I'd want to get some individual counseling so I can make sure I understand what I'm getting myself into and know that I'm ready to provide whatever's needed to make a marriage work...not from a pastor either, someone schooled, licensed, and experienced. I NEED ANSWERS. I've never seen the inner workings of a successful marriage so I don't know...I've been duped for years w family or friends...then I find out there's some huge skeleton and it freaks me out and discourages me. There has to be happy, normal marriages out there.
Other than that I guess I'm ready...I'd prefer to have more savings but what's his is mine so that's neither here nor there.