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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


on one hand we tell women to study hard, earn degrees then tell them as soon as the have a child to never work again....makes no sense

especially since many have to take out loans to get an education

i guess that depends what your career goals are and what is important to you. i wouldn't take a loan out to get my education b/c i don't like the idea of owing anyone anything. if i cant afford it thru scholarships and saving up then i just wont take it..

education is important if that's your personal goals and i would never say you should depend on a man...but yeah once i get married and have a kid im only working out of pleasure

people expect women to cook, clean, take care of kids, cat, dog, man AND WORK FULL TIME ON TOP OF THAT? chile please...whos really winning b/c it sure aint the wife. and that's even IF she gets married.a single mother has it much harder
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


on one hand we tell women to study hard, earn degrees then tell them as soon as the have a child to never work again....makes no sense

especially since many have to take out loans to get an education


That's what I don't get.
Like others have said, if a person has a 5-15 year gap in employment depending on how the children are spaced what hope could she ever have of actually resuming the career she left?
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I don't see him how working women don't share household duties.
Like why not?


I think it's crazy when men don't know how to do common chores or cook.

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I don't see him how working women don't share household duties.
Like why not?


I think it's crazy when men don't know how to do common chores or cook.

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a lot of men expect women to do most of the household duties. I think a lot of them could do it if they lived on their own, but those are wifely duties that a wife or a live in gf would do. he has to pick up after himself he cant just be leaving skid marked draws on the floor, but she does the majority of the cleaning
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That's how my sister was until my daddy told my brother in law to get it together.

He's good at handling business but is lazy at home.. He's much better now..

I would actually share duties. I think it's cute to be all domestic once in a while but nah most of the time we need to completely share..
Well I wouldn't take out trash or mow( I'd be out there gardening) or move furniture and things like that...

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That's why two incomes are needed.  Hire somebody to clean.
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I like cleaning and making everything tidy.
Probably bc me and my sisters had so much fun cleaning...
And bc Pintrest has cute ideas

Maybe I'll change perspective when I'm at at Super comfortable salary but I like those little things.

I don't think I'm one of those ppl who like other ppl to do everything for them.


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Lol did you let them come?
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

The US needs to adjust their parental leave.
That being said I would work when I'm pregnant..

Does everyone hate their jobs here lol?

Not me. I liked working. Yes, there were days when i was just tired and wanted to lay down. But one doesnt have to be pregnant to feel like that anyway, so.LOL
I liked all the extra attention. I didnt mind at all. 
Like somebody said, its not a disability.
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