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Topic: how to show a man interest.
Posted By: sbrownie84
Subject: how to show a man interest.
Date Posted: Nov 03 2012 at 11:15pm
My friends and I were all conversing about giving men that they are interested attention and I felt that they go much further than I would. 

HOw do you show a man interest without appearing to forward or disinterested? How far can you go without seeming desperate? how hard to get can you really play?



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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 03 2012 at 11:18pm
i breathe...

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Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Nov 03 2012 at 11:46pm
lol @ pity!!!

bout the most imma be able to do is smile upon brief eye contact. that`s all....

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Posted By: browneyez4548
Date Posted: Nov 03 2012 at 11:52pm
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

lol @ pity!!!

bout the most imma be able to do is smile upon brief eye contact. that`s all....


Thumbs Up


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Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 12:04am
you don't need a laundry list of how tos

be nice, be yourself and there isn't much beyond that

chasing them down will only put you in a situation you don't want to be in




Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 12:07am
"I likes ya and I wants ya."


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 12:09am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

"I likes ya and I wants ya."

ewwwLOL nasssy







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Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 12:10am
*shrugs*
I grabbed my husband by the hand and pulled him out on the dance floor.  


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Posted By: oh_so_moody
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 2:08am
Today I sent this dude I was checking for a lap dance.

We have brunch in the morning. *yay*

NO boys like straight to the point women.*per our three hour convo tonight*

*chants* 'Be Aggressive, B-E Aggressive' /LOL

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She stay quiet, she play smart
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Posted By: oh_so_moody
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 2:09am
NO= New Orleans

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She hurt feelings, she break hearts
She stay quiet, she play smart
She take pride, in going out
Getting hollered at, and saying nah....


Posted By: Prazol60
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 2:21am
Originally posted by oh_so_moody oh_so_moody wrote:

Today I sent this dude I was checking for a lap dance.

We have brunch in the morning. *yay*

NO boys like straight to the point women.*per our three hour convo tonight*

*chants* 'Be Aggressive, B-E Aggressive' /LOL

You posted about this twice. You must have had a really great time. Nice Smile
I hope your brunch goes just as good


Posted By: Lilaca
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:25am


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Posted By: starflower7
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:38am
I start off subtle and then work my way up, or if I don't know him I just spit it out. No regrets.

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Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 5:55am
If you have to go above and beyond to show a guy you're interested, thenI think you can say he is either thick or disinterested.

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Posted By: missunfoolish
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 6:05am
twerk




Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 7:36am
i think people think you just have to sit there and look pretty

doesnt always work like that..



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Posted By: sbrownie84
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 8:05am
can you elaborate afrokock


Posted By: khivey
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 8:13am
Tell him you're interested. Either he will tell you he feels the same or he doesn't.

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Posted By: mspatty
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 8:26am
just tell him how you really feel...you can tell whether he is interested in your or not by the response/body language you will get from him...it's that simple...not beating around the bush...we aren't in high school lol


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:05am
honestly just be yourself.

if he is interested or has some type of brain then he should pick up on it.


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Posted By: UrbanElegance
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:14am
Like everyone said...be yourself!! men find it refreshing when a woman is herself and is comfortable with herself.

Just start a conversation with him. Ask him what his interests are...who you be with.. (Just kidding)! Seriously, if the interest is mutual and you all "vibe" with one another, the conversation will just flow. Either you can wait for him to ask you out or ask for your number at the end of the conversation or you can hint that "you really like talking to him and would love to continue it sometime in the future".


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:19am
Are we talking about first time meeting a guy and approaching him?

Or showing your interested to a guy that you have already been seeing?


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Posted By: sbrownie84
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:22am
someone u are already talking to 



Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:24am
Ohh ok. Well then my reply still applies.

Be yourself.

And I mean, dont play any games but also dont make yourself too available. Dont ALWAYS be the one contacting him first or making the plans...it should be 50/50


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Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:28am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

i think people think you just have to sit there and look pretty

doesnt always work like that..



never had a problem in 25+ years of doing it. once they come over...of course, my enchanting personality hooks them. but they HAVE to make it over.

i am sure there are men who have decided not to make the first move either because they don't feel like they should have to or they are not interested off first glance/observance (or unavailable). in either case, that works just fine for me because we probably wouldn't be compatible anyway...so meh.

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Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:30am
Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

someone u are already talking to 



oh. you are already involved. how involved?

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you say i need some time to meditate...naaaaah b*tch i'm fly! i need time to levitate... ~yeezy


dacoldesteva


Posted By: HeyBeautiful18
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:35am
OP do you feel like the guy is losing interest in you?

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Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:36am
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

i think people think you just have to sit there and look pretty

doesnt always work like that..



never had a problem in 25+ years of doing it. once they come over...of course, my enchanting personality hooks them. but they HAVE to make it over.

i am sure there are men who have decided not to make the first move either because they don't feel like they should have to or they are not interested off first glance/observance (or unavailable). in either case, that works just fine for me because we probably wouldn't be compatible anyway...so meh.

My husband's friends told him I was stuck up.  He had wanted to talk to me for a while but they told him I would shoot him down.  I honestly never noticed him before.  That one night however, I did.  And I honestly believe we wouldn't be together had I not pulled him out there.  The rest was history.  It's not that we weren't compatible, but no one wants to be rejected.  

Women do the same thing just differently.  I don't go into stores where I can't afford the merchandise.  No matter how much I like their stuff.  We don't apply for jobs we truly feel we don't have a shot at.  Sometimes it hurts less not to try than to try and find out you didn't make the cut.


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Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:37am
Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

someone u are already talking to 


Talking to how?  Have a class together?  Work together?  Or already friends?


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:39am
if you're already talking to the person then dont play games

is this the man your cousins told you not to date and you got mad?


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Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:45am
Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:


Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

i think people think you just have to sit there and look pretty

doesnt always work like that..



never had a problem in 25+ years of doing it. once they come over...of course, my enchanting personality hooks them. but they HAVE to make it over.

i am sure there are men who have decided not to make the first move either because they don't feel like they should have to or they are not interested off first glance/observance (or unavailable). in either case, that works just fine for me because we probably wouldn't be compatible anyway...so meh.


My husband's friends told him I was stuck up.  He had wanted to talk to me for a while but they told him I would shoot him down.  I honestly never noticed him before.  That one night however, I did.  And I honestly believe we wouldn't be together had I not pulled him out there.  The rest was history.  It's not that we weren't compatible, but no one wants to be rejected.  

Women do the same thing just differently.  I don't go into stores where I can't afford the merchandise.  No matter how much I like their stuff.  We don't apply for jobs we truly feel we don't have a shot at.  Sometimes it hurts less not to try than to try and find out you didn't make the cut.


i guess i meant i prefer alpha men. i would never grab a man off/on the dance floor ever. and i would be perfectly ok with he and i never getting together if thats what it would take for us to connect.

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Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:48am
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

if you're already talking to the person then dont play games

is this the man your cousins told you not to date and you got mad?


dude from jamaica????

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you say i need some time to meditate...naaaaah b*tch i'm fly! i need time to levitate... ~yeezy


dacoldesteva


Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:51am
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

if you're already talking to the person then dont play games

is this the man your cousins told you not to date and you got mad?

E your memory slaughters me LOL


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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 9:57am
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

i think people think you just have to sit there and look pretty

doesnt always work like that..



never had a problem in 25+ years of doing it. once they come over...of course, my enchanting personality hooks them. but they HAVE to make it over.

i am sure there are men who have decided not to make the first move either because they don't feel like they should have to or they are not interested off first glance/observance (or unavailable). in either case, that works just fine for me because we probably wouldn't be compatible anyway...so meh.
why you so defensive?



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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: ThoughtCouture
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 10:00am
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

why you so defensive?



lol defensive????? huh??? no sir.

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you say i need some time to meditate...naaaaah b*tch i'm fly! i need time to levitate... ~yeezy


dacoldesteva


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 10:06am
Leave it alone OP. You'll thank me later

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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 10:10am
Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

someone u are already talking to 

then i second twerking!!

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: ThatGurlD
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 10:11am
Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Leave it alone OP. You'll thank me later

This.  If y'all are already talking, there's mot much more you can do imo 


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Posted By: lovelife
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 10:13am
make eye contact
ask about his interests
give him a couple of compliments
touch him in a flirty manner
giggle at his jokes


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Posted By: OoDles O
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 11:23am
touch his leg
ask him questions
listen to his answers and ask him follow up questions
lean inward to listen to him (in person)
Spend some of your own money on him (thats usually when I know I have a young ladies interest haha)




Posted By: 313chick
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 11:46am
Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

I start off subtle and then work my way up, or if I don't know him I just spit it out. No regrets.


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Posted By: oh_so_moody
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 12:22pm
Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

oh so moody out here hooking up with brothas in the strip club



We got common interests then

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She hurt feelings, she break hearts
She stay quiet, she play smart
She take pride, in going out
Getting hollered at, and saying nah....


Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 1:25pm
he isn't showing interest for a very good reason (nothing to do with how much interest you show)

just believe him, I wouldn't force it




Posted By: Bunnyahh
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 1:37pm
Originally posted by 313chick 313chick wrote:

"Who are you taking advice from? Is it the bitter, angry divorced woman who hates men? Is it the woman who is single with a ton of baby daddy's telling you that men aren't anything & you don't have to be married to have all his babies? Is it the guy that is a womanizer & cheats on everything that moves? Is it the woman who is an emotional wreck that EVERY day there's some new drama in her life? Who is it? I don't know about you but I refuse to take advice from someone who isn't WHERE I want to be and gives ADVICE based on their VERY limited, jacked up perspective. Guard your heart"


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Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 1:45pm
wow 313chick I'm curious

are these people in OPs life (from her posts)

or are you talking about BHMers

or theoretical people 


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 2:04pm
Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

Originally posted by 313chick 313chick wrote:

"Who are you taking advice from? Is it the bitter, angry divorced woman who hates men? Is it the woman who is single with a ton of baby daddy's telling you that men aren't anything & you don't have to be married to have all his babies? Is it the guy that is a womanizer & cheats on everything that moves? Is it the woman who is an emotional wreck that EVERY day there's some new drama in her life? Who is it? I don't know about you but I refuse to take advice from someone who isn't WHERE I want to be and gives ADVICE based on their VERY limited, jacked up perspective. Guard your heart"
LOL

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Posted By: 313chick
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 2:06pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

wow 313chick I'm curious

are these people in OPs life (from her posts)

or are you talking about BHMers

or theoretical people 
I'm not talking about anybody... That is the best advice I heard from a family member.

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Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 2:11pm


ohhhhhhhh I thought it was a bhm doesn't forget moment LOL





Posted By: 313chick
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 2:12pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:



ohhhhhhhh I thought it was a bhm doesn't forget moment LOL



LOL

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Posted By: Miss B
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 2:38pm
Stare. Without smiling. And do not blink.




LOL let me know how that works out.


Posted By: laceyfront
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 2:48pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

i breathe...
 
 
Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:

bout the most imma be able to do is smile upon brief eye contact. that`s all....


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 3:55pm
Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

can you elaborate afrokock
there are things like suggestive conversation without being overt,

body language, being receptive

being able to hold a conversation

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:04pm
ask him:
"so when are you going to ask me out?"


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PEACE


Posted By: Bunnyahh
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:09pm
some women are meant to be single for the rest of their lives.

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Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:17pm
sitting pretty usually works.
i almost never approach men first (except this last time, but it still wasnt direct)
And i usually flirt, it works 100% of the time.


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Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:27pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

can you elaborate afrokock
there are things like suggestive conversation without being overt,

body language, being receptive

being able to hold a conversation

but they're already 'talking'
apparently she is not holding his interest


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Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:29pm
Y'all ladies must have game or wear pheromones because I could sit and look pretty and end up like this:
Maybe I look busy because I'm constantly have my head in the books.


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Posted By: sugabanana
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:32pm
If he's into you he'll come over and talk.

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Posted By: Bunnyahh
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:38pm

Many don't think that there's anything wrong with them.  Guys have standards too & op may not be his cup of tea.  It can be her hair, nails, color, weight, eyes, feet, clothes, nose, teeth, breath etc...

Just let it go.  9/10 dude is not gonna tell you whats wrong with you.  So you'll never get the closure you need


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:42pm
off topic (maybe I should start another thread)--but I hear ladies say that they like to set themselves up in a position for the guy to make the first move . Like they will drop something, or sit /stand in a spot to be sure they are noticed; or walk a certain path to make sure they pass the guy. Then if the guy likes them, the guy will approach.

[anyone can answer] If you do it that way, do you feel like you have still made the first move since you put yourself in his path so to speak? You chose him first, and then made yourself available for him see and approach you first. But I always considered that as technically making the first move too.


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Posted By: rickysrose
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:51pm
hmmm I don't think it has to do with her physically ... they're already "talking"

I think it has more to do with his roster being full

and she'd have to act extra thirsty to displace one of the other sidepieces

do.not.want.



Posted By: Bunnyahh
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:55pm
Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

off topic (maybe I should start another thread)--but I hear ladies say that they like to set themselves up in a position for the guy to make the first move . Like they will drop something, or sit /stand in a spot to be sure they are noticed; or walk a certain path to make sure they pass the guy. Then if the guy likes them, the guy will approach.

[anyone can answer] If you do it that way, do you feel like you have still made the first move since you put yourself in his path so to speak? You chose him first, and then made yourself available for him see and approach you first. But I always considered that as technically making the first move too.
yes IA, she made the 1st move.

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Posted By: Bunnyahh
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 4:56pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

hmmm I don't think it has to do with her physically ... they're already "talking"

I think it has more to do with his roster being full

and she'd have to act extra thirsty to displace one of the other sidepieces

do.not.want.

if he wanted her, he woulda been had that.  Its not hard

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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 5:47pm
maybe she's just not his type..

is that not possible?

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 5:50pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

maybe she's just not his type..

is that not possible?

no.  she has a vagina dummyConfused


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Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 5:57pm
ah oh yes..

my bad...

thousand apologies!

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: BoutThatLife
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 6:32pm
Smile and bat your eyesif he don't move from there he ain't feelin u

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Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 6:33pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

maybe she's just not his type.. 

is that not possible?
FCK. BHM ate my post.

I said:

I think it is hard for some women (me) to grasp that fact, despite the fact that they (I) come across several men that aren't their (my) type.

I was one of those women. LOL  Maybe that's why we have books like "He's Just Not that Into You!"

So when a guy we like is giving us...well let me speak for myself...when a guy I like gives me the "no me gusta" I'm just like:




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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 6:34pm
I'm going to combine some of the advice in here and see if it works.

I'm going to stand near a guy and stare at him without blinking and see if that works.Cool

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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 6:35pm
Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

ah oh yes..

my bad...

thousand apologies!


accepted. We're gonna learn you something on BHM LOL


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PEACE


Posted By: afrokock
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 6:46pm
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I'm going to combine some of the advice in here and see if it works.

I'm going to stand near a guy and stare at him without blinking and see if that works.Cool
and if that doesnt work beat him over the head with a bottle and request your snunuu

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I just can't stand the negro british midget. He brings out the worst in me.....

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I sometimes think AfroK is gay and either doesn't know it or won't admit to it..


Posted By: sbrownie84
Date Posted: Nov 04 2012 at 7:15pm
lol! Love reading all the responses. I am not talking to anyone right now, but I just needed to know for when I do because my friends tell me I give off a 'disinterested' vibe and I should try harder. 


Posted By: Mixer
Date Posted: Nov 05 2012 at 9:58pm
Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Y'all ladies must have game or wear pheromones because I could sit and look pretty and end up like this:
Maybe I look busy because I'm constantly have my head in the books.
All that needs to be said.


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Posted By: Ashleyano
Date Posted: Nov 06 2012 at 1:06am
Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:


FCK. BHM ate my post.

I said:

I think it is hard for some women (me) to grasp that fact, despite the fact that they (I) come across several men that aren't their (my) type.

I was one of those women. LOL  Maybe that's why we have books like "He's Just Not that Into You!"

So when a guy we like is giving us...well let me speak for myself...when a guy I like gives me the "no me gusta" I'm just like:


smh same here


Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Nov 06 2012 at 1:59am
Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

ask him:
"so when are you going to ask me out?"



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