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Topic: After Stripping/Escorting through College
Posted By: mediagirl
Subject: After Stripping/Escorting through College
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 12:51pm
This is not an advice thread...LOL

I was watching The Player's Club and it got me wondering. Does anyone know of people who have stripped/worked as escorts while in College/Univeristy and actually stopped after getting their degree? 



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Posted By: Serwa
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 1:09pm

I know a girl from college (a friend of a friend) who danced her way through school. My friend asked if she saw herself ever stopping. Her answer was, basically, yes, but that she didn't see how she would at the moment. Whereas her peers are starting out in their careers making 45K USD pushing papers in boring desk jobs, she makes that in a matter of months, meets interesting people and is practically considered a star. At this point, she'd only want an unconventional job like acting, singing or makeup artistry because everything else is too bland bureaucratic for her.



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Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 1:26pm
yeah my friend stopped doing it as her main job. she only dances when she wants extra money. she started off stripping b/c that is what her ethnography topic was in undergrad, but she really liked the money and paid for her master's. 

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to grow completely new skin cells.
To think, this year I will grow
into a body you never will
have touched.
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Posted By: glamrock
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 1:51pm
A person I know very well:

*Accrued a ton of credit card debt while out of state in college while earning mediocre grades

*Old school parents threatened to make her transfer during her Junior year and told her to get a customer service night job at the airport like the other students at her school to pay off the cc debt. Told her that there would be no spending money sent, only book money, etc (she lived on campus) b/c she was irresponsible and needed to learn discipline.

*she had FFF bra cup, itty bitty waist/flat curved in stomach and hips that completed the ratio and was like screw a night job at the airport

*stripped junior & senior year.

*Graduated, moved home, worked for family business. Moved into her own place and due to high cost of living in her home state, stripped on the weekends til she left family business and got a higher paying job in her field in a top financial company. Quit strip life.

*Met a dude a work, fell in love, revealed her past to him, he was ok with it, married and they are living the american dream of 2 kids, white picket fence, etc., etc.

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Posted By: *Belle*Femme*
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 1:55pm
I have never met anyone who stripped to pay for school. 

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My mind explodes


Posted By: Lilaca
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 1:55pm
this is only an option for pretty people *sigh , remains broke*

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Posted By: Merin
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 1:57pm
This thread has potential.


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 1:57pm
yes and she graduated from Harvard Law

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Posted By: Serwa
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 2:05pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

yes and she graduated from Harvard Law
 
She should write a book


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Posted By: MinnyMiss16
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 2:07pm
Hmm, all this sounds so promising for a May 2012 graduate like myself Big smile


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 2:12pm
I know two girls who strip off and on.
Idk what they plan to do after graduation

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Posted By: mediagirl
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 2:18pm
Originally posted by *Belle*Femme* *Belle*Femme* wrote:

I have never met anyone who stripped to pay for school. 

Neither have I...at least not that I know of. LOL
but, there are a few posters here knowledgeable in that line of work, so I thought I'd ask. 


Posted By: mediagirl
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 2:18pm
Originally posted by Serwa Serwa wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

yes and she graduated from Harvard Law
 
She should write a book

Indeed she should! 


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 2:25pm
Originally posted by mediagirl mediagirl wrote:

Originally posted by Serwa Serwa wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

yes and she graduated from Harvard Law
 
She should write a book

Indeed she should! 

I have actually never met her.  She's my friends friend.  Stripped through undergrad


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Posted By: Serwa
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 2:39pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by mediagirl mediagirl wrote:

Originally posted by Serwa Serwa wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

yes and she graduated from Harvard Law
 
She should write a book

Indeed she should! 

I have actually never met her.  She's my friends friend.  Stripped through undergrad
 
If she stripped her way through an Ivy League or Ivy+ then she really needs to write a book, or maybe a showcase on a women's network like TLC or We.


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Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 2:47pm
I know of two girls that went to Yale and were escorts. They continue to do it. The economy sucks.


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 2:59pm
Yep,  she stopped once we graduated.

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Posted By: Eden.
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 3:03pm
Yep.


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 3:16pm
yep.

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Posted By: BBpants
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 3:23pm
No, but I should have LOL

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yo


Posted By: Spokenword
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 3:25pm
i do. well, not necessarily to put their way through school but to have extra money to pay bills while in school.  i don't think its a big deal. plus, they were at clubs where you didn't have to get ass out so it wasnt a big deal dancing in skimpy clothing.
 


Posted By: doubleaqueen772
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 3:47pm
No but I have had offers to become an escort they told me I could have the life I always wanted


I ain't gone lie I thought about it

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Posted By: goodm3
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 3:56pm
ummmmm... i know someone who stripped in undergrad...
 
but i don't know what they do now.
 
because of her character in school...it would not surprise me if she was still stripping.


Posted By: Reality
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 4:19pm
I know of 3 girls...

1. Stopped around sophomore year or after and is a college professor now.

2. The other stopped around the same time but I'm not sure if she ever finished college.

3. This one started right before she was supposed to go to college. Never went, still in the game to this day at age 30.    This one I used to pick up and rescue from all types of crazy situations...


Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 5:38pm
There was a girl who I went to school with who was a stripper. Some guy embarrassed the hell out of her. She worked at his bachelor party and he had pictures of her. He asked her very loudly in front of people if she would be willing to work if he had another party. He went on to say I have all your tricks on tape. She was walking away and telling him to shut up. He even let out what club she worked at for people who wanted to see her for themselves. He's a mega trust fund brat.

Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.




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CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
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Posted By: Flowing-Ice
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 5:45pm
Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

There was a girl who I went to school with who was a stripper. Some guy embarrassed the hell out of her. She worked at his bachelor party and he had pictures of her. He asked her very loudly in front of people if she would be willing to work if he had another party. He went on to say I have all your tricks on tape. She was walking away and telling him to shut up. He even let out what club she worked at for people who wanted to see her for themselves. He's a mega trust fund brat.

i know a guy who did this. lol

but yeah... i'm glad i'm not poor. 


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Posted By: OrriannaRose
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 7:27pm
LOLLOL I don't know any strippers.

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Posted By: Reality
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 7:32pm
Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:



Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.






And it's shows no poor choice on his part that he was there seeing her? Double standard.... I do know girls who have gotten paid well from stripping but I could never do it. First off I don't have the guts....


Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 7:38pm
yeah..

shes a nurse practitioner now.


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Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 7:41pm
If I had to,  I wouldn't do it in my town/city.  I would do it over the summer...several towns over or in a different state.


Posted By: Reality
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 7:42pm
Nm


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 7:43pm
Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:


Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.


What?
She put skripping down on her resume?




Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 7:49pm
Originally posted by Reality Reality wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:



Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.


And it's shows no poor choice on his part that he was there seeing her? Double standard.... I do know girls who have gotten paid well from stripping but I could never do it. First off I don't have the guts....
hey I'm just recanting a story ¯\_(ツ)_/¯... I do think there's a difference though, male or female. It's like watching PICS and being a pornstar


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DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
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Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 7:50pm
Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:


Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.


What?
She put skripping down on her resume?


The potential employer recognized her from a strip club and told her he's seen her dance there before. She denied at first but he said that he'd confirm with the club and find out and then she admitted to it.




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TWERKIN' MY WAY DOWNTOWN
CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
-Midna


Posted By: EPITOME
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 7:54pm
Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:


Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.


What?
She put skripping down on her resume?


The potential employer recognized her from a strip club and told her he's seen her dance there before. She denied at first but he said that he'd confirm with the club and find out and then she admitted to it.




that's awkward as f*ck


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Posted By: femmemichelle
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:01pm
BHM will have you thinking stripping is the most financially stable, lucrative career a woman can dream of.

Fukc that. How about live on ramen and rice for a few years, study your ass off, get a masters, and not have to worry about passing random men in the supermarket who've seen your vagina Stern Smile


Posted By: AmyAmyAmy
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:15pm
I need 4-5 grand by next yr

this could be an option.


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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:28pm
yes

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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:31pm
Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

BHM will have you thinking stripping is the most financially stable, lucrative career a woman can dream of.

Fukc that. How about live on ramen and rice for a few years, study your ass off, get a masters, and not have to worry about passing random men in the supermarket who've seen your vagina Stern Smile
Well actually, some states don't allow full nudity stripping so random men in the supermarket may have only seen your chesticles if it makes it any better.LOLEmbarrassed


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Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:33pm
I think in some states you have to register to work at the clubs.

in KY you do


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It is said it takes seven years
to grow completely new skin cells.
To think, this year I will grow
into a body you never will
have touched.
— Brett Elizabeth Jenkins


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:39pm
Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

BHM will have you thinking stripping is the most financially stable, lucrative career a woman can dream of.

Fukc that. How about live on ramen and rice for a few years, study your ass off, get a masters, and not have to worry about passing random men in the supermarket who've seen your vagina Stern Smile

lol word to camille LOL
Who were the others?

Seductress? <----------I actually like seductress, she wasnt an arrogant Censored like the former Sleepy
Pretty plump?
4bThickness?

Weren't there more? Geek
And where are their capers? I KNOW yall still post...


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Posted By: MinnyMiss16
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:39pm
Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

BHM will have you thinking stripping is the most financially stable, lucrative career a woman can dream of.

Fukc that. How about live on ramen and rice for a few years, study your ass off, get a masters, and not have to worry about passing random men in the supermarket who've seen your vagina Stern Smile
 
I mean it sounds all fine and dandy, but how are you paying for said masters. Even if you are eating ramen and rice you would prob still be in the hole. Do you know how HARD it is to find a fellowship these days? Ish is real out hur. Even with a masters of PHD you arent guaranteed a job sooooo.


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:40pm
Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

I think in some states you have to register to work at the clubs.

in KY you do

damn, why? Confused
They tryna wreck ppl lives or sumn?


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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:44pm
^Probably to be able to tax their income. I don't know.

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Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 8:44pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

I think in some states you have to register to work at the clubs.

in KY you do

damn, why? Confused
They tryna wreck ppl lives or sumn?


I was told tax reasons and to make sure you were legal.

that's the official reason, though

I imagine that ppl finding out could be devastating to a woman's career, like that one story above.


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It is said it takes seven years
to grow completely new skin cells.
To think, this year I will grow
into a body you never will
have touched.
— Brett Elizabeth Jenkins


Posted By: kaai
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:10pm
yep,,,,,


Posted By: Jess
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:13pm
Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:


Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.


What?
She put skripping down on her resume?


The potential employer recognized her from a strip club and told her he's seen her dance there before. She denied at first but he said that he'd confirm with the club and find out and then she admitted to it.


Why was he at the club? Wouldn't that look bad to their patrons?Sleepy
SMDH.  Messed up yo.


Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:14pm
I'm tryna get fit so I can get some duckets. 
My kitty too cute to keep under wraps. 


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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:18pm
I cape for strippers. It's not the most lucrative job. It depends on where you are and who you are.

Different strokes for different folks I guess. It's like other jobs that become a lifestyle...the military is the same way. It can be great, or it can ruin your life. -shrugs.


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Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:25pm
Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:


Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.


What?
She put skripping down on her resume?


The potential employer recognized her from a strip club and told her he's seen her dance there before. She denied at first but he said that he'd confirm with the club and find out and then she admitted to it.


Why was he at the club? Wouldn't that look bad to their patrons?Sleepy
SMDH.  Messed up yo.


he's a man, so it's different Ermm

also, business deals are made in places like strip clubs where "good" women "shouldn't" be (madonna/whore complex), so he probably can use that as his excuse.


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It is said it takes seven years
to grow completely new skin cells.
To think, this year I will grow
into a body you never will
have touched.
— Brett Elizabeth Jenkins


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:27pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I cape for strippers. It's not the most lucrative job. It depends on where you are and who you are.

Different strokes for different folks I guess. It's like other jobs that become a lifestyle...the military is the same way. It can be great, or it can ruin your life. -shrugs.

Going into the military generally looks good on one's resume...people aspire to go into the military for a purpose greater than money...stripping...not so much. i'd have to do some serious soul searching if my future child came home one day and told me they wanted to be a stripper when they grew up... Does anyone personally know of anybody who strips for the hell of it? Like doesnt need money at all but just wants to swing from a pole cuz she feels like it?


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Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:29pm
I know women who did all kinds of shyt BHM would deem ratchet throughout college.

They phucked for free.

The phucked for a fee.

They phucked to celebrate Columbus day.

They phucked because that's how people networked before Facebook.

Most of them are fine and happily married. Some are on husband #2. 

1 of them is still happily with the same married man she met in college, and had 5 kids with.

1 of them is currently in prison for embezzlement but she's been real good so she'll be out soon, and *looks left, looks right* don't y'all tell nobody I tol y'all this, but she stole waaaaaaaaaay more than they will ever find out about so she gon be just fine.  

And then there's that one brilliant identity stealin heffa who barely made it through her 1st year of nursing school before quitting, yet still convinced 3 different hospitals that she was an RN. She's 2x divorced and last I heard she was bout to go back to the pen and that's her 3rd strike, so yeah.




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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:31pm
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Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:33pm
Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

Originally posted by Jess Jess wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:


Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.


What?
She put skripping down on her resume?


The potential employer recognized her from a strip club and told her he's seen her dance there before. She denied at first but he said that he'd confirm with the club and find out and then she admitted to it.


Why was he at the club? Wouldn't that look bad to their patrons?Sleepy
SMDH.  Messed up yo.


he's a man, so it's different Ermm

also, business deals are made in places like strip clubs where "good" women "shouldn't" be (madonna/whore complex), so he probably can use that as his excuse.
I disagree, going to a strip club isn't the same as being the one who is stripping.
Like I said before, it's like watching porn and being in it. Two different things.
But that's just my opinion.




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TWERKIN' MY WAY DOWNTOWN
CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
-Midna


Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:34pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I cape for strippers. It's not the most lucrative job. It depends on where you are and who you are.

Different strokes for different folks I guess. It's like other jobs that become a lifestyle...the military is the same way. It can be great, or it can ruin your life. -shrugs.

Going into the military generally looks good on one's resume...people aspire to go into the military for a purpose greater than money...stripping...not so much. i'd have to do some serious soul searching if my future child came home one day and told me they wanted to be a stripper when they grew up... Does anyone personally know of anybody who strips for the hell of it? Like doesnt need money at all but just wants to swing from a pole cuz she feels like it?
I'd disown my child.


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TWERKIN' MY WAY DOWNTOWN
CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
-Midna


Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:35pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I cape for strippers. It's not the most lucrative job. It depends on where you are and who you are.

Different strokes for different folks I guess. It's like other jobs that become a lifestyle...the military is the same way. It can be great, or it can ruin your life. -shrugs.

Going into the military generally looks good on one's resume...people aspire to go into the military for a purpose greater than money...stripping...not so much. i'd have to do some serious soul searching if my future child came home one day and told me they wanted to be a stripper when they grew up... Does anyone personally know of anybody who strips for the hell of it? Like doesnt need money at all but just wants to swing from a pole cuz she feels like it?
I know a girl who stripped to rebel. 
She is a classmate of mine.
Her father is a millionaire attorney and on the House of Rep. he is well respected in our town and her mother was a well respected doctor who died when she was in middle school. 
She has a nice trust fund. 
She stripped in college before she blazed out.

She is now pregnant 
She is absolutely brilliant at math.
Her father is really embarrassed of her


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Havmercy Dez Bryant


Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:35pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I know a girl who stripped to rebel. 
She is a classmate of mine.
Her father is a millionaire attorney and on the House of Rep. he is well respected in our town and her mother was a well respected doctor who died when she was in middle school. 
She has a nice trust fund. 
She stripped in college before she blazed out.

She is now pregnant 
She is absolutely brilliant at math.
Her father is really embarrassed of her
Sounds just like the white kids up grew up around LOLLOLLOL...Story of so many in my neighborhood(the rebelling part)...


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CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:38pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:


Going into the military generally looks good on one's resume...people aspire to go into the military for a purpose greater than money...stripping...not so much. i'd have to do some serious soul searching if my future child came home one day and told me they wanted to be a stripper when they grew up... Does anyone personally know of anybody who strips for the hell of it? Like doesnt need money at all but just wants to swing from a pole cuz she feels like it?

This isn't always true. I don't know how many people I know that have said they went because they wanted to kill someone and get away with it.

If you are stripping to pay for your education...isn't that aspiring to do something better? Stripping is just the stepping stone.

Military doesn't always look good. Some people are anti-military, and the propaganda behind how great our military is, is no different than what you are calling camille out for. In essence, it's all propaganda. I don't know any murdering, raping, career destroying strippers....I know plenty of service men like that.

I would strip for the hell of it, but I can't dance. I know people who take pole dancing classes though...just for the hell of it.


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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:40pm
  I used to want to strip as a kid because I thought they made alot of money. Fast money seemed convenient but then I met this lady who stripped and she told us the in's and outs...

I'd rather be a drug runner...tbh. I used to want to do that too.


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Posted By: Spokenword
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:40pm
Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

There was a girl who I went to school with who was a stripper. Some guy embarrassed the hell out of her. She worked at his bachelor party and he had pictures of her. He asked her very loudly in front of people if she would be willing to work if he had another party. He went on to say I have all your tricks on tape. She was walking away and telling him to shut up. He even let out what club she worked at for people who wanted to see her for themselves. He's a mega trust fund brat.

Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.


 
so she stripped in the neighborhood of where her school was?  if that was the case, she should've been prepared to handle folks noticing her.


Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:46pm
Nita, you would make an excellent gun runner were it not for the morality issue.  

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Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:48pm
I never understood when people look down on strippers, hell, anyone in sex work, yet they are patrons of this establishment. If it wasnt for their demand, there'd be no supply.  

Im not going to knock anyone's hustle if they're doing it for honest reasons, and for me, honest can mean anything from "I want the money and I like to shake my ass" to "I need a quick way to pay my bills." 


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Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:51pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:


Going into the military generally looks good on one's resume...people aspire to go into the military for a purpose greater than money...stripping...not so much. i'd have to do some serious soul searching if my future child came home one day and told me they wanted to be a stripper when they grew up... Does anyone personally know of anybody who strips for the hell of it? Like doesnt need money at all but just wants to swing from a pole cuz she feels like it?

This isn't always true. I don't know how many people I know that have said they went because they wanted to kill someone and get away with it.

If you are stripping to pay for your education...isn't that aspiring to do something better? Stripping is just the stepping stone.

Military doesn't always look good. Some people are anti-military, and the propaganda behind how great our military is, is no different than what you are calling camille out for. In essence, it's all propaganda. I don't know any murdering, raping, career destroying strippers....I know plenty of service men like that.

I would strip for the hell of it, but I can't dance. I know people who take pole dancing classes though...just for the hell of it.

too broad, this could apply to anyone in any niche whether you know of them or not.

The point is, in the society we live in looks down on stripping while military service is praised.  All of the strippers (former strippers) I know arent doing so hot in life, all of the service men/women i know, are doing quite well...

And to the bold underlined...these ppl need to be psychologically evaluated  Confused Do they not do mental health exams before enlisting people? Hell, afterwards too?

And FTR im not calling camille out on anything, she boasted about it quite often back in the day...


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:51pm
I guess BHM is back caping for sex workers. 

I cant and wont condemn but praise?
lol no

If my little sis tells me she wants to strip I'd slap her , me, my community , my family, and my dead daddy. 
We all failed.


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Havmercy Dez Bryant


Posted By: femmefatale85
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:55pm
Have we started talking about women who fcuk their men to get their rent and car note paid? And how that's the same thing as a sex worker?

No? Ok let me know when that starts lol



Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:56pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:


  All of the strippers (former strippers) I know arent doing so hot in life, all of the service men/women i know, are doing quite well...

And to the bold underlined...these ppl need to be psychologically evaluated  Confused Do they not do mental health exams before enlisting people? Hell, afterwards too?


First bolded...visit a VA hospital when you get a chance.

2nd, not really, and they did away with certain screening questions because people would not get help for ptsd and other issues because they didn't want to lose their clearances.


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Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:56pm
i dont cape for strippers.

but what i wont do-- is pretend like all strippers meet some dramatic downfall...like the world wants to make it seem.

Ive said the same theory in a thread about how ppl always make it seem that the popular kids in HS... all end up with 7 kids and working in the strip mall.

sometimes bad things will happen to the stripper...sometimes it all works out for them.
same thing for the popular kids in school.

it just isn't as extreme to me...as some want it to be.


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Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:57pm
Originally posted by Spokenword Spokenword wrote:

Originally posted by ImThatDiva ImThatDiva wrote:

There was a girl who I went to school with who was a stripper. Some guy embarrassed the hell out of her. She worked at his bachelor party and he had pictures of her. He asked her very loudly in front of people if she would be willing to work if he had another party. He went on to say I have all your tricks on tape. She was walking away and telling him to shut up. He even let out what club she worked at for people who wanted to see her for themselves. He's a mega trust fund brat.

Another girl didn't get a job because the interviewer saw her where she worked before. She was trying to get a job at a charity and would have gotten paid nicely but her inteviewer said that her past job choice shows poor judgement and the company would be embarrassed if any of their patrons found out and she wouldn't be a good rep for their company.


That's the risk you take when you do that kind of job. You never know who you'll run into in the future. Picking that job now can screw you in the future.


 
so she stripped in the neighborhood of where her school was?  if that was the case, she should've been prepared to handle folks noticing her.
I don't know if she did but she stripped in Manhattan...
Manhattan is a small big world though...




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TWERKIN' MY WAY DOWNTOWN
CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
-Midna


Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 9:58pm
It's not about praise. I am a critic of both. I love the military, but I am not going to paint some rose colored picture when I know the deal...

Just like stripping. It isn't all glam, but it isn't a worse case scenario for everyone either. You aren't hurting anyone. Most of the time the predators are the patrons.


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Posted By: Sang Froid
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:01pm
I know a girl that dropped out and started stripping in NY.
We were supposed to start a strip club together. *sigh*


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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:01pm
stripping isn't a failure, imo. 

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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:03pm
Yep i sure would be dramatic as hell if my baby sis entertained the serious thought of stripping 
We joke about it , but if she ever seriously considered it then we effed up big time. 
That ish is embarrassing. 


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Never send to know for whom the bells tolls; it tolls for thee
Donne

Havmercy Dez Bryant


Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:04pm
Originally posted by **Sk!TtLeS B** **Sk!TtLeS B** wrote:

I never understood when people look down on strippers, hell, anyone in sex work, yet they are patrons of this establishment. If it wasnt for their demand, there'd be no supply.  

Im not going to knock anyone's hustle if they're doing it for honest reasons, and for me, honest can mean anything from "I want the money and I like to shake my ass" to "I need a quick way to pay my bills." 
Basically.Lamp





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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:05pm
 LOL I hate BHM comparisons. 




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Never send to know for whom the bells tolls; it tolls for thee
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Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:05pm
Eanaj, consider the service men/women you know very fortunate:

50 percent: Rate at which veterans are more likely than other Americans to become homeless. The Obama administration has set a goal of ending veteran homelessness by 2015.

About 75,000: Number of veterans who are homeless on any given night, according to estimates from the Veterans Administration.

About 20,000: Number of veterans of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan who were homeless in the past five years according to the Veterans Administration.

5.5 percent: Percentage of homeless vets who fought in Iraq and Afghanistan in the overall homeless population, according to the Veterans Administration.




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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:06pm
Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

Have we started talking about women who fcuk their men to get their rent and car note paid? And how that's the same thing as a sex worker?

No? Ok let me know when that starts lol


Clap


*wishes CC would pour me some of her tea in this cup*


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Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:07pm
The opposite of vilify is glorify?

Where does tolerate fit in there?


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:09pm
Most ppl tolerate strippers. 



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Never send to know for whom the bells tolls; it tolls for thee
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Posted By: carolina cutie
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:10pm
*Pours classy tea*

Purp, i'll keep your cup on 'full'.Approve


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Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:11pm
no one is in here...

telling ppl to go strip.

bhm and its extremes...lol


its not "oh girl you need to go get that ussy poppin on the pole"
its "oh you work there" meh...instead of saying " damn you work there..your life is ruined."



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Posted By: PurplePhase
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:12pm
Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

no one is in here...

telling ppl to go strip.

bhm and its extremes...lol


its not "oh girl you need to go get that ussy poppin on the pole"
its "oh you work there" meh...instead of saying " damn you work there..your life is ruined."



totally agree


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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:12pm
Most ppl dont go up to strippers and tell them that they failed.
They are usually left to their own devices. 




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Never send to know for whom the bells tolls; it tolls for thee
Donne

Havmercy Dez Bryant


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:12pm
Okay, so can we gets stats for the strippers?
Cuz I'm sticking by what I've seen just like Nita is sticking by what she's experienced. Not every stripper is living the high life like some posters on BHM would have you believe. The end. What is so hard to grasp ppl? Confused


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Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:14pm
actually its been said to strippers in threads before.'


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Posted By: Reality
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:14pm
Liars.... When will it end.... A million and one reasons...


Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:16pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Okay, so can we gets stats for the strippers?
Cuz I'm sticking by what I've seen just like Nita is sticking by what she's experienced. Not every stripper is living the high life like some posters on BHM would have you believe. The end. What is so hard to grasp ppl? Confused

Nobody said it was hard to grasp, or even untrue. There were stories posted, in this very thread, of strippers going both ways in life. 




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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:17pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Okay, so can we gets stats for the strippers?
Cuz I'm sticking by what I've seen just like Nita is sticking by what she's experienced. Not every stripper is living the high life like some posters on BHM would have you believe. The end. What is so hard to grasp ppl? Confused
I guess it's hard to grasp because I don't know who you speak of.

I've never seen anyone on bhm, who strips, prostitutes, does PICS, or whatever say that everyone is living the high life. At least with the strippers, I know for sure...even the ones you named, have said plenty of times that some of the girls leave with nothing, or depending on where you are, or what season, money isn't always high.

When speaking of how they are living, I've seen it...and they've posted receipts


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Posted By: JasonWllms55
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:17pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

BHM will have you thinking stripping is the most financially stable, lucrative career a woman can dream of.

Fukc that. How about live on ramen and rice for a few years, study your ass off, get a masters, and not have to worry about passing random men in the supermarket who've seen your vagina Stern Smile

lol word to camille LOL
Who were the others?

Seductress? <----------I actually like seductress, she wasnt an arrogant Censored like the former Sleepy
Pretty plump?
4bThickness?

Weren't there more? Geek
And where are their capers? I KNOW yall still post...



Seductress used to shake her ass for cash? i always envisioned her to be on some black bohemian tip ....





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Posted By: jonesable
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:18pm
The strippers that im cool with irl , I dont say anything negative to them about what they do. 
But do I agree with it?
Naw, but so what its not like im gonna outlaw it. 
I just dont have a high opinion of it. 
It happens. 
Im sure there are things I do that arent held in high regard.


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Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:20pm


Every stripper ends up featured in a BootyTalk scene and then becomes a crackheadho.

Every black woman married to a white man eventually gets called a nig.ga.

Every black man eventually goes on Maury for a paternity test.

Every Becky will eventually get wifed if she wants to whether she phucked for fun or fee. 

/Thread.  


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Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:21pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:


  All of the strippers (former strippers) I know arent doing so hot in life, all of the service men/women i know, are doing quite well...

And to the bold underlined...these ppl need to be psychologically evaluated  Confused Do they not do mental health exams before enlisting people? Hell, afterwards too?


First bolded...visit a VA hospital when you get a chance.

2nd, not really, and they did away with certain screening questions because people would not get help for ptsd and other issues because they didn't want to lose their clearances.


and for the questions that are still there, a lot of them don't answer honestly. why? b/c it will go on your record and you can be passed up for promotions.

if you mean "doing well" as in financially, that isn't always true. A lot of the active duty men I know are living paycheck to paycheck, hell 50% of Americans do that.

and sometimes, joining the army is not about patriotism, but about money. That's why there are so many recruiting stations in urban areas. tell an 18yr old that they can get a 25,000 sign on bonus and they will listen. my husband joined mainly b/c he couldn't find a job. it was that simple for him. sounds bad, but it is what it is.


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to grow completely new skin cells.
To think, this year I will grow
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have touched.
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Posted By: nitabug
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:24pm
Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:



and sometimes, joining the army is not about patriotism, but about money. That's why there are so many recruiting stations in urban areas. tell an 18yr old that they can get a 25,000 sign on bonus and they will listen. my husband joined mainly b/c he couldn't find a job. it was that simple for him. sounds bad, but it is what it is.

I was going to get into this too. The same type of people who get recruited to the pole, get recruited to the military and sometimes for the same reason.


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Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:27pm
Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:


  All of the strippers (former strippers) I know arent doing so hot in life, all of the service men/women i know, are doing quite well...

And to the bold underlined...these ppl need to be psychologically evaluated  Confused Do they not do mental health exams before enlisting people? Hell, afterwards too?


First bolded...visit a VA hospital when you get a chance.

2nd, not really, and they did away with certain screening questions because people would not get help for ptsd and other issues because they didn't want to lose their clearances.


and for the questions that are still there, a lot of them don't answer honestly. why? b/c it will go on your record and you can be passed up for promotions.

if you mean "doing well" as in financially, that isn't always true. A lot of the active duty men I know are living paycheck to paycheck, hell 50% of Americans do that.

and sometimes, joining the army is not about patriotism, but about money. That's why there are so many recruiting stations in urban areas. tell an 18yr old that they can get a 25,000 sign on bonus and they will listen. my husband joined mainly b/c he couldn't find a job. it was that simple for him. sounds bad, but it is what it is.

I'm aware people do it for the money, I'm saying that there are reasons such as wanting to serve their country that society will applaud them for. If a stripper is asked why she strips if she isnt doing it for the money, if she answers "because I wanna show people a good time" will most people consider that a respectable answer? I dont see any positive answers that could be given tbh, other than "I'm trying to pay for college" <---- but there are plenty of ways to obtain money for school without going this route...


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Posted By: ImThatDiva
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:27pm
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Most ppl dont go up to strippers and tell them that they failed.
They are usually left to their own devices.
This...


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TWERKIN' MY WAY DOWNTOWN
CARS DRIVE PAST
DRIVERS CRASH AND I'M LOWDOWN
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Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:29pm
Quick question,
If your teen came home from school and you asked them of their future plans of paying for college, would you rather them say "I want to join the military" or "I wanna strip"
Geek


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Posted By: nycdiva357
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:32pm
id tell them neither..

neither is a job i want my child doing.
and I'd pay for it.


there are a list of jobs i wouldn't want my daughter doing...
stripping is one
i dont want her to be a cop
i dont want her delivering mail
i dont want her  being a fire person.

etc.

again...its not about glorifying stripping..
its about saying mehh if thats what one does for my life.



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Posted By: FarraFace
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:32pm
And of course the desperate man profession gets celebrated and the desperate woman profession gets dogged.

Kill people in the name of your countries political clout and greed? *real American hero*  Welcome home, here's your parade, now go away and don't ask me for spare change if you see me at an intersection.

Take your clothes off & shake ya titties in somebody's face? Ewwww, you nassy. You're parents failed. You oughta be ashamed. *spits and hisses* And don't ask me for spare change if you see me at an intersection.


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Posted By: **Sk!TtLeS B**
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:34pm
Strip. Honestly.
I'd rather have her on the pole in the next town over than overseas getting shot at, rolling in the trenches, and having grenades thrown at her. 

I have fam. members who were in the Air Force, the Navy, and the Army, and while most of them have good things to say (they helped pay for school, I got a lot of experience, etc.) none of them recommend it, and I imagine for good reason. 

ETA: Not to mention the high instance of rape in the military. Hell no. I might be disappointed if she decided to be a stripper, but Im lockin her ass in the house if she tries to join the military, and Im damn serious. 


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Posted By: Ladybird0724
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:35pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

Quick question,
If your teen came home from school and you asked them of their future plans of paying for college, would you rather them say "I want to join the military" or "I wanna strip"
Geek


if this teen was a daughter, then idk. I don't necessarily want her to strip, but the military for women is rough. I'm only a military wife, so I don't see all of it that nita does, but there were incidents w/ the females in my husbands unit during deployment that upset me.

honestly,  i would tell her stay her ass at home.




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It is said it takes seven years
to grow completely new skin cells.
To think, this year I will grow
into a body you never will
have touched.
— Brett Elizabeth Jenkins


Posted By: eanaj5
Date Posted: Aug 22 2012 at 10:37pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

^^^^And of course the desperate man profession gets celebrated and the desperate woman profession gets dogged.

Kill people in the name of your countries political clout and greed? *real American hero*  Welcome home, here's your parade, now go away and don't ask me for spare change if you see me at an intersection.

Take your clothes off & shake ya titties in somebody's face? Ewwww, you nassy. You're parents failed. You oughta be ashamed. *spits and hisses* And don't ask me for spare change if you see me at an intersection.

Why do you automatically associate these jobs with these genders? Can a woman not go to war for her country? Can a man not shake his junk  in women's faces?

Yet yall dont wanna think of house keeping/ child rearing as exclusively  womens activities and beer drinking and working outside of the home as man activities

double standard in the making


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