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Vaginal Rejuvenation Surgery...HELP!!!

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Topic: Vaginal Rejuvenation Surgery...HELP!!!
Posted By: hairlover81
Subject: Vaginal Rejuvenation Surgery...HELP!!!
Date Posted: Apr 21 2011 at 5:03pm

Hey Ladies!! As soon as this dillema came up for me I knew I needed the comfort of hearing the opinions of other women who may have or are currently experiencing the same thing. I have been happily married for 6 years and my husband and I welcomed our 2nd baby boy 5 months ago. With my first son, post natal sex was tighter and even better than before!! Healing was quick and we were back at it full swing in 3 months. This time...Confused. O...M...G!!! I am sooo loose that I cry after sex from not only slight embarrassment but because i can hardly feel my man! I mean the friction is basically  non-existent. I have been doing the kegals everyday in hopes that this issue will leave. I ask him how he feels and he says yes it feels different but it is way too early to even worry about it. According to him I should wait a year for my body to feel normal again. Umm..it does not take that long!! Or does it? I dont know if my horomones have me trippin or if im right. I would think that i should be enjoying sex by the time my kid is 5 months. I am really thinking that in order to return to my prenatal tight "good good" Im gonna have to opt for Vag. Rejuv. Surgery. Has anybody had it? Are there other things i could do so i dont have to go such a drastic route? HELP!!!!!!!!Cry




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Posted By: Smithee
Date Posted: Apr 21 2011 at 5:47pm
Hey, I'm going to comment on this also, because this is something I'm sure many women experience yet are unable to talk about.

I can basically mirror your story. I have two sons, after the birth of the first I was back to sex within two months. I'm not going to say I didn't notice any difference, but it was so minimal it didn't matter.
The second is now a year old. After this one there was a much more noticable change and I was shocked. I didn't notice a change in sensation for myself, but everything felt a lot looser more 'airy' and I'm gonna say straight up I felt like less of a desirable woman because of it.

But I will say this, after a year things HAVE got better! Obviously they are never going to be the same as before but everything feels a lot more firm and together. Once you stop breastfeeding, if you are, that also helps. And kegals in the long term DO make a difference, believe me. The results are not instant - we are talking after 6 months regularly 3x per day.

I have considered vaginal rejuvination, and I'm not going to rule it out. The down sides for me are that it is a long recovery, things may not look exactly how you imagined, there can be decreased sensitivity and there is evidence that shows this may not be the correct solution for the problem. So its a lot to think about.




Posted By: hairlover81
Date Posted: Apr 21 2011 at 7:04pm
Clap Thank you sooo much for responding!! Just hearing from someone helps so much. Women can talk about weave, hair, hygeine, men, and more for days but lemme tell you somethin..when the topic of a "loosey goosey" comes up folks start to get real quiet. Trading tips and info is liberating and just what we need! Considering women are having babies every freakin day and have been since the beginning of time i dont understand why this topic is so taboo. But perhaps you said it best. You felt less desirable during that time. And most people are not too quick to admit such a personal issue that can be embarrassing even behind the anonymity of the computer. Thank you for giving me hope that things can get better! Now lets dish. Wink *grabs wine* Now when you say you did kegals 3x per day. Can you give me more details? I mean, sets of 10 or something? And how long do you hold the tension of the kegal before you relax the muscle? do you workout? I dont breastfeed so I dont know how that may have affected the situation. I did some research online and i read that lunges and workouts that include benchpressing with the thighs help tighten the pelvic floor muscle.


Posted By: CaramelDelight89
Date Posted: Apr 21 2011 at 9:45pm
Taking collagen may also help out. Our tissues, including the genitals, are dependent on the elasticity derived from collagen and amino acids. So not only will u get ur walls tighten, your skin, hair, and nails are going to grow too!
 
I know the women in my family has always had the thing about using lemon juice to tighten things. I tried it, and it worked temporary. To see long term benefits, you may have to use it longer.


Posted By: hairlover81
Date Posted: Apr 21 2011 at 9:58pm
Wassup CaramelDelight89! Beer Ive got my wine and Im feelin extra fine. Now i have never heard of the collagen thing. Thank you so much for sharing that wisdom. I am definitley gonna try that for sure. i will google to see where exactly i can pick that up. How do you use the lemon juice? What do i do with it? If i sound juvenile forgive me but i need details girl! Do Tell! I think its cool that you have women in your family to share tips. I dont have any extended family. My mom is basically all i have an her experience is ultra limited. 2 no good ex-husbands and the Oprah show. Shocked


Posted By: oh_so_moody
Date Posted: Apr 21 2011 at 10:03pm

Try some Alum and add 1 tbsp to a bottle of Lufragin. I swear by Lufragin, my hubby calls it "The L Word". Good stuff. Wink 



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Posted By: Smithee
Date Posted: Apr 22 2011 at 3:10am
Originally posted by hairlover81 hairlover81 wrote:

Clap Thank you sooo much for responding!! Just hearing from someone helps so much. Women can talk about weave, hair, hygeine, men, and more for days but lemme tell you somethin..when the topic of a "loosey goosey" comes up folks start to get real quiet. Trading tips and info is liberating and just what we need! Considering women are having babies every freakin day and have been since the beginning of time i dont understand why this topic is so taboo. But perhaps you said it best. You felt less desirable during that time. And most people are not too quick to admit such a personal issue that can be embarrassing even behind the anonymity of the computer. Thank you for giving me hope that things can get better! Now lets dish. Wink *grabs wine* Now when you say you did kegals 3x per day. Can you give me more details? I mean, sets of 10 or something? And how long do you hold the tension of the kegal before you relax the muscle? do you workout? I dont breastfeed so I dont know how that may have affected the situation. I did some research online and i read that lunges and workouts that include benchpressing with the thighs help tighten the pelvic floor muscle.


Well when you're breastfeeding and for up to about 5-6 months after the birth your body continues produces a hormone called 'relaxin'. This is one of the things which loosens up all the pelvic joints and ligaments etc. in preparation for childbirth and this can cause the vagina to continue to feel a little looser for some time after the birth.

For the kegals I do:
10, 'slow holds' - Hold for 10 seconds, relax for 10 seconds.
60, 'quick holds' - Hold for 2 seconds, relax for 1-2 seconds.
three times a day!

Also remember not to hold your breath, or draw your stomach muscles in while you're doing them - Sometimes its helps to put a finger in there to check the correct muscles are moving.
If you haven't seen it there is also something out there called a 'kegal master' which can help you to do them better and provides some resistance.

Like I was saying, it takes months but they do make a difference. Don't give up because you think they are not working, just continue on and have faith. As women who experience pregnancy and childbirth (even if not vaginal) it is also important to keep these up, as post-monopausal prolapse is common the more children you have.

Certain workouts and also yoga can help with the pelvic floor. Believe it or not, just being more active, walking helped me a lot! 



Posted By: CaramelDelight89
Date Posted: Apr 22 2011 at 9:41am
The lemon  is cut and half is just directly rubbed on after bathing. U can put some in your bath water too and soak in it. Another plus  of doing that is the lemon juice helps ashiness.
 
Lol. Girl, my mama and aunties are crazy! LOL. Thats why I know so much stuff about black-made remedies.


Posted By: kaai
Date Posted: May 04 2011 at 10:27pm
Alum is like salt it will dry u out....
it sent my sister to the Dr's office..... lol
Carameldelight 89 that's where my sister got the "alum idea from"
 u cook w that stuff
it gave her blisters all around.... LOL
I told her see?
trying to be a player!  sleeping around & now u have really closed up shop for a while!!!Censored
I saw photos of this surgery.....


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: May 18 2011 at 4:49pm
I had the surgery wasn't lose tho, i had it kind of by accident, not exactly but i wasn't expecting it, and my insurance paid for it all.. i was having some other problems and while my doctor was there, he tighten up the walls and everything so i was like a virgin again without the seal but tight like one..i love him for doing that, i had never heard of this surgery b4.. but a guy i knew had and he told me you've had VRS and i was like what? well i had to do some research, and going back to my doctor for my check up and he explained it, and found out that's what i had.. so i was happy about it, altho mine was not all laser it was some cutting and stiches.. the healing part LORD HURT, a sore coochie is no joke, but once it did I got it going on.. that covered everything since i have had comestic surgery that removed all signs of child birth, boobs, tummy tuck and lipo to contour, now its official even got a new coochie too, so signs of child are really gone.. LOLLOLLOL


Posted By: SatinBeauty
Date Posted: May 25 2011 at 7:27pm
^^^LOLLOLLOL


Posted By: kaai
Date Posted: Jun 03 2011 at 8:02pm
LOL... Im always the designated after surgery driver...

so while waiting in Dr Parvin Miradi's office... I pick-up her work book & couldn't put it down.
I was asking the Dr' how did she get it like this? & like that?

childbirth is the number one killer of the walls she told me.....
but manShocked.... one lady had a "hole' in her man in boatWink... she was holding it up or out so u could see a thru & thru hole... Dead
some ladies "man in the boat" & lips was just big & hanging... she tucked them nicely...

if I ever have a kid... that & a tummy tuck will be on my list of things to do...Star


Posted By: itty27
Date Posted: Jun 04 2011 at 12:23am
i came in here with the intent of trolling but you've had kids so this is a valid thread

dont do that at home remedy lemon juice vinegar alum bullsh!t
its a temp fixx IF it even works and your vagina is very sensitive you may be allergic to that mess  , do your kegals and save up for the surgery 


Posted By: yaya24
Date Posted: Jun 04 2011 at 12:26am
Originally posted by itty27 itty27 wrote:

i came in here with the intent of trolling but you've had kids so this is a valid thread

dont do that at home remedy lemon juice vinegar alum bullsh!t
its a temp fixx IF it even works and your vagina is very sensitive you may be allergic to that mess  , do your kegals and save up for the surgery 



Just quoting..

1 of the rules of the forum is no trolling

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Posted By: itty27
Date Posted: Jun 04 2011 at 12:27am
bold it if you want but i made a valid point


Posted By: itty27
Date Posted: Jun 04 2011 at 12:34am
Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Originally posted by itty27 itty27 wrote:

i came in here with the intent of trolling but you've had kids so this is a valid thread

dont do that at home remedy lemon juice vinegar alum bullsh!t
its a temp fixx IF it even works and your vagina is very sensitive you may be allergic to that mess  , do your kegals and save up for the surgery 



Just quoting..

1 of the rules of the forum is no trolling

Smile

well i was gonna preach cause i thought she was just being dumb but she's had kids so this is actually a good idea

but someone woulda called it trolling so i labeled it as such


Posted By: UrMom
Date Posted: Jun 04 2011 at 12:36am
lol @ her breaking out the rules book. i came in here to lol as i suspected someone would be trolling. but do drs. not fix it up after u have kids? or for some folks is it just no hope? it kinda sucks. kinda scary too


Posted By: itty27
Date Posted: Jun 04 2011 at 12:38am
Originally posted by UrMom UrMom wrote:

lol @ her breaking out the rules book. i came in here to lol as i suspected someone would be trolling. but do drs. not fix it up after u have kids? or for some folks is it just no hope? it kinda sucks. kinda scary too

childbirth is scary to me

get a c-section and you got a big scar
do it natural and you run the risque of loose puss 




Posted By: UrMom
Date Posted: Jun 04 2011 at 12:40am
Originally posted by itty27 itty27 wrote:

Originally posted by UrMom UrMom wrote:

lol @ her breaking out the rules book. i came in here to lol as i suspected someone would be trolling. but do drs. not fix it up after u have kids? or for some folks is it just no hope? it kinda sucks. kinda scary too

childbirth is scary to me

get a c-section and you got a big scar
do it natural and you run the risque of loose puss 


yeah. i dont think ill make a good mother anyway. *crosses off my invisible list of life plans*Stern Smile


Posted By: NubianP6
Date Posted: Jul 01 2012 at 11:59pm
I know this is an old thread, but just in case any of you still monitor it, please search "Kegelmaster" here in BHM....it truly works wonders and will possibly save you folding the procedure you are/were considering.

HTH!


Posted By: KikiB
Date Posted: Jul 05 2012 at 5:31am
I know this is an old thread but I say do the surgery! Eff it why not go see a cosmetic dr about it?! If there's a solution to it seek it out get the dr's advice, continue to do the Kegels and then make a decision. But at the end of the day I support the surgery.


Posted By: Beechu18
Date Posted: Jul 18 2012 at 7:20pm

I don't know if you already went through the procedure but I've been using this powder from this woman and I must tell you it is a wonderful product. It tightened the vagina but also enhance the feeling down there for bothLOL check the site http://www.beautybynaturem.com/ - http://www.beautybynaturem.com/



Posted By: Somab
Date Posted: Aug 18 2012 at 2:30pm
I am thiniking about the surgery too. I am doing a lot of researches about the Laser Vaginal rejuvenation


Posted By: brieSFCA
Date Posted: Jan 23 2013 at 9:52pm
EVERYONE...

That "Beechu18" profile is a straight fraud!!

This broad been posting on all types of threads advertising butt enhancing cream and other products sold on that damn site the profile is referencing to.


Posted By: sexyandfamous
Date Posted: Nov 22 2015 at 4:55pm
before anyone considers surgery... try kegelmaster... that stuff is great to get stronger coochie muscles, which will intensify your orgasms and it will make the coochie feel tighter because the muscles are biggerLOL


i know that because i used it for a while and one day while pleasing myself i put my finger inside and my finger fit perfectly inside, with no space to moveEmbarrassed

what is the point of having a tighter pvssy if your orgasms are going to stay the same? with kegelmaster my orgasms got wayyy stronger. 



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