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pattigurlatl
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Posted: Jan 26 2013 at 5:51pm |
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This is my song!< id="adlesse_unifier_magic_element_id" style="display:none;">
I read a few biographies and it's my opinion she was a victim of what record companies and society deems what a beauty image is...maybe how she was raised, she was unable to fight it like Mary J and Lauryn Hill who were clearly not the standard, were able to.
Either way, she was fierce and one of my idols.
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Posted: Jan 26 2013 at 7:27pm |
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live performance of one of my all time fav songs
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This gave me chills
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Nadiesca
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i remember reading about her a few years ao,am kinda young do i did not grew up to her songs but she was gorgoeous and talented!!!
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Posted: Jan 26 2013 at 7:46pm |
pattigurlatl wrote:
PurpleHaze wrote:
| This is my song!< id="adlesse_unifier_magic_element_id" style="display:none;">
I read a few biographies and it's my opinion she was a victim of what record companies and society deems what a beauty image is...maybe how she was raised, she was unable to fight it like Mary J and Lauryn Hill who were clearly not the standard, were able to.
Either way, she was fierce and one of my idols. |
I think Mary J still has issues
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Posted: Jan 26 2013 at 7:49pm |
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I really like her lips in a non-sexual way. They just look so soft and pillowy.
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PurpleHaze
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Posted: Jan 26 2013 at 7:55pm |
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speaking of Mary J, I read something about Phyllis' manager saying how upset she was when she wasn't picked for the Waiting to Exhale soundtrack. She said it hurt her and she couldn't believe that Mary J was chosen over her.
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Posted: Jan 26 2013 at 8:45pm |
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She could love in a very deep, deep way. She had the capacity to love so
deeply that she would become empathic --- meaning, that she was so
sensitive that she could actually *feel* the feelings and the pain of
others.
For example, when the Oklahoma bombings occurred, the death of the
children, in particular, so disturbed her that she was out of commission
for a week!
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 Both of these characteristics I suffer from as well. I felt the same way about the Sandy Hook shooting. My family tried to call me to warn me not to turn on the television before I even heard about the shooting. The Oklahoma City bombing happened on my 13th birthday
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Posted: Jan 26 2013 at 9:58pm |
She said that? I ain't mad her
PurpleHaze wrote:
speaking of Mary J, I read something about Phyllis' manager saying how upset she was when she wasn't picked for the Waiting to Exhale soundtrack. She said it hurt her and she couldn't believe that Mary J was chosen over her.
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Posted: Jan 27 2013 at 9:10am |
Quiann00 wrote:
PurpleHaze wrote:
She could love in a very deep, deep way. She had the capacity to love so deeply that she would become empathic --- meaning, that she was so sensitive that she could actually *feel* the feelings and the pain of others.
For example, when the Oklahoma bombings occurred, the death of the children, in particular, so disturbed her that she was out of commission for a week!
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Both of these characteristics I suffer from as well. I felt the same way about the Sandy Hook shooting. My family tried to call me to warn me not to turn on the television before I even heard about the shooting.
The Oklahoma City bombing happened on my 13th birthday
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You are an empath I am one as well sometimes the feelings can be joyful but most of the time they are extreme sometimes when I get negative feelings my whole body and head aches I've been learning how to shield myself which has been helping.
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Posted: Jan 27 2013 at 9:17am |
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If it weren't for my bro I wouldn't have known about this great lady he lived and breathe Phyllis and was heartbroken when she left this earth after reading the article she left me feeling a big wow factor I want to read her story but can't seem to find book online I see some sites start her book at $100. she was a smart, sensual and soulfoul woman I understand the loving hard part about her and wanting to help everyone and when they didn't reciprocate how down it made her feel.....a great woman gone tooo soon, just a natural beauty.
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