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sache1991 
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Posted: Mar 16 2013 at 12:55pm |
Why do I feel guilty when some people try to call me a bad person/friend when I ignore them? I am ignoring and avoiding the ones who lie and break promises.
It seems as you get older it becomes more obvious that most people are really looking out for themselves.  |
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Posted: Mar 16 2013 at 1:10pm |
 sache1991 wrote:
Why do I feel guilty when some people try to call me a bad person/friend when I ignore them? I am ignoring and avoiding the ones who lie and break promises.
It seems as you get older it becomes more obvious that most people are really looking out for themselves. |
Don't feel guilty. They play on that... There is nothing wrong with avoiding. Avoiding can be a good thing. U need not deal with liars and the such.
It's every manticoo for it's own puhpoi in these rounds.
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Posted: Mar 16 2013 at 1:12pm |
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you could be straight up with people and tell them the friendship has run it's course for xyz reason.
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Posted: Mar 16 2013 at 1:23pm |
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Well damn <----- what I said when I read the title
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Posted: Mar 16 2013 at 2:02pm |
Don't feel gulity at all. Me and a good friend we're just talking about this in regards to a very similar situation. Nobody should give time to such people, esp. after giving them many chances to be real. It will only drain you, you'll be misery, so what's the point. It's not even a true friendship from both sides because one, they don't respect you enough to be honest and two, you aren't enjoying their "friendship" because it's NOT a friendship. Why waste your time AND be stressed? No suh. Aint nobody got time foh dat.
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Posted: Mar 16 2013 at 2:05pm |
MizzAmirah wrote:
Don't feel gulity at all. Me and a good friend we're just talking about this in regards to a very similar situation. Nobody should give time to such people, esp. after giving them many chances to be real. It will only drain you, you'll be misery, so what's the point. It's not even a true friendship from both sides because one, they don't respect you enough to be honest and two, you aren't enjoying their "friendship" because it's NOT a friendship. Why waste your time AND be stressed?No suh. Aint nobody got time foh dat. |
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Posted: Mar 16 2013 at 2:07pm |
Fk'em and do u 
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Posted: Mar 16 2013 at 2:38pm |
beebeexx wrote:
you could be straight up with people and tell them the friendship has run it's course for xyz reason. |
Tell them how you feel so they can choose to move on also. By ignoring you seem to not what to burn those bridges so you may have the option to keep communication open at your leisure. Make a CLEAN break.
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