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Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

Originally posted by Babydoll9163 Babydoll9163 wrote:

The aunt's abuse is null imo. Unless Pilar witnessed it, it doesn't speak to her character as a mother.

Although the attack on Deion was damaging to the kids, that doesn't mean she abused them. I think temporary removal from her and counseling should have been ordered. Not complete loss of custody. 

the aunts abuse is serious because the aunt was living in pilar's home with the children. when pilar isn't there, she was watching the kids. if pilar is leaving the kids with an abuser then that is neglect.

pilar had the kids temporarily removed prior to this but she refuses to be a protective parent and the judge probably got fed up and awarded the boys to deion.

she had the kids removed already? interesting.....
hmm removing custody is not taken lightly....the court could always forbid the aunt contact with her nephews alone. restrictions on who can associate with the children is not uncommon
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Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Sucks that the siblings have to be separated because of  pilar's lies and abusive ways

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lol. siblings don't mind getting separated? 
wow. 


mmkay. no comment. 
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Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:


the aunts abuse is serious because the aunt was living in pilar's home with the children. when pilar isn't there, she was watching the kids. if pilar is leaving the kids with an abuser then that is neglect.

pilar had the kids temporarily removed prior to this but she refuses to be a protective parent and the judge probably got fed up and awarded the boys to deion.

If she did not know they were being abused, that doesn't make her a bad mother imo. Should she have been more watchufl? Yes. But abusive/neglectful? No. 
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

Brother Deion set the example for how men should deal with golddigging womens.

He was playing chess!!! That Brotha did everything meticulously and beat that broad at her own game:

1) He had an iron-clad prenup.

2) He didn't whoop her ass in his house when she broke in and assaulted him (she was trying to bait him into hitting her to get sympathy on her side).

3) He immediately filed a police report about the assault.

4) He TWEETED photos of the police report being filed (in order to prevent lies being spread in the media).


I hope all you Brothas out there are soaking up the game. Ying Yang






why? what money do you and 99% of the black men on this board have?


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FRAUD

 
A false representation of a matter of fact—whether by words or by conduct, by false or misleading allegations, or by concealment of what should have been disclosed—that deceives and is intended to deceive another so that the individual will act upon it to her or his legal injury.

Fraud is commonly understood as dishonesty calculated for advantage. A person who is dishonest may be called a fraud. In the U.S. legal system, fraud is a specific offense with certain features.

 

In criminal law, a fraud is an intentional deception made for personal gain or to damage another individual; the related adjective is fraudulent. The specific legal definition varies by legal jurisdiction. Fraud is a crime, and also a civil law violation. Defrauding people or entities of money or valuables is a common purpose of fraud.

A hoax also involves deception, but without the intention of gain or of damaging or depriving the victim.

hhhmmmmmmm............
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Originally posted by Flowing-Ice Flowing-Ice wrote:

lol. siblings don't mind getting separated? 
wow. 


mmkay. no comment. 
shocker, but newsflash ..... it happens.  Everybody aint alike.  Just cuz u don't agree doesn't mean ppl want to be around their siblings
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

why cant the boys go where they wanna go??  da fucc??  is she a dictator?

I've explained this to you. I don't think the boys should be kept from either parent. But why they wish to be with one over the other should be investigated before just going with it. 
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Some kids should be with their dads...I get the impression that the majority only do this to spite the mother which is not in the best interest. Of course the boys want to be with Deion. Uh sports events money status probably less supervision.
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Originally posted by Babydoll9163 Babydoll9163 wrote:

Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:


the aunts abuse is serious because the aunt was living in pilar's home with the children. when pilar isn't there, she was watching the kids. if pilar is leaving the kids with an abuser then that is neglect.

pilar had the kids temporarily removed prior to this but she refuses to be a protective parent and the judge probably got fed up and awarded the boys to deion.

If she did not know they were being abused, that doesn't make her a bad mother imo. Should she have been more watchufl? Yes. But abusive/neglectful? No. 


smh...stop trying to defend this woman!LOL

i'm gonna give the children the benefit of the doubt they told pilar and deion both that they felt uncomfortable around the aunt. at the time, the children stayed with pilar and her aunt, so it was pilar's responsibility to protect her kids. she didn't do it and the judge gave deion temporary custody.

she is a bad mother for not kicking her sister out, abusing deion in front of the children and lying about the children and herself, having to live in a hotel due to no electricity. that type of behavior is concerning for anyone, let alone a mother in a heated custody/divorce battle.

if the tables were turned and it was deion who was abusive, and hitting the kids it wouldn't even have gone this far. those kids would have been awarded to pilar at the first court hearing with no questions asked.
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