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Topic: Could you ever..
Posted By: beautiful-stranger
Subject: Could you ever..
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:20pm
Be with a man who has previously had taken part in certain sexual activities with a man...?

Go.


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Ain't no body got time fo dat.



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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:21pm
Girl, please run.

Hell no

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Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:21pm
nah not unless he was with man that didn't look like a man. and when he found out he stopped the relationship immediately.

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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:23pm
Is he clean, and is he paying?

If so, how much?


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:25pm
i was talking to my friend who was saying that she knows a few men who are bisexual but choose to only sleep with men--as to not be accused to being on the downlow and whatnot.  that is what my one friend told me about his experience.  think if he had his way he'd sleep with both men and women but simply sleeps with men now.

bc i know someone like this i am more inclined to say...maybe bc i do believe that sexuality is much more fluid than we think.

 but in my heart of hearts i am not that open minded. we can kick it...but we ain't fvkking.  it would very much depend on when he had his sexual tryst. 


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Posted By: Bunnyahh
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:26pm
this has been done b4.  my answer is still the same

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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:29pm
No.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:29pm
Originally posted by beautiful-stranger beautiful-stranger wrote:

Be with a man who has previously had taken part in certain sexual activities with a man...?

Go.


and what kind of activities? like on his knees giving head or dishing out a mean stroke game?


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Posted By: petiteone29
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:30pm
no. point blank period. i dont care if he was experimenting. if he wad molested i honestly dont know but most likely




no.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:31pm
I'd be a hypocrite if I said no. College was a time for learning in & out the classroom.ErmmLOL


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Posted By: mrshairdo
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:38pm
absolutely not

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Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 9:40pm
I may have already.


Posted By: pinkextra
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:02pm
Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

I may have already.


We prolly all have!Dead


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Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:05pm
heck no. 

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Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:06pm
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!


Posted By: K_Camille
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:08pm
Knowingly, no.  Men are great at keeping secrets so it's possible I already have without my knowledge.


Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:11pm
Politcally correct answer: Sure
 
Real answer:  no......


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Posted By: Gumdrop92
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:15pm
uhh no...but I did date a guy from atl...so I'm not sure

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Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:40pm
Short answer: No
Long Answer: Hell No


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:41pm
Dunno.. Id wanna watch tho


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Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:46pm
No
 
But when I was high..I mean really high
 
I swear I thought my ex was gay..so much zest when he was talking...Stern Smile
 
So uh..possibly already did lol


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Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 11:14pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Is he clean?




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Posted By: HowardAlumAKA
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 11:51pm


Posted By: SpunkiBrewsta
Date Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 11:54pm
perhaps.


Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:00am
no. not knowingly

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Posted By: chinadoll77
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:06am
Only if I get to throw on a strap on.......Don't judge me.....

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If I worried about what you thought about me,it would be a grave misuse of my ME TIME....


Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:13am
Originally posted by chinadoll77 chinadoll77 wrote:

Only if I get to throw on a strap on.......Don't judge me.....

*high fives*


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Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 1:00am
I wish our faces upon reading the OP could be posted


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 2:30am
nope

Stern Smileno


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Posted By: Prazol60
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:06am
No


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:40am
Uh, no. And I ask. Once you go gay stay the HELL away from me. I am not even going to entertain the idea that he'd never do it again. That ain't some shyt you just get out of your system.


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:44am
Originally posted by pinkextra pinkextra wrote:


Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

I may have already.




We prolly all have!Dead


Nga please.


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:51am
^

i couldnt mess with a bi chick anyway so im not judging anyone here

i mean id watch two chicks together and all that though

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:51am
Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

I hope none of yall in here saying no have messed with women.



I haven't done that. Ima big hypocrite bc to me it's not the same. Hella girls was fake dykin in high school for attention or something. I'm sure they went on to make lovely wives.


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 4:54am
Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

I hope none of yall in here saying no have messed with women.


y do u got something to hide... *munches on Jamaican patty


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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 5:25am
Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

I hope none of yall in here saying no have messed with women.
Deadgross

i dont spend time with girls in real life. just my mom and my lil mamiEmbarrassed...im one of the guys.Confused


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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 5:32am
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

I hope none of yall in here saying no have messed with women.



I haven't done that. Ima big hypocrite bc to me it's not the same. Hella girls was fake dykin in high school for attention or something. I'm sure they went on to make lovely wives.
how is it not the same?



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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: chinadoll77
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 5:39am
Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

I hope none of yall in here saying no have messed with women.

I have not,but if I ever have to do hard time,I'll experiment a little.......

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If I worried about what you thought about me,it would be a grave misuse of my ME TIME....


Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 6:22am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

I hope none of yall in here saying no have messed with women.



I haven't done that. Ima big hypocrite bc to me it's not the same. Hella girls was fake dykin in high school for attention or something. I'm sure they went on to make lovely wives.
how is it not the same?



Lol I already said im a hypocrite and I don't feel like the sexuality continuum debate that might ensue b/c I'd say some pretty off things. I will say that I think a guy being with another guy would emasculate him to me.. I almost don't want to use that word bc it implies that homo/bisexual men aren't "men". I just mean within the confines of a relationship with me. A woman being with another woman is feminity squared...what's there to lose? Women don't seek bi men. Men seek bi women. But hey, in all instances...buyer beware.

I'm just a woman that doesn't swing both ways seeking the same. Yes gawd.


Posted By: beautiful-stranger
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 7:24am
Dang you guys are harsh lol. I've messed with women so I would be a complete hypocrite if I couldn't mess with a bi-sexual man. 

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Ain't no body got time fo dat.


Posted By: nekamarie83
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 7:26am
He clean? Does he treat me well & love me? How does he identify? Straight? Bi? I only ask because I have a tendency to be catty at times, and I don't wanna have to check men and women. That would be slow insanity.

He could've experimented, we've all been there sometime-- only some will admit that though. However, same sex experimentation is exploration of sexuality in a safe enviorinemnt. Not to mention that sexuality, as previously stated, is fluid.

Eta: Wow that people are still so shocked/offended that men explore their sexuality/identity just as women do.

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Posted By: MissinCali
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 7:29am
No wayDead

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Posted By: nala52808
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 7:42am
Say what ya'll want, but i just don't want him to put his pee-pee in my pocketbook after he dipped it repeatedly in Tyrones butthole. No can do.Thumbs Down


Posted By: dejee
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 10:27am
Originally posted by nala52808 nala52808 wrote:

Say what ya'll want, but i just don't want him to put his pee-pee in my pocketbook after he dipped it repeatedly in Tyrones butthole. No can do.Thumbs Down


Cry


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 10:44am
Some women seek bi men.


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 10:47am
Yeah I know that pc stuff is all well and good.
But I could not look at my boo the same if I knew his booty hole was explored.
Yep sexuality is fluid.
But I ain't drinking it

Men don't have the same sexual freedoms as women.


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Never send to know for whom the bells tolls; it tolls for thee
Donne

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Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 10:58am
Is it really being PC or just accepting of natural facts that humans are sexual beings? Some women would never try anything with a woman some will and the same goes with men.
I dont think one has to be accepting of the other but if others dont have a problem with it i dont think its just them trying to be PC.

Jones what if he was strict Top?LOL


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Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:05am

It's not a personal condemnation of character or quality but no.



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Posted By: tasty0619
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:08am
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I'd be a hypocrite if I said no. 

This, but I'm still saying no.


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Posted By: SimplyPut
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:13am

OH HEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLL NAWL!!!Stern Smile



Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:13am
I aint realize how many of yall ladies were double dutching 


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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:23am
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Some women seek bi men.




Is this for the purpose of threesomes?   


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:25am
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Some women seek bi men.




Is this for the purpose of threesomes?   



lol no. As a matter of fact when I have my MFM there will be no bi men involved.

It shall be all about meStern Smile


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Posted By: ms_wonderland
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:35am
Lol I really want to know how that goes. I've never met anyone who has pulled that off. I need someone to validate my fantasies.


Posted By: K_Camille
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:36am
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:




lol no. As a matter of fact when I have my MFM there will be no bi men involved.

It shall be all about meStern Smile


I always wonder about those dp scenes when I watch flicks..like how do the men feel when their dacks or thighs brush against each other while they're getting it in..I question if they turned on by it or is gettin the puss the most important mission. I tend to wonder if they would like dabble. Embarrassed LOL


Posted By: iGotSunshine
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:46am
Originally posted by dejee dejee wrote:


Originally posted by nala52808 nala52808 wrote:

Say what ya'll want, but i just don't want him to put his pee-pee in my pocketbook after he dipped it repeatedly in Tyrones butthole. No can do.Thumbs Down


Cry


Lmfaooo
IA tho.


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:00pm



LOL @ Wonder and K_C

Focus and rhythm is key... I shall report back


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Posted By: freedom76
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:12pm
Hmmmmm....I think the issue is that MANY men are horny toads for the most part. I think a bi-sexual man can indeed be faithful, just like a Heterosexual man. The issue is that many men cheat, and men tend to "give it up" easier than women. Or more to the point, men don't have to put in that much effort to sleep with another man many times. Word to Craigs list. So for some women, you now have a man with a propensity to cheat, and more opportunities to do so.

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Posted By: whitrhymes
Date Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:45pm
No, I like straight men. I've never dabbled and prefer men that don't dabble either.

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