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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:09pm
Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:


The only thing she could promote is safer sex practices and pushing abstience and marriage and make herself into a example to show the results of not excerising these habits into a lifestyle. Other than that, I don't wanna hear her talk about healthy and fresh food when she looks like biggie.

Wait....just a mutha phuckin minute...niqqa, you look like the offspring of 2 gargoyles who were not only brother and sister, but also their own grandparents.

You have no kids, no girlfriend and I can't imagine many friends. So with all the free time you clearly have, aside from not procreating (thank you!), what have you done to positively impact the community?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:11pm
Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

ok.. well PM me
I have others ideas for this young honorable poor woman whom innocently and unsuspectingly let 4 mean men run through her naive snatch... and now is being viciously shamed by other black women in her community for her reproductive choices/ poor economic decisions, rather than be praised for her humanitarian healthy food initiatives within her community as she strives to be a WHOLE woman.. mind body and soul while collecting government support  thks. 



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:12pm
Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

ok.. well PM me
I have others ideas for this young honorable poor woman whom innocently and unsuspectingly let 4 mean men run through her naive snatch... and now is being viciously shamed by other black women in her community for her reproductive choices/ poor economic decisions, rather than be praised for her humanitarian healthy food initiatives within her community as she strives to be a WHOLE woman.. mind body and soul while collecting government support  thks. 

are you being serious right now?  maybe you should save her.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:14pm
I don't think anyone can agree with what she did, but I do think everyone can keep their negative opinions to themselves. Online, we're good to go in as much as we want, but in real life, people should leave her alone. She's got 5 kids. It's really to late to be negative about it, and obviously those type of opinions haven't swayed her from having anymore children. Instead of playing up her victim role, she should just b demanding respect and asking people to practice, "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all." As a grown woman with 5 kids I'd hope that she's aware of what people think. I'd hope she'd already b thinking to herself that "I must b doing something to keep ending up in this position. Either I just can't see it, or I'm ok with it." Either way, in real life, people need to chill out and only offer their opinion if its asked for.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:15pm
LOL let me get out of this thread
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:19pm
Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

I don't think anyone can agree with what she did, but I do think everyone can keep their negative opinions to themselves. Online, we're good to go in as much as we want, but in real life, people should leave her alone. She's got 5 kids. It's really to late to be negative about it, and obviously those type of opinions haven't swayed her from having anymore children. Instead of playing up her victim role, she should just b demanding respect and asking people to practice, "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all." As a grown woman with 5 kids I'd hope that she's aware of what people think. I'd hope she'd already b thinking to herself that "I must b doing something to keep ending up in this position. Either I just can't see it, or I'm ok with it." Either way, in real life, people need to chill out and only offer their opinion if its asked for.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:29pm
In these 12+ pages, has anyone vilified the fathers of her children for not providing for them financially?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:32pm
!!! Lol

I said we can go in online! This thread is fine.

Just in real life, this girl at work with 4 kids, and all different baby daddies, I'm very quiet. I ask no questions. I have questions, but I don't want to offend her or make her feel bad. I think we were close enough for me to ask, but I felt it was still something she should tell when she's ready. In real life people (not just black people I'm sure, but this article is crazy) say things to her that everyone has already said.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:32pm
In these 12+ pages, has anyone given examples of what the fathers of her children are doing to positively impact not only their children's lives, but the community as a whole?


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2013 at 5:42pm
Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

are you being serious right now?  maybe you should save her.

This poor innocent lady deserves less shaming and more encouragement from her peers .... not from other men.

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