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Topic: Thinking of getting a tongue ring yall
Posted By: used2braid
Subject: Thinking of getting a tongue ring yall
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 12:49am
I really think they look so hot!Tongue

However, I don't want to give men the wrong idea since I'm actually pretty conservative.


Do you think having a tongue ring projects a certain image?..

Especially with someone like me who (when I start dating again) wants to find a good honest intentioned man?



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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 12:52am
Oh damn. Nvm then

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Posted By: BoutThatLife
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 12:52am
Tongue rings are played and they do give off a certain image

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Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 12:54am
I think they give a sexual vibe.

I wanna get a septum piercing!

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Posted By: Anah
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 12:55am
Yeah it gives a freaky vibe alternative vibe. 

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Posted By: laceyfront
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 12:57am


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 12:57am
Yeah it gives off a sexual vibe.
I think that about most piercings.

I got my nips pierced with sexuality in mind and I like the way it feels.



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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 12:58am
Can I somehow hide it or something?.....

LOL


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 12:59am
Why specifically a tongue piercin?

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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:02am
I mean everybody's a freak but the tongue ring makes it look like you want everybody to know you are a freak. It's basically saying "Come get me. I'm down for whatever."

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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:02am
i never though it gave off a vibe...unless it was a guy wearing it.

im glad i dont have mine anymore though. i swear that thing was gonna kill me in my sleep.



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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:04am
Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

I mean everybody's a freak but the tongue ring makes it look like you want everybody to know you are a freak. It's basically saying "Come get me. I'm down for whatever."

Yea, I guess I just wanted to make people wonder..
But I guess I dont want it TOO blatant


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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:05am
Well is there a way to wear it further down my tongue to hide it unless I stick out my tongue?...

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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:09am
Further down ?!Girlllll
Lol

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:15am
ooo u nassy.





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Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:15am
the guy who did mine said it depends on where the veins are in your tongue. thats why some ppl have them far back and some up close. 

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Posted By: Momeijheii
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:16am
Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I think they give a sexual vibe.

I wanna get a septum piercing!

C'mon and join the legion of pierced septums.
*scoots over*


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Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:17am
Originally posted by laceyfront laceyfront wrote:



Uhh..


Ohhhh...


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:19am
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Yeah it gives off a sexual vibe.
I think that about most piercings.

I got my nips pierced with sexuality in mind and I like the way it feels.



dang i just asked my dh if i should get one and he said Confused




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Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:20am
Ohhhhhh tongue rings!!

I want one, but I don't like the thought of people looking in my mouth and thinking that I suck d*ck with it. I mean suckin d*ck isn't bad, but I'm a private person. LOL

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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:23am
BB Pants that what I'm saying!

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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:28am
I don't get the point.


Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:35am
tramp stamp. but do u i guess.

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Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:40am
Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

tramp stamp.

that's a tattoo.


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Posted By: MsBella
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:42am
 Ehh if you get it, just dont have your mouth wide open. My 2 friends and I had em (well they still do, I dont), and nobody really knows about theirs. Nobody knew I had one either unless I told them or stuck my tongue out. You cant really see it unless you have your mouth open as far as it can go. Not sure why it would be, but if you want it, get it. Getting it pierced doesnt hurt so why not Big smile


Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:45am
If you want it, get it. Not getting something or not doing something just because someone will judge you will leave you with nothing. 

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Posted By: f8dagrate
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:50am
Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

tramp stamp.

that's a tattoo.


lol that is too.. but i heard that there is more than one tramp stamp.. the back tattoo is just the originator..


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Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 10:42am
do you but understand the perception people will have of you.....and it will not be positive.


Posted By: fairyQueen092
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 10:47am
Can't please everybody

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Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 10:50am
tongue rings are hot especially when you talk to people with one and you see it for brief moments as they speak. i unno makes everything they say more appealing and sexual.....so ya i guess it does give a little sexual vibe. OT: Eyebrow piercing on guys are cute. 

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Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 10:52am
I don't like them, but do what makes you happy. 

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Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 10:55am
What's the point


Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 10:56am
Originally posted by used2braid used2braid wrote:

I really think they look so hot!Tongue

However, I don't want to give men the wrong idea since I'm actually pretty conservative.


Do you think having a tongue ring projects a certain image?..Yes.  And first impressions are hard to erase, but not impossible.

Especially with someone like me who (when I start dating again) wants to find a good honest intentioned man?  You might still find a "good honest intentioned man" but you will also have to fight off the other kind, tooLOL


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Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 10:58am
how old are you?

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Posted By: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 11:00am
Originally posted by used2braid used2braid wrote:

I really think they look so hot!Tongue

However, I don't want to give men the wrong idea since I'm actually pretty conservative.


Do you think having a tongue ring projects a certain image?..

Especially with someone like me who (when I start dating again) wants to find a good honest intentioned man?

LMAO man get the f*ck outta here.


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Posted By: James Avery
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 11:06am
tbh when i see a tongue ring i assume she's a head doctor.

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Posted By: Tbaby
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 11:11am
If I meet person with a tongue piercing its hard for me to take them seriously. 

That ring is too distracting when they talk, flicking around every time their mouth opens.


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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 11:12am
Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by used2braid used2braid wrote:

I really think they look so hot!Tongue

However, I don't want to give men the wrong idea since I'm actually pretty conservative.


Do you think having a tongue ring projects a certain image?..

Especially with someone like me who (when I start dating again) wants to find a good honest intentioned man?

LMAO man get the f*ck outta here.


and so the cattiness begins


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Posted By: solo
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 11:32am
Yeah I think they do.

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 11:38am
Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

how old are you?


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Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 11:39am
Ive had mines for over 14+ years now... usually forget its there. It doesn't flicker around because I have a short rod. Its not that complicated either get one or don't. No one will really care.


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Posted By: msjaim2
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:10pm
i had one over 10 yrs ago & let it close up maybe 3 yrs ago.. just decided it really didnt serve a purpose. mine was back far enough where is wasnt really visible.. but eh


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:14pm
been there, done that, wouldnt do it again


Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:30pm
I let mine close up 4 years ago. I liked it when I had it but as I got older, I kinda grew out of it so I took it out. No one knew I had it unless I wanted them to know so it wasn't a big deal. I still have my not so visible piercings though.

I take that back. It didn't fully close up... I still can put it through if I really wanted to but I have no desire to..

Either you get it or you don't..

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Posted By: iSMILE13
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:36pm
Get a tongue ring to match your tongue or get the flexible plug-like ring. I loved my tongue ring when I had it.


Posted By: whitrhymes
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:39pm
I think it gives off a sexual vibe and people will automatically assume things about you. But you can't let that stop you if it's what you want to do.

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Posted By: el_bandido
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:47pm
do you perform oral often op?Smile

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Posted By: bg
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 1:54pm
People can/will assume things about you tongue ring or not.

Do what makes you happy...




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Posted By: Gkisses
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:06pm
The love of sucking sausage aint nuttin to be ashamed of... not sure what that gotta do with a tongue ring tho


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Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:07pm
What's the age limit to getting a tongue ring? 25? lol

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Posted By: Afrocentchic
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:12pm

I think it's played out honestly but if you like it do it.

Just if you do so be aware of all that comes with it as well as side affects. Becareful of bad habits. I kept my starter bar (it's very long) because I was afraid that if I tried to change it out I would lose a piece to it. (long story, I've seen it happen)

Anyhow, I would play with my tounge ring when I was bored by clicking it along the inside of my teeth or catching it in my gap and sliding it back out when I was bored.
This caused some damage over time and made my gap wider.
 
The experience of getting it wasn't the best either. There was blood everywhere, it hurt in ways that I thought I could perpare for but would never imagine. It healed up fine though and I had it for years until an employer made me remove it.


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:15pm
What about a hidden piercing OP?

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Posted By: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:18pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

what a slut 

LMFAOO


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Posted By: bg
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:30pm
Lemme feel ya tongue ring...is it rusty? LOL

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Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:37pm
slut

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Posted By: lovelife
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:44pm
I think they're played out, but if you want one, get one

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Posted By: iSMILE13
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:51pm
Never knew having a tongue piercing made you slut....assuming y'all aren't joking.


Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 2:57pm
dang...

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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:16pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

what a slut 

wtf??...Confused


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Posted By: DWeird
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:19pm
If a person thinks they can gauge your morals on a piercing alone, they're not a good judge of character and you probably shouldn't involve yourself with them. If you're really conservative it will show in your mannerisms, conversation, and actions. Just get it. 

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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:21pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

What about a hidden piercing OP?

Nah. I just like the tongue rings.

But after thinking about it...I dont think its the right choice


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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:22pm
Originally posted by el_bandido el_bandido wrote:

do you perform oral often op?Smile

Stern Smile


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Posted By: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:22pm
Originally posted by DWeird DWeird wrote:

If a person thinks they can gauge your morals on a piercing alone, they're not a good judge of character and you probably shouldn't involve yourself with them. If you're really conservative it will show in your mannerisms, conversation, and actions. Just get it. 

Yup, your "actions" of getting the tongue ring in the first place was really conservative. Wacko


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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:24pm
Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

Never knew having a tongue piercing made you slut....assuming y'all aren't joking.

I wasn't going to say that, but I'm pretty sure it does.


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Posted By: macyscorner
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:24pm
you're super pretty without it anyway!

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Posted By: tasty0619
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:27pm
Originally posted by MsBella MsBella wrote:

 Ehh if you get it, just dont have your mouth wide open. My 2 friends and I had em (well they still do, I dont), and nobody really knows about theirs. Nobody knew I had one either unless I told them or stuck my tongue out. You cant really see it unless you have your mouth open as far as it can go. Not sure why it would be, but if you want it, get it. Getting it pierced doesnt hurt so why not Big smile

The same with me. Nobody could tell I had one unless I showed them, but that also depends on where you get your tongue pierced and your web (I think that's what it's called). You could also get a pink ball/once it heals.


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Posted By: Afrocentchic
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:28pm
@ismile I'm thinking they are being facetious...then again we are on BHM and the double standards here are maddening. 

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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:28pm
Midwest_Da_Gawd

Heard enough from you. Thanks


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Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 3:32pm
Originally posted by macyscorner macyscorner wrote:

you're super pretty without it anyway!

Smile Thank you:)

Yoo this was a question seeking for opinions.

If your actually going to personally attack my character (when you don't know me) or be rude then skip on to the next thread

This is just a forum question, its not that deep!


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Posted By: iSMILE13
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 4:43pm
If I wasn't trying to move up in corporate America I would get more piercings. I love the ones I have but I am able to conceal them. I really want a dermal on my face or collarbone


Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 4:54pm
Meh.. not for me..and I can't speak for men but kissing and getting my kitty licked by someone who had one was such a wack experience. The shyt kept clanking against my teeth during kissing n was hella annoying. N the brain was no better than without.
To each her own but stuff like that screams " ooh, I'm oh so very freaky, I bet you're wondering, huh? Please think/wonder if I'm a freak."
I like surprises. The ones that look innocent that have you looking at them in awe, amazement and a little bit of fear when they're done witcho azz.

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Posted By: DWeird
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 5:05pm
Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by DWeird DWeird wrote:

If a person thinks they can gauge your morals on a piercing alone, they're not a good judge of character and you probably shouldn't involve yourself with them. If you're really conservative it will show in your mannerisms, conversation, and actions. Just get it. 

Yup, your "actions" of getting the tongue ring in the first place was really conservative. Wacko
Yep. Where you stick your jewelry is absolutely meaningless to me. I would gauge how conservative you are based on your interactions with people. We can agree to disagree on that though.


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Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 5:07pm
Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:

Meh.. not for me..and I can't speak for men but kissing and getting my kitty licked by someone who had one was such a wack experience. The shyt kept clanking against my teeth during kissing n was hella annoying. N the brain was no better than without.
To each her own but stuff like that screams " ooh, I'm oh so very freaky, I bet you're wondering, huh? Please think/wonder if I'm a freak."
I like surprises. The ones that look innocent that have you looking at them in awe, amazement and a little bit of fear when they're done witcho azz.
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Posted By: Organic
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 5:13pm
Don't do it! You will chip your wisdom tooth on a chicken nugget! (speaking from experience Pinch)

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Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 5:20pm
when someone assumes "freak," i find it weird that they think my body part is for someone else and not for me


Posted By: Cream1970
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 5:49pm
I wonder why and who started the sexual assumptions when it comes to nipple , tongue, and genital piercings? Ppl with them or the ppl without them?

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Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 5:50pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

when someone assumes "freak," i find it weird that they think my body part is for someone else and not for me


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Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 6:07pm
yes, i was being facetious. 

but ppl will make assumptions about you because of that piercing all the time.. you cant care about what anyone thinks. 




Posted By: used2braid
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 7:08pm
Nvm I'm wack. lol

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Posted By: keepgrowing
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 7:18pm
just do you. i like piercings, but i couldn't get them cause doesn't fit my personality (and no i don't think you have to be a freakaleek to have a piercing). i admire piercings on other people though, but people already have assumptions about you since you are black (i'm assuming). just have to learn to keep it moving everyday regardless of what they might think.

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Posted By: fairyQueen092
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 7:33pm
Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

but people already have assumptions about you since you are black (i'm assuming).


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Posted By: missdeeluxe
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 7:57pm
I don't mind them.
Though about getting one a few years back until I heard some horror stories about infection and chipped teeth Dead

What does bother me are the people are constantly trying to show them off.
Like sticking their tongues out in every single photo.
We get it, you got that ish.


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Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 8:03pm


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Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 8:39pm


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Posted By: Butta Cookie
Date Posted: Nov 12 2012 at 8:58pm
Been there done that!

Do you boo!

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