People who are naturally flirtatious...

modelbusiness82 wrote: Well it sounds like your bestie is upping the ante and taking it to another level. As a natural flirt, I know there are definitely scenarios where I make sure to not go into the flirt zone: 1. My close male friends that I met through my fiance (I see them as brothers so that would be incestuous at best and downright skanky at worst) 2. My male friends who have gfs 3. My male clients 4. My male business partners People that I know personally basically are off limits as it's too easy to let things get carried away and for unnecessary drama to pop up. It sounds like both your bestie and your bestie's bf are being too ratchet for any good to come from it. You need to address your bestie's excessive flirting and you need to limit your time around her man. Unless you enjoy creating unnecessary tension, I don't see anything good coming from encouraging or not inhibiting either of their behaviors.

I'm confused, she flirts with your guy and it's okay but if you flirted with her guy all hell would break loose?  Why don't you just tell her how you feel, especially since you two are friends?

AshBash89 wrote: I'm confused, she flirts with your guy and it's okay but if you flirted with her guy all hell would break loose?  Why don't you just tell her how you feel, especially since you two are friends?

I'm a really laid back person .

I'm also a very awkward person who like to avoid conversations that have the potential to b awkward. What should I say?

would it bother you more if she was his type physically and he flirted back with her

petiteone29 wrote: would it bother you more if she was his type physically and he flirted back with her

Only if he flirted back with her. Attractive/unattractive Would go out the window because then he would b disrespecting his commitment to me. He doesn't do that and seems generally unphased by the entire situation. He basically said the same thing; she just naturally a flirt.