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Topic: Clear Ppl Aint sh*t!!!!!
Posted By: CamiK
Subject: Clear Ppl Aint sh*t!!!!!
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:18pm
Angry
Background: My sis works in customer service as a cashier.So today she encountered a racist romney fan...

Scenario:

Sis: "How are you today?"
Customer: "Oh, Im not doing so well because that ni*&ers still in the chair, but thats ok,yall are going to pay for it"
Sis: You puss as* cracka, when I pay for it, you just make sure you give me my change...Angry"

Not sure what took place after but she was FIRED!! Now my mom is saying she feels like my sis is exaggerating the actual situation, however she does believe that the customer said something racist and my sister reacted. 

And yes Im in cracka country Florida and no Im not trolling...Im mad as fuk right now!!!



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Posted By: Sinnamon_Mami
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:22pm
I believe your sis, sorry she lost her job behind a salty cracker... I hope she gets a better one and collect unemployment in the meantime..

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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:22pm
Originally posted by CamiK CamiK wrote:

Angry
Background: My sis works in customer service as a cashier.So today she encountered a racist romney fan...

Scenario:

Sis: "How are you today?"
Customer: "Oh, Im not doing so well because that ni*&ers still in the chair, but thats ok,yall are going to pay for it"
Sis: You puss as* cracka, when I pay for it, you just make sure you give me my change...Angry"

Not sure what took place after but she was FIRED!! Now my mom is saying she feels like my sis is exaggerating the actual situation, however she does believe that the customer said something racist and my sister reacted. 

And yes Im in cracka country Florida and no Im not trolling...Im mad as fuk right now!!!



girl, like the man that uppercut that hood rat, that reaction was extreme.  however, i ain't saying it's right. but i understand. 

but we black folk need to learn how to calmly ether white folk while smiling and not breaking as sweat or a swear.


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Posted By: niecy
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:29pm
Figures you'd be in Florida. I hope you don't live anywhere near the Villages.


Posted By: MinnyMiss16
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:29pm
I used to live in florida, Collier and Lee County to be exact...god bless your heart. lol


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:33pm
shoulda just gloated. obama still has his job 


Posted By: Organic
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:37pm
Originally posted by CamiK CamiK wrote:

Angry
Background: My sis works in customer service as a cashier.So today she encountered a racist romney fan...

Scenario:

Sis: "How are you today?"
Customer: "Oh, Im not doing so well because that ni*&ers still in the chair, but thats ok,yall are going to pay for it"
Sis: You puss as* cracka, when I pay for it, you just make sure you give me my change...Angry"
...and you still have to live under that ni*&er for the next four years. Paper or plastic? Smile

Not sure what took place after but she was FIRED!! Now my mom is saying she feels like my sis is exaggerating the actual situation, however she does believe that the customer said something racist and my sister reacted. 

And yes Im in cracka country Florida and no Im not trolling...Im mad as fuk right now!!!



That response in red would have made my friggin' day LOL. I completely believe your sister. I'm in Florida -- day aint happeh.


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Posted By: Az~Maverick
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:39pm
She should've said "Call me whatever you want, YOUR President is still black. Big smile " LOL


Posted By: CamiK
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:40pm
Shes a hot head... but I think many ppl would be in that situation...smh

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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 6:48pm
Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

She should've said "Call me whatever you want, YOUR President is still black. Big smile " LOL
And ended it with a 'you have a wonderful day ma'am'.

Like Pity said, the calm eloquent ether is priceless.


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Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:17pm
So what's the handbook on this? If a customer calls you a n*ggerr, which is an obvious racial slur, followed by a threat that "you're gonna pay for it", can you not respond harshly?
I understand that in these situations, it's best to deliver some ether calmly and with a smile but it's not always our first reaction to do so. Does she not have any recourse since the customer called her a racial epithet and threatened her? I would definitely look into that.
 
Just last week some white dyke bitch at my job greeted me in the morning with the French equivalent of "good morning, n*ggger. I responded with "good morning, ignorant pale face butch dyke" with a smile and kept on going. This bish was a manager for another department so I could have easily complained, except she made sure that no one was in sight when she said it 


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:24pm
handbook would've been tossed out the window....

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Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:27pm
No but seriously, is there recourse when you are confronted with that kind of verbal agression on the job? She threatened her! Don't you guys have some kind of work equity commission that you can bring your grievances to? I don't know how it works in the US, let alone Florida...


Posted By: CamiK
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:29pm
Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

No but seriously, is there recourse when you are confronted with that kind of verbal agression on the job? She threatened her! Don't you guys have some kind of work equity commission that you can bring your grievances to? I don't know how it works in the US, let alone Florida...

The customer was a white male and the manager that fired her was a black woman...


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Posted By: JoliePoufiasse
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:32pm
Originally posted by CamiK CamiK wrote:

Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

No but seriously, is there recourse when you are confronted with that kind of verbal agression on the job? She threatened her! Don't you guys have some kind of work equity commission that you can bring your grievances to? I don't know how it works in the US, let alone Florida...

The customer was a white male and the manager that fired her was a black woman...
Are you serious? A BLACK WOMAN could not understand the situation well enough to just take her aside and give a warning, if need be??? This is unbelievable. But still, do you guys have a work equity commission? Over here, it's a step we can take (governement agency) before we get lawyers involved if we feel we do not get satisfaction. Since I doubt she can afford lawyers, is there such a body that regulates these things? Black or not, this is discrimination. There was a threat involved. Also her response was verbal. It's not like she jumped on the girl


Posted By: Spokenword
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:46pm
sorry that your sister lost her job.  the nerve of that man, and i agree that in the  moment, you don't always have time to think through your thoughts.  how old is your sister?
what was his response  to what she said, did it escalate?
 
 
 
 


Posted By: coconess
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:48pm
There is no "understanding a situation"
In a customer service oriented environement.. They can say whatever they want..
As long as they don't put their hands on you.

She reacted stupidly IMO. She should have known she would lose her job.. If she didn't care about that then I understand. But if she valued her job she would have said a slightly snarky comment about how he's there for the next 4 yrs regardless of how anyone feels about it.
She could have got at him way worse and made him way madder if she would have thought before she spoke. Im not saying she shouldnt have been angry but There are ways to deal with certain situations..
He won. He disrespected you and then got you fired...
I would have been laughing at him cus he can't do sh*t about it



Posted By: Spokenword
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:52pm
Originally posted by CamiK CamiK wrote:

Shes a hot head... but I think many ppl would be in that situation...smh
 
has she had other incidents at work? perhaps that was also tied into her termination?
 
also, you said your mom thinks your sister exaggerated. do you mean on the side of the man (like he didn't actually say that) or is she thinking your sister exaggerated her response.


Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:55pm
I would have shut down that register and walked off. That crakkka can pack his own sh!t.

Then I'd write 2 incident reports, one for management and one for corporate.


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Posted By: Spokenword
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 7:57pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

There is no "understanding a situation"
In a customer service oriented environement.. They can say whatever they want..
As long as they don't put their hands on you.

She reacted stupidly IMO. She should have known she would lose her job.. If she didn't care about that then I understand. But if she valued her job she would have said a slightly snarky comment about how he's there for the next 4 yrs regardless of how anyone feels about it.
She could have got at him way worse and made him way madder if she would have thought before she spoke. Im not saying she shouldnt have been angry but There are ways to deal with certain situations..
He won. He disrespected you and then got you fired...
I would have been laughing at him cus he can't do sh*t about it

 
very true, coco


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 8:09pm
He threatened her. I would've ran off like I was scared for my life and promptly called security.

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Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 8:41pm
Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:

He threatened her. I would've ran off like I was scared for my life and promptly called security.
 
Yall need to learn to play the game! Because that is exactly what a white woman would have done. Game. Set. Match.


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Posted By: HunnyB
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 8:42pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by CamiK CamiK wrote:

Angry
Background: My sis works in customer service as a cashier.So today she encountered a racist romney fan...

Scenario:

Sis: "How are you today?"
Customer: "Oh, Im not doing so well because that ni*&ers still in the chair, but thats ok,yall are going to pay for it"
Sis: You puss as* cracka, when I pay for it, you just make sure you give me my change...Angry"

Not sure what took place after but she was FIRED!! Now my mom is saying she feels like my sis is exaggerating the actual situation, however she does believe that the customer said something racist and my sister reacted. 

And yes Im in cracka country Florida and no Im not trolling...Im mad as fuk right now!!!



girl, like the man that uppercut that hood rat, that reaction was extreme.  however, i ain't saying it's right. but i understand. 

but we black folk need to learn how to calmly ether white folk while smiling and not breaking as sweat or a swear.

This all day.



Posted By: AshBash89
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 8:57pm

It's aways easy to judge from the sidelines.  I would like to think that I would have refused to service the customer or replied sarcastically but there is a very good chance I would have lost my cool as well.  I have personally never been directly confronted with racism.



Posted By: Gia2009
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 9:06pm
Originally posted by CamiK CamiK wrote:

Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

No but seriously, is there recourse when you are confronted with that kind of verbal agression on the job? She threatened her! Don't you guys have some kind of work equity commission that you can bring your grievances to? I don't know how it works in the US, let alone Florida...

The customer was a white male and the manager that fired her was a black woman...


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Posted By: tropical-punch
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 10:29pm
no, they are not. 


Posted By: Soratachi
Date Posted: Nov 08 2012 at 11:31pm
She needed to close the register and run to management. That was a threat.

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Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Nov 09 2012 at 12:03am

sorry she lost her job but.....she lost her temper.

 
he won.  flawless victory.


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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 09 2012 at 12:13am
Well, he accomplished what he went there to do. I'm sure he feels better about himself now.

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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 09 2012 at 12:13am
Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:


Originally posted by OrriannaRose OrriannaRose wrote:



He threatened her. I would've ran off like I was scared for my life and promptly called security.

 
Yall need to learn to play the game! Because that is exactly what a white woman would have done. Game. Set. Match.


LMAO so true though.

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Posted By: foxyroy19
Date Posted: Nov 09 2012 at 12:23am
WOW!

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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Nov 09 2012 at 8:36pm
your sister should have been fired or suspended...

she did make a bad situation worse. That white woman won


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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Nov 09 2012 at 8:37pm
Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

I would have shut down that register and walked off. That crakkka can pack his own sh!t.

Then I'd write 2 incident reports, one for management and one for corporate.

exactly


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Posted By: RoxieDream
Date Posted: Nov 09 2012 at 8:41pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

There is no "understanding a situation"
In a customer service oriented environement.. They can say whatever they want..
As long as they don't put their hands on you.


She reacted stupidly IMO. She should have known she would lose her job.. If she didn't care about that then I understand. But if she valued her job she would have said a slightly snarky comment about how he's there for the next 4 yrs regardless of how anyone feels about it.
She could have got at him way worse and made him way madder if she would have thought before she spoke. Im not saying she shouldnt have been angry but There are ways to deal with certain situations..
He won. He disrespected you and then got you fired...
I would have been laughing at him cus he can't do sh*t about it




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