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    Posted: Jan 26 2013 at 1:34pm
I just wanted to post this somewhere. She was nominated for a Tony and should have won IMO. gosh she was gorgeous!

(The late great Tony Award nominated Phyllis Hyman performing one of Duke Ellington classic -- "It Don't Mean A Thing ". She's accompanied by great
tappers featuring Tony Award Winner Hinton Battle and the late Gregg Burge.)

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anybody know what happened b/w her and Clive Davis?  She was supposed to be his protege and in Whitney's spot but they parted ways and he got with Whitney and made her a star. Supposedly the songs on Whit's first album were all meant for Phyllis.
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" it don't mean a thang, if you ain't got that swang" dowop dowop dowop dowop dowop Clap
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Phyllis Hyman & Billy Preston Promote Blues Bar (September 1994)

Blues Bar, a stage play starring Phyllis Hyman and Billy Preston, made its way to Dallas, TX in September 1994. This video includes Phyllis singing "I Refuse To Be Lonely," plus an impromptu performance of "Nothing From Nothing" by both Billy and Phyllis.






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why did she kill herself?  I know she was depressed, but what were her issues?
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Phyllis Hyman's friend/manager Glenda Gracia talks about the suicide





Walid and Richard have shared with me that many of you would like to know "Why Phyllis killed herself ..."

This question has been asked of me time and time again. I always respond with the short answer, which is : only Phyllis *really* knows why she killed herself.

However, for those of you who may be able to relate to my *feelings* about what her motivations were, I will share my feelings with you...

First, let me start by saying that within two hours after Phyllis' death, she visited me in my office. When I heard her laughing, I asked her the very question you have asked me --- to which she responded "Because no one believed that I would." I then asked her, "But, do you see all of the chaos and confusion that your death has created?" She said, "Handle it!" Then she giggled and left as suddenly as she arrived.

Phyllis had a philosophy about life, death and her body. Simply, she felt that because it was her life, it was also her death. Because it was her body, she had the right to do with it as she chose, including leaving it behind when she was ready to.

Although she was not a member of the Hemlock Society, she was very clear that suicide was indeed an option for those whose lives could not be managed successfully because there was just too much pain : emotionally, physically and spiritually.

About ten years ago, Phyllis was diagnosed as being "bi-polar", a medical term for someone who suffers from the dis-ease of manic-depression. As she got older, her dis-ease became more and more difficult for her to manage. She elected not to use pharmaceutical medication. She elected to self medicate. Her self medication distorted her dis-ease more and more, until she felt helpless about ever being able to recover from it.

Phyllis was an extremely complex person. She had many, many layers to her personality. But, at the root of everything was her most basic need : love --- to both give and receive love.

She could love in a very deep, deep way. She had the capacity to love so deeply that she would become empathic --- meaning, that she was so sensitive that she could actually *feel* the feelings and the pain of others. Although she never considered herself to be *psychic* per se, her sensitivity was such that she experienced telepathy, pre-cognition and generally speaking, the paranormal environment in a way that did not allow her to be easily understood by others. As a consequence, she experienced frustration and oftentimes enormous agony when she knew that she *saw* something happening before it happened and no one would believe her.

When she *saw* distortions in the world, she would feel so much pain from these distortions that she could literally detach herself from everyone for days so that she could recover/heal from the experience. For example, when the Oklahoma bombings occurred, the death of the children, in particular, so disturbed her that she was out of commission for a week!

Phyllis' pain was personal and global. She had carried it around with her since childhood, as do most of us.

It is important to note that she had attempted suicide twice before she actually committed suicide. Because she and I talked about suicide as an option to living a painful life, I was not surprised by her death. I was and am still very sorrowful that she actually made the decision to ascend June 30, 1995. I really miss her...

Stay in the Light and Love,

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back then I think the only medication for bi polar was lithium and many refused to take it. She refused from what I read at the time.
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live performance of one of my all time fav songs


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