm
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Never in my 21 yrs of life have I ever heard of someone bringing their dog to someone's house to visit.


me either.

Find a sitter or something

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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:50pm
Dogs and ppl are just different to me.
You can fuk at my place but do not bring your dog.

No

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:50pm
why is fvkking being brought into this? that's a natural human psychological function.  having a pet is not.  mostly everyone fvcks. not everyone has a pet.

i would never assume my pet were invited to someones home. maybe im just not an inconsiderate person. whatever.


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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:50pm
Don't make no deviled eggs in my house either. 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:51pm
psychological? 


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:51pm
I'd even allow a dog before someone brings a cat.


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Posted By: foxyroy19
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:51pm
Etiquette goes beyond...we cool or we family....Etiquette speaks volumes about your upbringing and your willingness to not offend.

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Posted By: foxyroy19
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:52pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I'd even allow a dog before someone brings a cat.
 
 
 
You got to love the kitties....LOL  don't discriminate!


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:52pm
is the animal in a carrier ?


eta: ok I see , he wasn't . she should have cleaned it up.


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Posted By: Kiwistardust
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:52pm
We've brought our dogs to relative's houses states over. They have dogs as well. We say we're bringing ours. Everyone's cool . . . Can't think of any other instances.

Then again, I grew up with dogs, so they're not a problem for me to handle.

But yeah it's rude if they don't ask you if they can bring the dog.


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Posted By: JamCaygirl
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:53pm
what does this have to do with fvcking?

where does it end?

Can I bring my cat? my snake? my monkey? my lesula?




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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:54pm
Omg jam

Omg

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Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:54pm
i don't even like dogs. 
and i'd tell them, hey... don't bring your dog. 

if im visiting someone with dogs they have the courtesy of leaving their dogs either outside, or they have those gate things set up. 

but at the same time, you guys are being odd about this. this is family. you should be comfortable enough to tell them you don't want the dog in your house. the dog pissing on your carpet was nasty, and their owner was even nastier for not offering to clean it up. 


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Posted By: Kiwistardust
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:54pm
That pic scared the sh!t outta me and now I hate you.

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Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:56pm
I dunno...back home in Guyana I'd bring my monkey over to my friend's house. 
He'd probably follow me all the way there from tree to tree anyway. LOL



Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 10:57pm
I don't even think my family would even try this.

Maybe if some fam from up north comes home and tries to act new ,yeah when they get here I would tell them no mam he can stay on the porch.

And we'd go from there

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Posted By: bubblyboo
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:04pm
Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

I dunno...back home in Guyana I'd bring my monkey over to my friend's house. 
He'd probably follow me all the way there from tree to tree anyway. LOL


That is sooo cute I literally loled LOL


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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:06pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

this happened to my mom. her sister brought her dog and he did the one thing she did not want him to do. Piss on the floor. And she didn't even attempt to clean it up. My grandma was the one who ended up cleaning it. Angry
Let granny get on her hands & knees to clean up dog piss?Ouch

Now this is some sh*t, no pun intended.


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Posted By: bubblyboo
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:08pm
I don't think its rude if you ask beforehand and actually get an ok. Its funny because my mom and I were just talking about this. My sister got a dog and she takes the dog EVERYWHERE she goes and to EVERYONE'S home and its hella rude because even though I have a dog, my sister lives locally so wtf Confused. Its not like shes coming from hundreds of miles away to visit. I would be a little more understanding if it was the latter. Hes an american bulldog so its not like bringing little "fee fee" over in a handbag type of thing. That big ass dog be running around like he lost his mind tearing up everyones sheit Dead 

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Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:12pm
It's rude as hell. Both her and her dog woulda had to mosey on over to a hotel, and if she had a problem with it, oh well.


Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:13pm
Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

thats the cost of someone you love that has a dog. sometimes you let them stay in your house. 

*shrug*

I wish a nicca would. 
If they bring a big ass dog to my house unannounced, and had a problem with it being outside, they can make other arrangements. Not a single fck will be given. 


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Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:14pm
rude and very presumptuous!

You and your human family can stay, but the dog stays in the back yard.


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Posted By: Ladycoils
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:15pm
Hell yes it is rude. You need to ask me first

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Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:17pm
Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

I dunno...back home in Guyana I'd bring my monkey over to my friend's house. 
He'd probably follow me all the way there from tree to tree anyway. LOL



You had a pet monkey???


What was his name?!?!?!?!?!?


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Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:20pm
Oh, they didn't ask 1st? Yeah, that's hella rude. But still, fenced yard, garage.

If they want the dog inside with them, they can politely take they ass and they dog to the nearest Holiday Inn.

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Posted By: ChubbyYeti
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:22pm
Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

aren't dog hotels like super expensive?
some people consider dogs family. its hard to be away from them for some. 


I have 4 dogs that I love like the kids I don't have and even I know to ask before bringing my dogs to someones house. When my husband and I go on vacation and the dogs can't come, we either have friends watch them or they stay in dog hotels. It is expensive which is why you need to make friends with people with dogs so they will watch your dogs for free because they know you'll one day watch theirs.







Posted By: foxyroy19
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:24pm
^^^Exactly Yetti.

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Posted By: Prtybrwneye_z
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:38pm
It's rude and I'm sorry but if I don't have a dog somebody else's dog is not coming in my house....some folks are taking this dog business way overboard, everybody think it's cute now to have them in stores, restaurants...it's too much...


Posted By: honeyb87
Date Posted: Dec 04 2012 at 11:50pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Oh, they didn't ask 1st? Yeah, that's hella rude. But still, fenced yard, garage.

If they want the dog inside with them, they can politely take they ass and they dog to the nearest Holiday Inn.



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Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 12:02am
i think its rude...

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Posted By: saxssyvixen29
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 12:15am
Very rude!  And I like dogs and cats...


Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 12:49am
That's rude as hell!! I can't imagine people thinking that is ok to do..
I actually like some dogs..


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Posted By: fairyQueen092
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 12:53am
As much as I love dogs, it is rude. The person might have an allergy or livewith someone who does, and some apts don't allow dogs.

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Posted By: Derri
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 2:05am
Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Originally posted by Derri Derri wrote:

I dunno...back home in Guyana I'd bring my monkey over to my friend's house. 
He'd probably follow me all the way there from tree to tree anyway. LOL



You had a pet monkey???


What was his name?!?!?!?!?!?
LOL
Yes I still have him. He is at my home in Guyana. He is a Sakiwinki (Spider/Squirrel Monkey) named Jack. I asked the Canadian govt if I could bring him but they said no LOL
Something about passing diseases to humans. Never happened in the how many hundred yrs but I understand.  He's very sweet and smart. He stirs the pot on the stove and tries to help us to cook. 
The monkeys back home are hilarious. They pose for the camera before taking pics and stuff. 
I have a pet parrot too and he asked me if I ran back home cause Canada is too cold
lmao 


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 2:18am
very rude.
as i dog owner i would never...
when i travel-- my mom gets the dog...and if we are both out of town at the same time--my dog goes to the pet store.

sorta unrelated-- on my new building's facebook page-- there is a pic of what I can assume is one of my neighbors sharing a slice of watermelon w/ her dog...like one rind 2 mouths on it at the same damn time
i never ever wanna run into that heaux in the hallway.
eewww


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Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 2:18am
...I must move to GuyanaStern Smile

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Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 2:26am
Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:


Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

thats the cost of someone you love that has a dog. sometimes you let them stay in your house. 

*shrug*


not even.

when ppl with pets travel they typically have to make arrangements which includes a doggie hotel. how is this any different?


if you're travelling to a friend or family's house, [which isn't a hotel] it can easily be considered that the dog is welcome. if the friend/family knows you have a dog, and probably intend on travelling with him, they should have said something.

this isn't some golden rule. most people calling it rude aren't even uncomfortable around dogs. 
so.. you can f*ck and leave your dna in someone's house, but they can't bring a dog (considering that its well behaved, and you'd clean after him)
I have no problem with dogs. I've hd a dog before and plan on getting another one. However, I don't give two sh*ts about anyone else's pets and their travel woes. If I do not know in advance that you plan on bringing in your animal with you, I WILL NOT let your animal in my home. Thankfully, people in my family have enough manners not to do that sh*t. Your pets are your own responsibility. It is up to the owner to arrange accommodations for the animal in advance and that includes asking for permission for your pet to stay at someone's house whether or not they know you have a pet.



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Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 2:28am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Don't make no deviled eggs in my house either. 
This. I would kick someone out of my home for disrespecting it like that too. you want to have sex? Fine. Don't do it it my home. Again, I'm grateful not to know people who are so classless as to do these kinds of things.

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Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 2:36am
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

to bring their dog with them when they come to stay/visit you, especially if you do not have dogs and do not like animals in your house?
 
 
 
 
yes it is rude. they should have let u know about the dog.  they should have given u a choice to deal with the dog or not.  If I were a person with the animal I would have asked first. 


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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 2:44am
very rude.

besides im african, i do not believe in animals in the house nonsense

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Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 3:04am
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

So damn rude.

I also think its rude to invite ppl to your house without telling them you have 6 big dogs.

My professor did this ish and one of our book readings for the literary club.
I mean huge dogs.
Me and the black guy there weren't feeling it at all.
Then we had a potluck one night and the dogs were all up on us.

Ughhh
 
I couldn't have stayed.


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Posted By: uppitynegroid
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 6:43am
Originally posted by fairyQueen092 fairyQueen092 wrote:

As much as I love dogs, it is rude. The person might have an allergy or livewith someone who does, and some apts don't allow dogs.
 
Or they just don't like dogs.  Dog owners think their dog is cute, well-trained, or friendly that everyone else must like being in the company of their pet.  Sorry!  Not everyone likes animals or were raised around them.  Don't force you pets on other people. 


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Posted By: keishe83
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:08am
Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

...I must move to GuyanaStern Smile

Ikr?? Those monkeys sound AWESOMMMMEBig smile


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:21am
lol when i would come visit my parents id bring my dog and they dealt with it


Posted By: Harmonii
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:38am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

very rude.

besides im african, i do not believe in animals in the house nonsense


Finally someone who feels the same way I do. My parents didn't play. We had a dog, but he stayed outside never came in. Big German Shepard named bullet. He was a police dog my dad had. My kids
Can have a pet, but it must remain outdoors.


Posted By: Chyna_Li
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:38am
yes
they should of asked but if its well known about your feelings re dogs there would have been no need to ask. they already knew the answer


Posted By: laceyfront
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 8:48am
Thats rude, I like dogs and might not mind you bringing it, hell I might even enjoy having it around as long as it's house broken. But if you have the audacity to not even ask first and just show up with your dog, that would probably piss me off to the point that neither of you negros will have a place to rest your head.


Posted By: Jewelsnyc
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 9:24am
Not at all...they can bring their pet as long as it stays it's nasty ass in their car...

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Posted By: EasterBell
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 10:27am

Rude as hell...



Posted By: Faithfully2002
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 11:11am
Originally posted by foxyroy19 foxyroy19 wrote:

Very rude!

Yup.

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Posted By: yaya24
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 1:47pm
Yes its rude.
I would never bring my dog over "uninvited"..
 
I also think its rude for people to bring their bad kids over to my house "uninvited".
I don't have kids and do not stand for unruly children in my house.
 


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Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 1:54pm
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

very rude.
as i dog owner i would never...
when i travel-- my mom gets the dog...and if we are both out of town at the same time--my dog goes to the pet store.

sorta unrelated-- on my new building's facebook page-- there is a pic of what I can assume is one of my neighbors sharing a slice of watermelon w/ her dog...like one rind 2 mouths on it at the same damn time
i never ever wanna run into that heaux in the hallway.
eewww


lmao

please let her be white


lmao of course she is.



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Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 3:01pm
It is extremely rude.
 
I am about to stomp my sister's throat in if she brings her damn cocker spaniel around my house one more time. Just because YOU love your dog doesn't mean that I have to.


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Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 3:01pm
Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

to bring their dog with them when they come to stay/visit you, especially if you do not have dogs and do not like animals in your house?
ssooooo rude

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Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 3:19pm
very rude. 

they could not stay. I do not like dog....and definitely not in my home. 




Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Dec 05 2012 at 7:49pm
Did they ask me? They would have to get a hotel


Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 6:29am
Originally posted by Prtybrwneye_z Prtybrwneye_z wrote:

It's rude and I'm sorry but if I don't have a dog somebody else's dog is not coming in my house....some folks are taking this dog business way overboard, everybody think it's cute now to have them in stores, restaurants...it's too much...


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Posted By: melikey
Date Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 7:17pm
If i'm traveling to see family they are aware of everyone in my party. I would never show up with a guest, animal or human, without notifying the host period.

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Posted By: 305bgirl
Date Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 9:29pm
If it's a friend that I know loves my dog, then I take him. If I'm unsure of if they like dogs, I ask beforehand. If I know they hate dogs, I bring him anyways(jk I leave him with one of only 3 people I trust with my dog). 


Posted By: 305bgirl
Date Posted: Dec 06 2012 at 9:31pm
Oh and the above is for a quick visit. If it's a long visit somewhere, I just take my dog and get a hotel. I like my space. 


Posted By: pattigurlatl
Date Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 4:05am
I have a dog. I love my dog. I love dogs period.

But that is more than rude.

BTW, generally it is a guest and their guest. That is a known rule. If there are more you have to let people know and you should offer to get a hotel.

If you want to bring a bestie, a side piece, your drug man, your makeup artist, your inlaws, your child's bestie, you need to ask and discuss if you aren't shot down from asking.


BTW, I bring my dog to my job on very rare occasions.

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Posted By: kaai
Date Posted: Dec 08 2012 at 5:07pm
they should ask you
if they ask an the dog won't fit in a carrier,,,
 under 12 lbs
 yes its rude to bring a 15 + lb dog 
if its small
 its not trained? yea
you have to lay the rules down
 .... no drinking in my cups or glasses, etc
no barking at me in my house, etc


Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Dec 08 2012 at 6:24pm
yes, its rude.

people have allergies. live in places where pets aren't allowed. or don't want pets there. or theyre scared of dogs. or they don't want a chimp ripping off their face. is it so wrong for a heads up?

the only way I could see it not being rude is if the person had a service animal...and more than likely you would know that the person had one before they came over.


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Posted By: lollypop036
Date Posted: Dec 08 2012 at 6:25pm
lol i wish someone would try and bring their filthy animal into my house. just try it



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