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Alex Urameshi
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Joined: May 11 2010
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 1:08am |
newdiva1 wrote:
Alex Urameshi wrote:
damn, and I just learned that I'm basically wesley snipes complexion on the light skin scale. hahaaha
I can't take BHM tonight hahaha |
chile you are the darkness. 
and if that's the standard i'm uncomprehendingly, physics defying, black hole eatin' up stars and suns and time type dark. Ninja's'll get in me and time travel. | OMG I literally laughed out loud!
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Lilaca
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Joined: Aug 07 2006
Location: As if!
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 1:09am |
A dark skin black woman probably don't want you anyway.
*sorry can't say this in a nice way, so i shall insert a smile to soften the blow* 
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sexyandfamous
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Joined: Nov 06 2012
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 1:10am |
EPITOME wrote:
sexyandfamous wrote:
You feel guilty because you think you should "stick to your own". I wouldn't give a damn about what others think.
I am not black American but I do have African roots and a dark skin (I would say caramel complexion ). I am attracted to whites and some Latinos (but those gotta be tall, speak English and not look so....Mexican-like). Not interested in blacks at all. Don't like it? Take a number.
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how far back are these African roots? Are you trying to avoid labeling yourself as black?
wheredeydothisat?! lord--gnight BHM |
pretty close actually. great-great grandparent was a slave. my mom is black. dad is white only. I'm not attracted to blacks. I actually dislike A LOT the approach some black guys use here in the US; they can be pretty aggressive and if I dismiss them they call me rude, bitch or just try to say something smart.
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ms_wonderland
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 1:14am |
Sexyandfamous...you are not attracted physically either?
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Alex Urameshi
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 1:17am |
But what if a white man that you are interested in decides that he's not checking for you? How would you feel?@sexyandfamous
Edited by Alex Urameshi - Feb 07 2013 at 1:19am
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afrokock
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Location: South London
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 2:09am |
i actually feel a lot of people harbour sexy and famous' sentiments but are just afraid to admit them because of the backlash
Edited by afrokock - Feb 07 2013 at 2:54am
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modelbusiness82
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Joined: May 21 2008
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 2:26am |
sexyandfamous wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
sexyandfamous wrote:
You feel guilty because you think you should "stick to your own". I wouldn't give a damn about what others think.
I am not black American but I do have African roots and a dark skin (I would say caramel complexion ). I am attracted to whites and some Latinos (but those gotta be tall, speak English and not look so....Mexican-like). Not interested in blacks at all. Don't like it? Take a number.
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how far back are these African roots? Are you trying to avoid labeling yourself as black?
wheredeydothisat?! lord--gnight BHM |
pretty close actually. great-great grandparent was a slave. my mom is black. dad is white only. I'm not attracted to blacks. I
actually dislike A LOT the approach some black guys use here in the US;
they can be pretty aggressive and if I dismiss them they call me rude,
bitch or just try to say something smart.
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I agree
with the bolded. I'm not your "ma/slim/shawty/etc." A lot of black guys
(because a real man is not so fragile) can't handle rejection and have
to lash out by trying to demean a woman who chooses to pass on their
advance - regardless of how nicely you let them down. And that's a
serious fail in my opinion. If you're going to grow a pair to
approach a woman, you need to be prepared that she may not be as
interested in you as you are in them. And if your ego is so fragile that
you need to lash out to save face, you need to NOT approach people
until you get your mind right. Trying to put me down because I'm not
interested just means you're insecure. Of all the races that approach
me, immature black guys are almost exclusively the ones who do this. Call
it cooning if it soothes your ego, but it's a reality. White, spanish
& asian dudes aren't coming at me with weak comebacks like "bitch - I
didn't want you anyway" or "bitch - that's why you single" (someone
said this to me recently and I just flashed my engagement ring at them)
or "there's lots of women who'd love to be with a guy like me".
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modelbusiness82
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 2:42am |
And while we're at it, this is something in general I've noticed, not just black men. But why would you want to continue to hit on someone who tells you they're married/engaged? I REALLY don't get this. But ever since I got engaged this past summer, I've had more guys hit on me than when I was just "his girlfriend".
Is it the challenge aspect - the ultimate "I got your girl"? Or do some people really just not gaf?
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carolina cutie
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 2:53am |
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afrokock
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Location: South London
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Points: 1266523
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Posted: Feb 07 2013 at 2:55am |
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