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Babydoll9163
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 6:46pm |
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laceyfront
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 7:22pm |
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Sinnamon_Mami
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 7:26pm |
EPITOME wrote:
i don't like when children are divided along gender lines in divorce. Kelsey Grammer tried to do the same thing with his children | Exactly, it's like the dads are saying to hell with the little girls, and just want the boys... I'm sure the child left behind feels rejected.
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Midwest_Da_Gawd
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 7:28pm |
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Gkisses
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 7:29pm |
Sinnamon_Mami wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
i don't like when children are divided along gender lines in divorce. Kelsey Grammer tried to do the same thing with his children |
Exactly, it's like the dads are saying to hell with the little girls, and just want the boys... I'm sure the child left behind feels rejected. |
I wonder if such division would cause the girls to develop a " n!cca aint sh!t" attitude and the boys to develop a "b!tches aint sh*t" attitude"
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OrriannaRose
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 7:40pm |
ms_wonderland wrote:
Some kids should be with their dads...I get the impression that the majority only do this to spite the mother which is not in the best interest. Of course the boys want to be with Deion. Uh sports events money status probably less supervision. |
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sexibeach
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 8:09pm |
i am quite sure they have a guardian ad litem in this case, they consult and represent the kids.. the boy is 10 he is close to the age of consent.. usually that's 12 to 14 depending on the state. the guardian ad litem usually makes the recommendation to the judge based on thorough report by investigation on all parties and submit to the court..they look at everything home, where they sleep, who's in the house etc.. they consider both parents but they do give the kids opinion a high regard.
IMO Pilar appears to care more about living the lifestyle that he afforded her more than she appears to care about her kids and moving on with her life.. when she allowed those kids to be in a home with no lights when you getting 10 grand a month that's no excuse .. to me she did that to appear to be needy so she could ask for more.. many a mothers don't make that much and work everyday and keep the lights on, heat and food for their kids.. they struggle and get the job done with no man nor child support.. so i don't have too much to give Pilar, if she is through with him then do that.. he already provided enough that she should have lived a good life for her kids if she got a job to add to that.. why fight this man over money taking your kids thru hell b/c you don't want to get a job.. or you want to make sure you never have too.. when she was claiming all them expenses she showed her true colors then..
Edited by sexibeach - Dec 21 2012 at 8:10pm
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FarraFace
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 8:13pm |
On which of these 10-11 pages is the explanation of how one can be both unfit to care for 2 of one's children and fit to care for 1 of one's children, at the same damn time?
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newdiva1
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Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 2:54am |
Bunnyahh wrote:
Usher
Deion
Chris Bosh
Dwayne Wade
This is the Year Of The Black Man |
Bunny said 4 dudes is year of the black man.  That tickled me. You cray Bunny.
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newdiva1
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Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 2:56am |
EPITOME wrote:
Babydoll9163 wrote:
Bunnyahh wrote:
kids should be allowed to say where they wanna go & the parents should just deal with it |
Disagree. |
the standard is the best interest of the child. sure a court may strongly consider the opinion and choice of the child but at the end of the day, it's what is in the child's best interest.
why is it in the best interest for the boys to stay with their father and the girl with her mother? |
because the ex now might be a child molestor.
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