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You deserve to be sterilized and your child should be given to richer, smarter, more responsible white parents who can raise it properly if you work while pregnant.

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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

You deserve to be sterilized and your child should be given to richer, smarter, more responsible white parents who can raise it properly if you work while pregnant.
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I stopped working at 5 months. I hated my job. The scheduling was crazy. They had me working 12+ hour shifts. I would work night shifts then morning/day shifts. I'd get home at 5am to have to return at 12 .+ the commute was 2 hours long!! Funny thing is after I quit I missed working!

It kept me busy, & working is something you get accustomed to. Its great to have your own income. I feel as if my SO is giving me an allowance when he gives me money lol.
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A pregnant security guard who works in my building worked up until she went into labor and came back to work two days later. Now that's some sh*t I won't do. Most of the women I know had to work through their pregnancies, whether they wanted to or not.

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My job is non stressful, I don't have to go in everyday. I went to work a few hours before I gave birth. And after I gave birth I felt energized like I could go to work later that day. My husband takes care of majority of the bills but I like having my own money to handle MY things.

And even if my situation was different, why would I be pissed if my husband couldn't handle ALL the bills alone? 
1) We got pregnant together knowing our situation
2) I should know whether I married a lazy bum or not and it would determine my willingness to procreate with him
3) I know life never goes how we expect so I would suck it up and do what I have to do

Being pregnant doesn't give women the excuse to be lazy. Pregnancy is not a sickness or disability, why would you want to do nothing for 9 months!!
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Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

How do you feel about pregnant women having to work? I don't want to have to work while I'm pregnant. I think a woman should just be able to relax and be leisurely during her pregnancy. she shouldn't have to work unless of course its something with no labor and she feels like it. I would be pissed if I got pregnant and had to work because my husband couldn't afford to take care of me. It's kind of scary because there are so many physical things a woman has to deal with while being with child so why add job stess on top of that?



I feel pity for those who work in jobs in which they are on their feet all day.  But then again some people are built Ford tough so they can deal with it.  Some people can withstand stress regardless of their if they are pregnant or not.  But for some folks, pregnancy in general is not an easy thing to go through.  I think of those who have the pregnancy-induced HBP are the ones that should be careful.  But I figure that my great grandmother or earlier was probably pounding yams like business as usual, seven months preggers and a couple of children on the teat *shrugs*. 
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I saw these really nice pregnant woman at Walmart and I felt bad. she was a skinny little thing but her stomach was huge, had to be at least 7 months. we chatted a little bit, she was sweet and adorable. her baby daddy out to be ashamed of himself


I plan on morphing into a rich white woman when I get pregnant. I aint doing sh*t but having my hair braided because perms are bad for the baby, watching my shows and working out a little. but not working...well maybe up until 3-4 months. then I will just use my maternity leave and vacation.

I think it should be mandatory that companies have at least 1 year of maternity leave for women
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Life goes on unless they're put on bed rest nothing is wrong with pregnant women working hell might motivate some to work.
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i'd prefer to work.  i'll already have to be with the baby everyday after they're born.  that will be my last time for ultimate freedom.
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Originally posted by Blac1Chyna Blac1Chyna wrote:

I saw these really nice pregnant woman at Walmart and I felt bad. she was a skinny little thing but her stomach was huge, had to be at least 7 months. we chatted a little bit, she was sweet and adorable. her baby daddy out to be ashamed of himself


I plan on morphing into a rich white woman when I get pregnant. I aint doing sh*t but having my hair braided because perms are bad for the baby, watching my shows and working out a little. but not working...well maybe up until 3-4 months. then I will just use my maternity leave and vacation.

I think it should be mandatory that companies have at least 1 year of maternity leave for women

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