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the standard is the best interest of the child. sure a court may strongly consider the opinion and choice of the child but at the end of the day, it's what is in the child's best interest.

why is it in the best interest for the boys to stay with their father and the girl with her mother?

@Bunny because of this. Kids are kids and they don't always choose what's best for them. Plus, I truly believe children need both parents. So outside of abuse and/or neglect, they don't need to alienate one.

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women don't always need custody
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Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

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I don't think she should have lost custody, especially since they still have joint over their daughter. That doesn't make sense to me. 


probably because she assaulted the boys and her sister also has a history of assaulting them as well. deion wanted to get them out of her custody before things really got worse. and the boys adore their father.




the sister assaulted her brother? or were they kids rough housing? if she's violent and teaching another child to be violent why should she have custody of any of them? 
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i definitely think if Deion was a regla joe, he wouldnt be gettin them kids. most likely she would have them.
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

why can't the kids go where they want??  so what if they are split?  I know a guy with 3 kids.  His 2 daughters wanted to stay with their hoodrat mom & his nasty son wanted to stay with his bum ass.  They've been separated for 5 yrs now & they are where they wanna be


Because they're children not puppies. Some kids would be choosing base off which parent would let them get away with the most.Parents need to grow up and be parents. A child should be raised with the influence of both. This splitting of the girls with the mom and the boys with the dad presents this false idea that a father figure is more important  for boy vs  girls and vise versa. Which is completely false.

This became a mess  and always does when its played out in the media and both parts do it. Its an even bigger mess with children become part of it in the media and the parents cant even come together to tell said child to stay in their place.


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Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

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The world would have to be ending uh
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Originally posted by Babydoll9163 Babydoll9163 wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

 

the standard is the best interest of the child. sure a court may strongly consider the opinion and choice of the child but at the end of the day, it's what is in the child's best interest.

why is it in the best interest for the boys to stay with their father and the girl with her mother?

@Bunny because of this. Kids are kids and they don't always choose what's best for them. Plus, I truly believe children need both parents. So outside of abuse and/or neglect, they don't need to alienate one.

Your favorite parent isn't necessarily the best parent. 
it usually is, that is why they are the favorite
 
and sure they need both parents, but you cant force 2 ppl to be together.  So the kids must go separate ways
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Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

 probably because she assaulted the boys and her sister also has a history of assaulting them as well. deion wanted to get them out of her custody before things really got worse. and the boys adore their father.



When did she abuse the kids? I thought she just jumped Deion.
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dang, this just ruined my whole weekend before xmas.
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