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 Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:02pm |
 EPITOME wrote:
coconess wrote:
i think 'desperately grasping for the attention of someone with a big wallet' is dramatic and not what btl is talking about. at least i hope not..
its more so like.. you know youre pretty, you know you can get (not to say basic girls cant get them too) attention from a diverse group of men.. it aint trickin if they got it.. they will do extra just to spend time/mess with you.. why not?
i dont think shes being subjected to ill treatment all for gifts, nor acting like a starving groupie for gifts.. my point is that i dont think its really that deep..
i dont think its any different from talking to a regular ol dwayne from down the street..
everyone has their preferences in a guy.. hers is money.
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pshaw....you don't have to be pretty to get it  girl i know trickin like that is not a looker--the women on here would clown her |
very true.. thats why i put that in parenthesis. many of these women on tv and real housewives are proof that you can be basic.. but i honestly think that pretty girls sorta feel more entitled.
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:03pm |
jonesable wrote:
I never knew there was that much strategy involved to be honest and that's without shade.
I'm a country cute gal and I'd like to think I have a good head on my shoulders.
It's not that hard to find a good guy who has his own and ain't afraid to share it |
IA. i know a white guy that's looking for someone to take care of right now. decent looking, makes really good money, no children etc
he wants her to be
black ambitious and able to cook
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:03pm |
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i don't get you cortez.why look for a rich man (white, persian etc), if you don't necessarily want to settle down with a rich man? why bring yourself to a point where you would be doing intimate things with someone who you don't consider a potential husband? |
let's take money out of the equation
That's like asking why I'd look for a bf if I had no intentions of getting married to him.
I am totally not thinking of marriage right now. Should I not date until I have intentions of settling down? |
i kinda ask this question all the time lol. but yeah, totally. have fun until you get married.
but money is not your preference. its just something you want to take for a ride right now. and if thats the case, then whats the point of doing all this work to try to get it?
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:05pm |
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i would not want to experience 'the life' for only awhile. sip champagne and they go back to a forty? no thanks.
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:05pm |
Flowing-Ice wrote:
BoutThatLife wrote:
Flowing-Ice wrote:
i don't get you cortez.why look for a rich man (white, persian etc), if you don't necessarily want to settle down with a rich man? why bring yourself to a point where you would be doing intimate things with someone who you don't consider a potential husband? |
let's take money out of the equation
That's like asking why I'd look for a bf if I had no intentions of getting married to him.
I am totally not thinking of marriage right now. Should I not date until I have intentions of settling down? |
i kinda ask this question all the time lol. but yeah, totally. have fun until you get married.
but money is not your preference. its just something you want to take for a ride right now. and if thats the case, then whats the point of doing all this work to try to get it? |
wealthy men, like real wealth is not common I would think you would have to do some research if you were not born into that life or already familiar with it though other means
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:06pm |
foxyroy19 wrote:
I don't understand this giving it away for free...What most women do is generally what leads them to marriage--what you are doing will generally leave you being the one discarded. Most women want more than the materialistic. A man that can provide a Hermes bag may not provide emotional security/support when you want/need it. The ideal relationship is if he lost it all I would want to still stand by him and he me. Nothing that I am saying is one hundred percent but the odds are against the way you are going about things. |
That's funny because tbh I don't see most women being married. I see most women being long term gfs/baby mamas strung along, in hopes of marriage one day. I think that's something women like you tell yourselves in order to feel more superior to women who don't make the same choices as you. Many women who marry well are actually pretty ambitious in their choices of men. Whether they're marrying white collar professionals, hood ballers, athletes, entrepenuers, etc. most of these women who got these men didn't actually do it by accident. When I actually decide to care about love, I'll look for it, but as for now i'm sowing my oats
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:06pm |
JamCaygirl wrote:
who is the unwed teenage mother?
I thought Bunny was a married lady (married to the father of her children)
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SweetNovember* wrote:
femmemichelle wrote:
How the hell did yall go from discussing Persian men to unwed mothers?
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You missed the part where posters tried to act like they were above it.
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I am above it. All my kids are born in wedlock like I.
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JamCaygirl wrote:
who is the unwed teenage mother?
I thought Bunny was a married lady (married to the father of her children)
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 I thought she was married but maybe the year old bacon she served did him in...shrug. |
You tried it, for like the 4th or 5th time (u love that story Foxy  ) but my husband doesn't eat pork. I made a thread on that too. Many of the questions yall are asking can be found in past posts. No need to make sh*t up
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:07pm |
lol @ that being the dream life, that is MY LIFE. It pains you to know & accept the truth or something. Something is seriously wrong with you. You can lie & talk sh*t all you want about venom & bitterness, at the end of the day, I'm still doing better than you on my worst day. READ the threads, everyone is not living the dream life. Is it really hard for you to believe that some are not struggling, hustling, grinding or doing something strange for a lil change?
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:08pm |
SamoneLenior wrote:
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If both sides know what the other person wants, it's not using. I don't think these men are clueless as they seem to be. They know when they are being used for material means. They just ignore it in exchange for vagina or attention from a pretty girl. |
of course they do
only fresh new money gets used....they learn quickthough
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I just had a gold digger moment and drooled when I thought about negros with new money.....lol
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Posted: Jan 01 2013 at 8:08pm |
BBpants wrote:
If both sides know what the other person wants, it's not using. I don't think these men are clueless as they seem to be. They know when they are being used for material means. They just ignore it in exchange for vagina or attention from a pretty girl. |
aint nothing wrong with some mutual love lol. but some guys like spoiling women barnone, and you don't have to deal with all of that.
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