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Topic: Do you act differently towards yts in real life...
Posted By: zsazsa
Subject: Do you act differently towards yts in real life...
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:32pm
or you as ballsy and gutsy as when you are on here? if they piss you off, do you actually voice it to them etc? be honestLOL

I know someone in real life who is forever shooting their mouth off about them...if it rains, it's ytie's fault, but when this person is around them (yts), they behaves like they have just been handed their freedom papers. I kid you not. The contrast is amazing. Twat. 




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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:33pm
I haven't seen a white person in weeks.


Posted By: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:33pm
Originally posted by zsazsa zsazsa wrote:

or you as ballsy and gutsy as when you are on here? if they piss you off, do you actually voice it to them etc? be honestLOL

I know someone in real life who is forever shooting their mouth off about them...if it rains, it's ytie's fault, but when this person is around them (yts), they behaves like they have just been handed their freedom papers. I kid you not. The contrast is amazing. Twat. 


LMFAOO Jesus, why didn't I think of a thread like this?

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Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:34pm
they aint tryna lose their jobs. i'd say no w/ the exception of two. 

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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:35pm
Oh yt ppl.
The poli sci white I boys know I don't care for them at all.
I had to check a couple of them at Model UN.


I also had a run in with a white girl and the N word .she got her stuff thrown out on one occasion and the other time she got socked.


In class discussions I tell them about themselves all the time lol

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Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:36pm
i only really deal with them at work and since they essentially keep a few coins in my pockets at this point...there is only so much of my true feelings i will reveal.  lol
 
other than that they get exactly what i feel...which is generally not wanting to be bothered with them....


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Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:36pm
im friendly toward most people but i dont believe in white friends.


Posted By: Bunnyahh
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:37pm
I'm the same with every color

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Posted By: lovelife
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:37pm
Some white people stink to me. If a white person gets on the treadmill next to me, I usually give them a stank face. Sometimes they move. If not I move, then continue my workout. I don't really have to come in contact with other white people most of the time.

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Posted By: _ConcreteRose_
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:38pm
no. I act the same to everybody generally.

Im cool with my friends (of all races), and cordial with everyone else.


Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:38pm
I treat them like I treat everyone else. Indifferent.


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Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:41pm
Am I rude as hell and tell em how they are the devil and how I am 6 ether and therefore a god and things of that nature? no.  Do I coon at work or on the street? no.  I deal with my white associates like I deal with anyone else.  I have had to call folks out on their biases but I don't get into like that at my place of employment.   In my personal life....I do straighten them out when they try to compare my being black to their being white and gay.

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Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:41pm
yeah.

i got a white lady arrested in my neighborhood earlier this year

fawk her and her unruly son


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Posted By: Naturalchick30
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:43pm
I tend to ignore them kinda like how they do me


Posted By: babyk94
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:44pm
I have white friends and my grandfather is white so I treat them normally. I treat people the way I want to be treated


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:44pm
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Am I rude as hell and tell em how they are the devil and how I am 6 ether and therefore a god and things of that nature? no.  Do I coon at work or on the street? no.  I deal with my white associates like I deal with anyone else.  I have had to call folks out on their biases but I don't get into like that at my place of employment.   In my personal life....I do straighten them out when they try to compare my being black to their being white and gay.


i just had an argument about this.  white folks are really running with this sh*t.


Posted By: freedom76
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:44pm
White women, yes....white men a bit differently. I don't want them looking at me too hard. So I tend to avoid them whenever I can, which isn't as often as I wish.

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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:45pm
I'm not needlessly rude to anyone.
But White ppl can try it sometimes and all that white privilege can go to their heads.

Sometimes they need to be checked.
And no I'm not afraid to check them IRL.    

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Posted By: stardaqueenb23
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:46pm
Meh if they are cool to me I am cool to them. I have went in on more then a few yt people in my life time.


Posted By: bg
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:46pm
Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

I have white friends and my grandfather  grandmother is white so I treat them normally. I treat ALL people the way I want to be treated


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Posted By: Addicted19034
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:46pm
Lmfao


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:50pm
Depends on the circumstance . I refuse to dislike all white people . My own race will turn on me for white person in a heart beat .

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Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:51pm
LOL

On the job, i treat all my clients/customers the same (except after 1 incident... i remember not talking to any White person but then I felt bad and came to my senses)

But I will say that when I was in school, I had several White friends. They were cool as hell but they were my 'surface friends'. I wouldn't expect any deep conversations with them unless it had to do with our major. But most of the White girls in my class eventually knew I gave no F*CKS about them

Probably thought I had an "attitude" lol


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:53pm
i treat everyone the same...

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Posted By: Yardgirl
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:54pm
Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

I treat people the way I want to be treated


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Posted By: JGCwayZeBaby
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:55pm
Color/race doesn't affect how I treat anyone, that's discrimination lol
I live in a predominantly white area (but it's still mixed with Black, Middle Eastern, Asian, a lil Hispanic) so I've grown up around them, interact with them at work, ect.
The only time it's made a difference is when it comes to certain disagreements/confrontations (in a school or work setting). White women tend to lose their composure over things so easily or try to avoid ruffling any feathers all together, and I've used that to my advantage on several occasions. 


Posted By: Yardgirl
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 3:59pm
Originally posted by JGCwayZeBaby JGCwayZeBaby wrote:

Color/race doesn't affect how I treat anyone, that's discrimination lol
I live in a predominantly white area (but it's still mixed with Black, Middle Eastern, Asian, a lil Hispanic) so I've grown up around them, interact with them at work, ect.
The only time it's made a difference is when it comes to certain disagreements/confrontations (in a school or work setting). White women tend to lose their composure over things so easily or try to avoid ruffling any feathers all together, and I've used that to my advantage on several occasions. 
The same could be said about black women. We can be too emotional sometimes.

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Posted By: JGCwayZeBaby
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:04pm
Originally posted by Yardgirl Yardgirl wrote:

Originally posted by JGCwayZeBaby JGCwayZeBaby wrote:

Color/race doesn't affect how I treat anyone, that's discrimination lol
I live in a predominantly white area (but it's still mixed with Black, Middle Eastern, Asian, a lil Hispanic) so I've grown up around them, interact with them at work, ect.
The only time it's made a difference is when it comes to certain disagreements/confrontations (in a school or work setting). White women tend to lose their composure over things so easily or try to avoid ruffling any feathers all together, and I've used that to my advantage on several occasions. 
The same could be said about black women. We can be too emotional sometimes.

The same could be said about anyone. I'm just going off of my personal experiences, which happened to have involved white women. 


Posted By: zsazsa
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:06pm
I should have posed the question differently. I am not talking about the workplaces - that's a toughie. I am talking about being free to express yourself freely without hesitation in social setting, on the street etc. Are you careful what you say/post on FB for example if you have them on there? or are you acutely aware that they're there and you don't want to cause upset? 

I know quite a few 'radical' (can't think of a better word right now) people indoors but they're absolutely different outdoors. 

I think for most of us, we treat people how we would like to be treated, regardless of colour, faith etc but there is no denying that there are some people who are polar opposites when they are faced with yts. 

I am not explaining this well as I am tired - might try later.   
 


Posted By: india100
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:11pm
Are you talking about putting a front simply because the person is white ?  NVM . Waits .


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Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:17pm
mmmhmmm....*chews gum*...i see u zsazsa.... i see u gyal.
 
 
 
 


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Posted By: bg
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:18pm

i don't coochiefoot around what i want/need to say regarding racial issues (i assume this is what you mean)

i notice some blacks put on a 'hey mista white man' voice (moreso at work) and its so funny and pathetic.

i shucks and jives for no one

but then again, i'm not a militant black either...sooooooooooo....



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Posted By: iGotSunshine
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:19pm
i dont like them 
i dont hold the door for them 
i dont give them slight smiles 
and i dont spark conversations with them 
but if they speak to me first im cool


Posted By: bg
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:21pm
WTF?

coochiefoot? LOL

that is not what i typed...

P U S S Y F O O T


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Posted By: babyk94
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:22pm
I mean if a radical controversial dicussion that had to do with race and white people were around I will still speak the truth or if a white person makes an offensive remark or "joke" I will definitely say something.


Posted By: JGCwayZeBaby
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:22pm
Originally posted by zsazsa zsazsa wrote:

I should have posed the question differently. I am not talking about the workplaces - that's a toughie. I am talking about being free to express yourself freely without hesitation in social setting, on the street etc. Are you careful what you say/post on FB for example if you have them on there? or are you acutely aware that they're there and you don't want to cause upset? 

I know quite a few 'radical' (can't think of a better word right now) people indoors but they're absolutely different outdoors. 

I think for most of us, we treat people how we would like to be treated, regardless of colour, faith etc but there is no denying that there are some people who are polar opposites when they are faced with yts. 

I am not explaining this well as I am tired - might try later.   
 

Ok, I get what you mean. Like sometimes I'll be thinking, "Man, white people are crazy," when I see girls still wearing flip flips and guys still wearing shorts on a 30 degrees November day. 
Or the ones talking about voting for Romney even though they're collecting all kinds of government assistance that he wants to cut. 
Publicly I tend to keep things like to myself though, to be polite. At home around my family or with friends (even some white ones) we can talk about stuff like that LOL


Posted By: Alias_Avi
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:27pm
I want to know why so many Black women melt like butter whenever they get around White women Stern Smile

The ladies of RHOA are one prime example of this


These women look so desperate in wanting a White "girlfriend"
And i also don't understand how some Black women (like chescaleigh) can encounter so many problems hanging around White people and yet still want to be BFFs with them and date them

Ohh the many questions I have lol


Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:28pm
sometimes im actually thinking whitey when im smiling

wait...so you expect ppl who shuck and jive to come on here and say what?



Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:29pm
i never really notice

im vocal with my displeasure irrespective of time and place

white people hate that eloquent ether

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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:30pm
I know some shuckers and ppl who light up in the prescence of white ppl.
Like its an honor or something.
I also know some ppl who thnk having a white boyfriend means like they won a prize.
It's pathetic .



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Posted By: tatee
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:31pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I know some shuckers and ppl who light up in the prescence of white ppl.
Like its an honor or something.
I also know some ppl who thnk having a white boyfriend means like they won a prize.
It's pathetic .


word to boyfriend/husband tags on YT


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:32pm

i have no problem with whites and they are useful for various things.
i guess if i counted my mixed race ls's i would have more
i am entering a field where i am the minority and have no problem interacting with old, awkward white males and white women.  i can find common ground. and i can genuinely like these people lol.
i am sure if i go to B school, i will have more white friends
i miss whites for certain things, like efficiency
i am enjoying my time of seeing them at infrequent intervals however.



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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:34pm
Some of my professors and I have discussed this .
There is power in being a minority and if you work it right you can flex it.

Was interesting
But in general yt ppl aren't a group of ppl I like to hang with.
You'd be surprised how pervasive and deep their kinda thinking goes.

I know a couple cool ones but I don't bother picking through the rubble

I do tend to love my professors, I've only had one black one

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Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:39pm
Depends on the person. 
I'll be here all day trying to explain cultural appropriation and white privilege.
I am starting to get some bass in my voice.

It truly depends on the setting. Overall, I'm cool with everyone.


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Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:40pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I know some shuckers and ppl who light up in the prescence of white ppl.
Like its an honor or something.
I also know some ppl who thnk having a white boyfriend means like they won a prize.
It's pathetic .


word to boyfriend/husband tags on YT
some of those guys be Sick

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Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:47pm
Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Am I rude as hell and tell em how they are the devil and how I am 6 ether and therefore a god and things of that nature? no.  Do I coon at work or on the street? no.  I deal with my white associates like I deal with anyone else.  I have had to call folks out on their biases but I don't get into like that at my place of employment.   In my personal life....I do straighten them out when they try to compare my being black to their being white and gay.


Angry I am sooo tired of that! it is NOT THE SAME THING!!

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Posted By: Midwest_Da_Gawd
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 4:55pm
Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

I want to know why so many Black women melt like butter whenever they get around White women MEN Stern Smile

The ladies of RHOA are one prime example of this


These women look so desperate in wanting a White "girlfriend"

And i also don't understand how some BHM Black women (like chescaleigh) can encounter so many problems hanging around White people and yet still want to be BFFs with them and date them

Ohh the many questions I have lol

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Posted By: Bunnyahh
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:01pm
@ LB, there are similarites as well as differences.
 
Make the thread Ladybird


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Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:04pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

sometimes im actually thinking whitey when im smiling

wait...so you expect ppl who shuck and jive to come on here and say what?


That is sooo me. At work I'll smile and offer a beverage or whatever all the while I'm thinking, "may I help you Cracker McCrack face" LOL I have to be careful not to let my thoughts slip and speak what I'm thinking. 

Other than that, I treat everyone the same. I call out bullsh*t regardless of whose ass its coming from...depending on my mood of course. 


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Posted By: SeducTress
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:11pm
I have like....a handful of yt folks on my facebook page. And they all happened to grow up and live among black folk. Whenever I have went off the handle about em they usually pop up and cosign with me. lol

I tend to ignore em. But I definitely have shown my militancy in the real world.

My boo entire page is chock full of yt's. He works for the fire department. Naturally they tend to mingle after work. I can't even BEGIN to tell y'all how many times my boo has shut sh*t down on his page.

He has at least 50 yt fb friends. He always posts hot topics that resonate with the community. And yes, we've had some incredibly heated debates with his yt fb friends. 

Laaaaawd....if I weren't tryna get to bed early I would grab a screenshot of a few gems.

I'm really proud of him for always being true to himself. Heart I might have to fix that man a plate tonightStern Smile


Posted By: babyk94
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:11pm
Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

I want to know why so many Black women melt like butter whenever they get around White women MEN Stern Smile

The ladies of RHOA are one prime example of this


These women look so desperate in wanting a White "girlfriend"

And i also don't understand how some BHM Black women (like chescaleigh) can encounter so many problems hanging around White people and yet still want to be BFFs with them and date them

Ohh the many questions I have lol

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Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:13pm
I don't associate with yt


Posted By: Eden.
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:19pm
fuk that ish i be on my ps and qs at work.

no soul having crackers or not, i got to pay rent.


Posted By: Eden.
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:20pm
one day ill be blessed to not have to be around em but now its not the case.


Posted By: TokyoRose
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:23pm
Honestly, my views are the same here as anywhere else.  I don't associate with clueless white people, so I am never given the opportunity to school them.  I am not shy about talking about race issues when the topic comes up...and it's funny when it's the whites who agree  with me more than anyone else.  Everyone who knows me IRL knows that I am pretty frank and I say what I mean.

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Posted By: acaraway
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:32pm
I don't really speak to people of any race unless they speak to me first, and then I'll decide if I like a person or not. That being said - very few white people talk to me.
But I've haven't been in situation where I had to tell someone they were being a racist dick since high school.




Posted By: Miss SDY
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:33pm
Originally posted by bg bg wrote:


Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

I have black friends and my grandmother is white so I treat them depending on how they treat me.





I do not mind putting check marks on any yt person who is feeling froggy. I don't have the same tolerance level that I used to. I try to treat people like I would want to be treated regardless of their race..

My dad also rarely brought me around my white family so.. *shrugs*

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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:35pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

sometimes im actually thinking whitey when im smiling
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Posted By: James Avery
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:41pm
Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

I want to know why so many Black women melt like butter whenever they get around White women MEN Stern Smile

The ladies of RHOA are one prime example of this


These women look so desperate in wanting a White "girlfriend"

And i also don't understand how some BHM Black women (like chescaleigh) can encounter so many problems hanging around White people and yet still want to be BFFs with them and date them

Ohh the many questions I have lol

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and to answer the question, i remain the exact same way.
 
when i moved to the "white side" of town i still went to walmart in hooping shorts, jordan sandals, tee and fitted cap. just like i was back home.
 
i don't speak to white strangers. in passing i look them dead in the eye until they either look away or out of my personal space.
 
i do have a white cousin by marriage. dude is cool as hell tbh. he like 60 something and treats his wife like a queen. he's probably the only white person i can trust at this juncture.


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Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:42pm
I'm respectful/polite to everybody I encounter until/unless they give me a reason not to be. 

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Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:47pm
haha@ja

 white folk do love looking folk dead in the eye and when you stare back at their asses, they get noticeably shook. I don't even like looking in folks faces like that but they leave me no choice. Gotta let them know they aint running sh*t. It tickles me when they cower and look away.


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Posted By: noneyons
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:49pm
I'm the nicest person you ever want to meet but that's one of the perks of being labeled an angry black woman by default. Thumbs Up (since we're always ready to snap and all...)

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Posted By: mzmee
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:51pm

I don't really too much deal with them if I don't have to. When I do deal with them, they feel that me not saying much = docile. As soon as they come out of their element, I put their asses back in place kindly. I don't care label me angry black whatever but ya won't treat me however you please.



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Posted By: James Avery
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 5:58pm
Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:

haha@ja

 white folk do love looking folk dead in the eye and when you stare back at their asses, they get noticeably shook. I don't even like looking in folks faces like that but they leave me no choice. Gotta let them know they aint running sh*t. It tickles me when they cower and look away.
yup.
 


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Posted By: laceyfront
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 6:23pm
I only deal with them in my place of employment, as long as they don't get out of pocket I am cordial with them. Im probably just as fake with them as they are with me. Im trying to succeed in the yt man's world, aint no shame in my game.
 
 
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Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 6:31pm
I act the same to everybody. But I notice it's harder for me to make white friends now because of potential prejudices on their part. I just don't feel like being their racial therapist or any stupid crap.

Amazingly, I still have white friends. But the ones I keep close are the ones that actually have the intellect and understanding to know where I come from. I have others but they are just the cordial acquaintances.

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Posted By: Midna
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 6:33pm
I act the same to everybody. But I notice it's harder for me to make white friends now because of potential prejudices on their part. I just don't feel like being their racial therapist or any stupid crap.

Amazingly, I still have white friends. But the ones I keep close are the ones that actually have the intellect and understanding to know where I come from. I have others but they are just the cordial acquaintances.

I've definitely grown less tolerant of white people ignorance. Except instead of wasting my time checking them, I make them feel stupid with a face palm and a departure.

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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 6:41pm
Originally posted by laceyfront laceyfront wrote:

I only deal with them in my place of employment, as long as they don't get out of pocket I am cordial with them. Im probably just as fake with them as they are with me. Im trying to succeed in the yt man's world, aint no shame in my game.
I believe most Black people feel this way. At least from what I've seen and read.


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<--Classy & Educated O.

"You're telling us your beefing with your bf's mother over $1 ice cream like it was blood diamonds." RickyR



Posted By: teendiva
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 7:15pm
Will I tell them I think they're a white devil that can kiss my black ass? No. Will I start shucking and jiving as soon as I'm graced by their presence? No. I'll put one in their place if they're way out of line.
I see right through them. This old yt dude was talking to me in a tone I felt was disrespectful. I didn't fire his ass up, I just got up and left. Gotta keep it classy even among these animals.

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To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else, is the greatest accomplishment.
-My dude Emerson


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 7:40pm
Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

yeah.

i got a white lady arrested in my neighborhood earlier this year

fawk her and her unruly son
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

im friendly toward most people but i dont believe in white friends.
Both of yall! CryCryCry


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Posted By: blaquefoxx
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 7:49pm
Yes I do, especially after I got into the truth. I will tolerate them at work and Lord knows that's hard, but that is the most they will get out of me.

Outside of work, I act like they don't exist. They would ask for directions and I will either ignore them or point them in the wrong direction. I'm extra rude towards older "I used to own your grandma" white folk tooStern Smile


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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 7:53pm
               We Wear the Mask

    We wear the mask that grins and lies,
    It hides our cheeks and shades our eyes,—
    This debt we pay to human guile;
    With torn and bleeding hearts we smile,
    And mouth with myriad subtleties.

    Why should the world be over-wise,
    In counting all our tears and sighs?
    Nay, let them only see us, while
            We wear the mask.

    We smile, but, O great Christ, our cries
    To thee from tortured souls arise.
    We sing, but oh the clay is vile
    Beneath our feet, and long the mile;
    But let the world dream otherwise,
            We wear the mask!




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<--Classy & Educated O.

"You're telling us your beefing with your bf's mother over $1 ice cream like it was blood diamonds." RickyR



Posted By: ShadyLady
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 8:35pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

I'm respectful/polite to everybody I encounter until/unless they give me a reason not to be. 


This.

When provoked, I'll nut up on ANYBODY.


Posted By: missdeeluxe
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:17pm
This is some interesting ish.
Stern Smile



Posted By: Meme0887
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:39pm
LOL Oh gosh ^^^
 
U kill me every time u come into these kinds of threads


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:41pm
Originally posted by missdeeluxe missdeeluxe wrote:

This is some interesting ish.
Stern Smile




What's on your mind Dee

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Never send to know for whom the bells tolls; it tolls for thee
Donne

Havmercy Dez Bryant


Posted By: babyk94
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:41pm
Originally posted by missdeeluxe missdeeluxe wrote:

This is some interesting ish.
Stern Smile

LMFAO SmileSmileTongue


Posted By: Eden.
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:42pm
lol


Posted By: teendiva
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:43pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Originally posted by missdeeluxe missdeeluxe wrote:

This is some interesting ish.
Stern Smile




What's on your mind Dee

Ikr? What's so interesting? *waits*

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To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else, is the greatest accomplishment.
-My dude Emerson


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:45pm
Maybe she didn't know we all generally have a dislike for pale folk?LOL

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<--Classy & Educated O.

"You're telling us your beefing with your bf's mother over $1 ice cream like it was blood diamonds." RickyR



Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:48pm
I'm professional at work or anything school and career related.
I use them just like they use us.
But outside of work I don't wanna deal with them and act like they don't exist.
I don't go out my way to be rude but I'm not smiling and trying to make small talk either.
I can only handle them for a certain amount of hours after that I don't want them even looking my way.

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"I don't give a flying pretzel in skittle rainbow hell"


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:52pm
Originally posted by missdeeluxe missdeeluxe wrote:

This is some interesting ish.
Stern Smile





Posted By: newdiva1
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:17pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I know some shuckers and ppl who light up in the prescence of white ppl.
Like its an honor or something.
I also know some ppl who thnk having a white boyfriend means like they won a prize.
It's pathetic .

 
 
 
 
 
and i'm sad to say it's someone I love dearly. smh.


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Chris and Koochie split! - Mrshairdo

Sometimes when sh*t happens...you say fucc - Cyndi Lauper

let's look death in the face and say "whatever man". -Hurley.


Posted By: missdeeluxe
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:26pm
Lmao I knew y'all don't sugarcoat around here.
And if someone says something ignorant, no one can blame anyone for firing back.
I'd do the same thing.

But sending someone in the complete wrong direction if they asked for em?
That's just cruel LOL


Posted By: Eden.
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:31pm
i pretended i was ghanaian fob one time when a white i think polish person asked me for directions to cne, i think i sent them on spadina or sumn.

it is what it is


Posted By: babyk94
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:36pm
Originally posted by missdeeluxe missdeeluxe wrote:

Lmao I knew y'all don't sugarcoat around here.
And if someone says something ignorant, no one can blame anyone for firing back.
I'd do the same thing.

But sending someone in the complete wrong direction if they asked for em?
That's just cruel LOL
I agree that is really immature in my opinion. I don't need to stoop to that level ever.


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:40pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Maybe she didn't know we all generally have a dislike for pale folk?LOL

CryCry


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Posted By: Organic
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:40pm
Most white people cannot understand me through my accent, so I speak very slowly, deliberately, and use 'little' words...






Evil Smile





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Cut from full hip to full waist
Maxi Glide with coconut oil
Pin curls
VOILA!


Posted By: smaison
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:42pm
Originally posted by missdeeluxe missdeeluxe wrote:

Lmao I knew y'all don't sugarcoat around here.
And if someone says something ignorant, no one can blame anyone for firing back.
I'd do the same thing.

But sending someone in the complete wrong direction if they asked for em?
That's just cruel LOL



Meh, yall be ok.
It's not as cruel as denying us opportunities base on our skin color.
Not as cruel as years of oppression, discrimination, and prejudices because of our skin color.
Not as cruel as slavery.
Not as cruel as yall not willing to admit yall privileges.
Yall be ok.

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"I don't give a flying pretzel in skittle rainbow hell"


Posted By: Bored w/Out Me?
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:43pm
I have a Yt Cubicle Mate, and I think She's Cool. At first it took me a while to open up to her but now it doesn't matter what color she is cause She's a Sweet Person with a Good Heart.


Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:47pm
...let me get the hell outta here 


Posted By: Lady ICE
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:48pm
Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

Originally posted by missdeeluxe missdeeluxe wrote:

Lmao I knew y'all don't sugarcoat around here.
And if someone says something ignorant, no one can blame anyone for firing back.
I'd do the same thing.

But sending someone in the complete wrong direction if they asked for em?
That's just cruel LOL
I agree that is really immature in my opinion. I don't need to stoop to that level ever.
i agree


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Posted By: Eden.
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:49pm
lol


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:53pm
Originally posted by Organic Organic wrote:

Most white people cannot understand me through my accent, so I speak very slowly, deliberately, and use 'little' words...

Evil Smile


I like your voice. Embarrassed


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 10:53pm
In general I'm verrrry neutral with all strangers but I'm a lot nicer to old people.  This older couple (white) was lost. I helped them as best as I could. They were so cute. LOL

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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 11:06pm
No, but I don't generally say rude things about white people on here. I know white people say things about us in private that they'd never say to our faces, though. Just like anyone else.

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"I give to the needy...and not the greedy!"

"Mm hm that's right!"


Posted By: bk2la981
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 11:16pm
Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

Originally posted by missdeeluxe missdeeluxe wrote:

Lmao I knew y'all don't sugarcoat around here.
And if someone says something ignorant, no one can blame anyone for firing back.
I'd do the same thing.

But sending someone in the complete wrong direction if they asked for em?
That's just cruel LOL



Meh, yall be ok.
It's not as cruel as denying us opportunities base on our skin color.
Not as cruel as years of oppression, discrimination, and prejudices because of our skin color.
Not as cruel as slavery.
Not as cruel as yall not willing to admit yall privileges.
Yall be ok.


If that's the case then isrealites should have a right to really hate and are justified in hating egyptians. egyptians. Israelites were the first slaves you know. Since you want to live in the past and all with that slavery and other stuff that is mostly in the past.
When do two wrongs make a right?
It hurt my heart when I was once eaking down the street with my 8yr old daughter and
one hispanic boy said to his friend ” do you think she's pretty?” Pointing to my daughter and he replied ”ugh, no, I don't like black girls.” And I think my daughter heard it. The correct response is not to hate them, but to wish they grow to see things differently through love. I can't do that if I'm bitter and snapping at white puerile all the time. I love all people, im cool with everyone. I'm well aware of racist white people and racist everyone, but I don't fight evil with more evil. That's ignorant and childish. I'm a christian, maybe that makes a bit of a difference


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 11:17pm
Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

...let me get the hell outta here 
*Skips out behind Southern*

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<--Classy & Educated O.

"You're telling us your beefing with your bf's mother over $1 ice cream like it was blood diamonds." RickyR



Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 11:22pm
Lol.

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Posted By: SoutherNtellect
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 11:22pm
lol @ living in the past
nicca where and what century do you live?
do you know there is an election tomorrow? i hope you exercised your right NOT to vote





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