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Good credit and a daggone job!
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My degree. And in a good world, starting my career. I'll be putting to good use 20+ years of school to make some CC#1 cash.LOL
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

enough saved to pay for the divorce.


it's like $35 right? But my bro and SIL are still legally @30years later   because they both refuse to pay for the divorce. LOL
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^^I  hope they haven't been dating other people during those years.. lol
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

enough saved to pay for the divorce.


it's like $35 right? But my bro and SIL are still legally @30years later   because they both refuse to pay for the divorce. LOL

lmao
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Y lmao too because I know/exactly what you meant.
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Ummm, I couldn't think of any reason why I would voluntarily hold myself back from being his wife.

None

Were pushing each other anyway.


Edited by jonesable - Feb 19 2014 at 11:43pm
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I actually had 2 pages full but the older I get, the more realistic I need to be. Lol! I cut it down to about 1 page but here are a few that remain high on the list:
Solid relationship
Financial stability
Good credit 
Good job
Test for STDs, etc. (too much going around out there)

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Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Let me have your hand...

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I'd want to get some individual counseling so I can make sure I understand what I'm getting myself into and know that I'm ready to provide whatever's needed to make a marriage work...not from a pastor either, someone schooled, licensed, and experienced.  I NEED ANSWERS.  I've never seen the inner workings of a successful marriage so I don't know...I've been duped for years w family or friends...then I find out there's some huge skeleton and it freaks me out and discourages me.  There has to be happy, normal marriages out there.

Other than that I guess I'm ready...I'd prefer to have more savings but what's his is mine so that's neither here nor there. 
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