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FarraFace 
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 Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:32pm |
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In these 12+ pages, has anyone given examples of what the fathers of her children are doing to positively impact not only their children's lives, but the community as a whole?
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OoDles O
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Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:42pm |
 ms_wonderland wrote:
are you being serious right now? maybe you should save her. |
This poor innocent lady deserves less shaming and more encouragement from her peers .... not from other men.
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Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:43pm |
OoDles O wrote:
ms_wonderland wrote:
are you being serious right now? maybe you should save her. |
This poor innocent lady deserves less shaming and more encouragement from her peers .... not from other men.
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yes, i encourage the bish to stop having kids.
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Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:46pm |
creole booty wrote:
I don't think anyone can agree with what she did, but I do think everyone can keep their negative opinions to themselves. Online, we're good to go in as much as we want, but in real life, people should leave her alone. She's got 5 kids. It's really to late to be negative about it, and obviously those type of opinions haven't swayed her from having anymore children. Instead of playing up her victim role, she should just b demanding respect and asking people to practice, "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all." As a grown woman with 5 kids I'd hope that she's aware of what people think. I'd hope she'd already b thinking to herself that "I must b doing something to keep ending up in this position. Either I just can't see it, or I'm ok with it." Either way, in real life, people need to chill out and only offer their opinion if its asked for. |
That's the problem. Our people don't like any type of correction and as a
result we lack discipline. People have this crazy idea that no one should
tell them anything because of x,y and z. Especially them horrid "only GOD can
judge" negroes. There's definitely a way to give correction/guidance to
people without tearing them down, but the problem is that we don't do so as openly as we should (since we suffer from butt-hurt syndrome) and as a result we are programmed to believe that correction =
negativity.
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Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:48pm |
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That's cool and true, but its not working in this case. I'm sure after the 3rd the talking started. She's got 5. It's not working, she doesn't want to hear it.
Am I saying give up on her or change the way we help? I'm not sure...
Edited by creole booty - Nov 19 2013 at 5:49pm
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Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:51pm |
FarraFace wrote:
In these 12+ pages, has anyone given examples of what the fathers of her children are doing to positively impact not only their children's lives, but the community as a whole?
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Brothas aint shyt is a given.....its implied 
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FarraFace
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Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:54pm |
Ahhhhhh....I see.....
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Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 6:00pm |
creole booty wrote:
That's cool and true, but its not working in this case. I'm sure after the 3rd the talking started. She's got 5. It's not working, she doesn't want to hear it.
Am I saying give up on her or change the way we help? I'm not sure... |
I think talking just isn't going to be enough for a lot of people. I think people need incentives. Pay folks to get sterilized...give people tax breaks for responsible behavior...take away tax breaks for irresponsible behavior. Use philanthropy to encourage education completion and putting off parenting. Idk but we need to do something different.
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Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 6:05pm |
FarraFace wrote:
patternsandtexture wrote:
The only thing she could promote is safer sex practices and pushing abstience and marriage and make herself into a example to show the results of not excerising these habits into a lifestyle. Other than that, I don't wanna hear her talk about healthy and fresh food when she looks like biggie. |
Wait....just a mutha phuckin minute...niqqa, you look like the offspring of 2 gargoyles who were not only brother and sister, but also their own grandparents.
You have no kids, no girlfriend and I can't imagine many friends. So with all the free time you clearly have, aside from not procreating (thank you!), what have you done to positively impact the community?
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Hittin on me boo? 
Its cause I use rubbers boo and I think I met my white girl though. I'm about to have some babies with 3b and 3c hair. Woooweeee. And you know I look finer than Idris and all those hollywood nuccas.
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Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 6:12pm |
patternsandtexture wrote:
Hittin on me boo?
Its cause I use rubbers boo and I think I met my white girl though. I'm about to have some babies with 3b and 3c hair. Woooweeee. And you know I look finer than Idris and all those hollywood nuccas. |
Get them wavy patterns and silky textures for the Jackson family bruh! Live the dream...
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