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Topic: How would you feel if you heard your s/o refer to
Posted By: starflower7
Subject: How would you feel if you heard your s/o refer to
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:12am
you as his hoe?

(No, this didn't happen to me).

What would you do? Basically I was making fun of this guy's pink mismatched socks and he was telling me some story about how he lost all his clothes or something and those were his hoe's clothes. He didn't know his s/o had walked up behind him. He tried to play it off. I know she heard it too but she tried to play it off like she didn't hear it or it wasn't a big deal. 

Would you confront him or what?


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Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:17am
I guess in that context I'd be upset and confront it.

But I don't mind being his ho sometimes.



Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:19am
We'd have issues.

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Posted By: exoticmami06
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:20am
He wouldnt be my SO anymore

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Posted By: Nijjah25
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:20am
wouldn't happen.. if it ever, ever, everrrrr did...we would have some serious problems

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Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:22am
in that context...........no. 

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Posted By: Ashleyano
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:23am
its still calling me out of my name, so yea it wouldn't go easy


Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:26am
Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

you as his hoe?

(No, this didn't happen to me).

What would you do? Basically I was making fun of this guy's pink mismatched socks and he was telling me some story about how he lost all his clothes are something and those were his hoe's clothes. He didn't know his s/o had walked up behind him. He tried to play it off. I know she heard it too but she tried to play it off like she didn't hear it or it wasn't a big deal. 

Would you confront him or what?

In private, Id work it
To others, I'd Ouch


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:26am
/these hos be acting...these niccas be lettin' em/

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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:27am
So would you have waited until y'all were alone or what? The whole story is so damn ratchet, and I think she was flattered that he was claiming her at all tbh. I can't even imagine. I would have been so pissed.

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:27am
ho is never complimentary whereas for some reason b!tch can be.

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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:27am
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

/these hos be acting...these niccas be lettin' em/

Do you mean these niccas be acting and these hoes be lettin em?


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Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:28am
Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

/these hos be acting...these niccas be lettin' em/

Do you mean these niccas be acting and these hoes be lettin em?


LOL girl


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:30am
awww i feel bad for her.

maybe she tore into his ass when they got home.



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Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:30am
There would be problems.

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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:31am
I know she must have felt bad but when you are ghetto and you mess with hood dudes it comes with the territory. But the worst part was I basically had to pretend like I didn't hear it. I got a good laugh out of it later though.

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:31am
Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

/these hos be acting...these niccas be lettin' em/

Do you mean these niccas be acting and these hoes be lettin em?


i didLOL

i was gonna say the ho was the man.


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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:31am
now thats a hoe ass nicca



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Posted By: gabi03
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:34am
Originally posted by exoticmami06 exoticmami06 wrote:

He wouldnt be my SO anymore

basically ^^


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:34am
it wouldnt end well...but it will end.




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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:34am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

now thats a hoe ass nicca


Wellllllll, I think that's how a lot of men talk, but their "hoe" isn't supposed to catch them.


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"I give to the needy...and not the greedy!"

"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: MizzAmirah
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:35am
I wish a nicca would. Sleepy

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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:35am
Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:


Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

now thats a hoe ass nicca



Wellllllll, I think that's how a lot of men talk, but their "hoe" isn't supposed to catch them.
you think?

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:35am
Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

now thats a hoe ass nicca


Wellllllll, I think that's how a lot of men talk, but their "hoe" isn't supposed to catch them.


that's how a lot of BOYS talk. not men. a man would have no problem saying "these are my girl's socks."


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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:38am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:


Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

now thats a hoe ass nicca



Wellllllll, I think that's how a lot of men talk, but their "hoe" isn't supposed to catch them.
you think?

That's my honest opinion. I'm talking about hood dudes though. Even regular dudes when they get mad at their gf will be like, "Man this bitch blah blah blah" just like if I'm mad at someone I'm dating I'd be like "This nicca/muhfukka/whatever..." But he wasn't mad at all. He was just saying it like he was saying her name or saying my gf/old lady. But he is a hood nicca and that's how they talk.


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"I give to the needy...and not the greedy!"

"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:43am
I would be so offended and I would bring it up with him later when we're alone.

Any rude terms, I do not want to be referred as.

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Posted By: Lite Brite
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:43am
LOL good thread


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:48am
did he say main HOE?... cuz if notAngry


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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:48am
White men would never speak about their women in such ways smh.

























Lmao Lemme stop playin'. Unless we're role playing R&B songstress/popular rapper, no bueno.Stern Smile


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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:49am
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

White men would never speak about their women in such ways smh.


























Lmao Lemme stop playin'. Unless we're role playing R&B songstress/popular rapper, no bueno.Stern Smile

You ain't slick...Angry


ETA: Oh wait, I didn't see the bottom at first. LOL


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"I give to the needy...and not the greedy!"

"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: MizzAmirah
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:54am
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I would be so offended and I would bring it up with him later when we're alone.

Any rude terms, I do not want to be referred as.
 
I would bring it up right then and there. He did this in front of others I guess to make himself look good, so right then and their, in front of the same audience, I would let him have it. Put that ego right where he shot it up from. Don't make yourself look good my putting me down. NOPE!


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Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 12:55am
Well....What kind of tone was it? Was it said with affection or anger? LOL


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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:01am
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Well....What kind of tone was it? Was it said with affection or anger? LOL

He was telling me something about school and how he got into it with his peoples and he left his clothes so "I tole you these ain't my clothes, these my hoe clothes, man!"  with all the I'm-such-a-thug, high stepping, arm swinging histrionics. The woman he's messing with is literally twice his age as well. Like I said, ghetto. Sleepy But it was kinda my fault because I kept clowning him, though. Poor thing.


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"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:03am
Originally posted by MizzAmirah MizzAmirah wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I would be so offended and I would bring it up with him later when we're alone.

Any rude terms, I do not want to be referred as.
 
I would bring it up right then and there. He did this in front of others I guess to make himself look good, so right then and their, in front of the same audience, I would let him have it. Put that ego right where he shot it up from. Don't make yourself look good my putting me down. NOPE!

I would have probably played it off like I didn't hear it then went off on him later or been like, "What you said?" jokingly but try to act like it's not a big deal and that's just how we talk. I wouldn't want to give anyone a story to tell.


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"I give to the needy...and not the greedy!"

"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: MizzAmirah
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:14am
Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

Originally posted by MizzAmirah MizzAmirah wrote:

Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I would be so offended and I would bring it up with him later when we're alone.

Any rude terms, I do not want to be referred as.
 
I would bring it up right then and there. He did this in front of others I guess to make himself look good, so right then and their, in front of the same audience, I would let him have it. Put that ego right where he shot it up from. Don't make yourself look good my putting me down. NOPE!

I would have probably played it off like I didn't hear it then went off on him later or been like, "What you said?" jokingly but try to act like it's not a big deal and that's just how we talk. I wouldn't want to give anyone a story to tell.

I guess that's another way to handle it. It will depend on what time of the month it is for me tho.LOL

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Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:17am
he doesn't use the word...

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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:17am
Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

he doesn't use the word...

LOLLOLLOL


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"I give to the needy...and not the greedy!"

"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: bunzaveli
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:19am
i dont know any better and i wasnt raised right, can i refer to my lady as my b!tch in any context when speaking to my friends ? like aye yo, thats my bish ? not that i would ever do such a thing, i aint trying to get cut out here 3 times.


Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:21am
Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

i dont know any better and i wasnt raised right, can i refer to my lady as my b!tch in any context when speaking to my friends ? like aye yo, thats my bish ? not that i would ever do such a thing, i aint trying to get cut out here 3 times.

Just look over your shoulder and make sure she's nowhere around. 


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"I give to the needy...and not the greedy!"

"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: mcelweewife
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 2:01am
Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

you as his hoe?

(No, this didn't happen to me).

What would you do? Basically I was making fun of this guy's pink mismatched socks and he was telling me some story about how he lost all his clothes or something and those were his hoe's clothes. He didn't know his s/o had walked up behind him. He tried to play it off. I know she heard it too but she tried to play it off like she didn't hear it or it wasn't a big deal. 

Would you confront him or what?


I would be hurt and embarrassed and I would never be able to sleep with him again.
Husband has never called me out of my name so that would wound my soul.



Posted By: chinadoll77
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 2:46am
I would have asked him which chick it was??Wouldn't assume that he was referring to me,that would be a good day to say that he had another woman......Because,it would not end well.....People would pity him.....

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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 2:48am
Originally posted by chinadoll77 chinadoll77 wrote:

I would have asked him which chick it was??Wouldn't assume that he was referring to me,that would be a good day to say that he had another woman......Because,it would not end well.....People would pity him.....

LMFAO


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"I give to the needy...and not the greedy!"

"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: Prazol60
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 4:22am
Confront of course, that is disrespectful and depending on the relationship could be a deal breaker. 


Posted By: Addicted19034
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 5:58am
In that situation sounds like he literally meant "she's my hoe"

Nothing more, nothing less.

I have never heard a man say that's my hoe before.


Posted By: JamCaygirl
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:18am
Basic bish problems....

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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:53am
I've hung around people like that, but never dated anyone like that to my knowledge. I think I called my ex's fiance "that chic" and he got upset over that.

I'd say we wouldn't be together long if I found out something like that.


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Posted By: BoutThatLife
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 6:58am
He wouldn't even call me that sh*t.if that did somehow happen, I'd blast his ass on the spot and we'd be together no longer.

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Posted By: Random Thoughts
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 7:00am
I want an answer to Bunz question. Is my bitch acceptable? 


Posted By: mzmee
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 7:03am
In that context, no. Now that's another story in the bedroom

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Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 7:15am
but do you allow people to call you what you are not?


Posted By: BeatriceBean
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 7:21am

If, for whatever reason, we're at a pimps & hoes themed party or players' ball, and he is dressed like Superfly, and I like a blaxploitation era prostitute, then he may refer to me as his hoe in pure jest. Any other occasion, bets are off and heads will be rolling.



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Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 7:55am
"my hoe" or "my bitch" would not fly with me

whats so hard about just saying "my girl"  Cry


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Posted By: babyk94
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 8:00am
Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

"my hoe" or "my bitch" would not fly with me

whats so hard about just saying "my girl"  Cry


This also I don't even use the word hoe...Sooo that would never be okay


Posted By: freedom76
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 8:27am
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

If, for whatever reason, we're at a pimps & hoes themed party or players' ball, and he is dressed like Superfly, and I like a blaxploitation era prostitute, then he may refer to me as his hoe in pure jest. Any other occasion, bets are off and heads will be rolling.


LOL Pretty much


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Posted By: purpulicious01
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 9:31am
Heck no

CUT OFF


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Posted By: iGotSunshine
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 9:35am
This happened to an acquaintance of mine.
She was in the hospital for a procedure and her s/o thought she was in a coma or whatever and he got on the phone with his friend and said "this ho in here looking dead" or whatever.

She broke up with him & now they're getting married.
Couldn't b me.


Posted By: LilMissSunshine
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 11:52am
My SO would NEVER do that.


Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 11:53am
Would be completely out of character... so id assume hes having a stroke or summin


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 1:42pm
isn't that word just another synonym for girl with the young'ins? lol (I hear it often)

we're old though, so no.


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Posted By: lovelove
Date Posted: Nov 13 2012 at 2:04pm
Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

This happened to an acquaintance of mine.
She was in the hospital for a procedure and her s/o thought she was in a coma or whatever and he got on the phone with his friend and said "this ho in here looking dead" or whatever.

She broke up with him & now they're getting married.
Couldn't b me.

 
Omg. Dead Why would he say something like that while she is in the hospital.


Posted By: Faithfully2002
Date Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 6:14am
My SO would not call me a ho.

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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 6:16am
Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

I want an answer to Bunz question. Is my bitch acceptable? 

nope.


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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 6:16am
Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

This happened to an acquaintance of mine.
She was in the hospital for a procedure and her s/o thought she was in a coma or whatever and he got on the phone with his friend and said "this ho in here looking dead" or whatever.

She broke up with him & now they're getting married.
Couldn't b me.

ROTFLMMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

LOLLOLLOLLOLLOL

How can people be so ghetto?!!


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"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 6:20am
Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

This happened to an acquaintance of mine.
She was in the hospital for a procedure and her s/o thought she was in a coma or whatever and he got on the phone with his friend and said "this ho in here looking dead" or whatever.

She broke up with him & now they're getting married.
Couldn't b me.


i am so sorry but this line right here cracked me upLOL.. ughh i have a weird sense of humor sometimesCry


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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 6:22am
LOLLOLLOLLOLLOL

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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 6:31am
Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:



I thought so. I always people use ho and b!tch. Some women call their female friends it. Some men call their women it. It's pretty acceptable nowadays.

Yea it's acceptable but I still draw lines. I aint calling my mother a bitch or someone I am in a relationship with. I am not calling my nieces and ho's and bitches either


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Posted By: iGotSunshine
Date Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 8:05am
Idk. It wasn't funny when she said it lol.
Y'all some evil women lol.

But yeah they got back together.
He just bought them a house so I guess it worked out
But I don't think I could b with someone that said something like that.
Love & money make people go blind tho.


Posted By: Princess_S
Date Posted: Nov 15 2012 at 9:21pm
Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

This happened to an acquaintance of mine.
She was in the hospital for a procedure and her s/o thought she was in a coma or whatever and he got on the phone with his friend and said "this ho in here looking dead" or whatever.

She broke up with him & now they're getting married.
Couldn't b me.
LOL



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