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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

I never understood that. Whether the woman is married or single, the other women's husbands are still married. Do they think he may cheat w/ a single woman but not with a married one?

 

 

This all day!

I think they see singles as thirsty, home-wrecking jezebels who don't really give a damn.  The men were the shameless gawkers smh but God forbid you actually check your man, nuh uh, SUBMIT!!  Oh, and EVERY affair I learned about at church was a spouse swapping mess btw


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote ThatGurlD Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 30 2014 at 7:31pm
Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:

When I was going to church as a single person, the women were cold and cruel.  When I got married they wanted to welcome me into their miserable little club.  Church can be a strange place.  I was just wondering why the woman was some mean to OP's mama.


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And I liked your post in the other thread about men winning in marriage Wink  truth LOL
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me too ThatG. The church affairs I've known of  were 99.9% amongst and betwixt marrieds.


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 she spoke ill to her mother for no reason...people who r just trying to help her and her husband out and she spoke that smack to her...calling her a bitch? i wish my pastor's wife did do this to my mother...i wouldn;t lay a hand on her cause she ain't worth losing my freedom over, but to make her a special dish...wth i wouldn;t give a rat's *&%^$#@Ein hell...you disrespected me and esp my mother...

calling us and the other females bitches...not my fault u ain't woman enough to keep your man pleased to keep him from wondering from church member to church member



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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

I never understood that. Whether the woman is married or single, the other women's husbands are still married. Do they think he may cheat w/ a single woman but not with a married one?

 

 

Yes, definitely & always, and that is where they eff up.
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OP, im sorry that this happened to your mom. I commend you for keeping your cool and not snatching her wig and throwing it out the door or chucking a few chicken wings at her head. You and your mom maintained your dignity in this situation and I strive for a level of discipline like that every day.Clap
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

 
 
This lady went in and said, "I'm tired of you bitches asking what my husband likes to eat! (I'm getting ready to box this old ho at this point) You wanna know what kinda pie my man likes...it's called MYcoochiePIE bitch you can't find that in no store! Now begone hoes!"
 
 
My mom snatched me up and said don't even worry about it...the pastor been tasting all types of coochie pie in the church for the past 20 years so she can have that...
 
 
 
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Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:

When I was going to church as a single person, the women were cold and cruel.  When I got married they wanted to welcome me into their miserable little club.  Church can be a strange place.  I was just wondering why the woman was some mean to OP's mama.

My mom was accused of cheating with another churchgoers husband which was completely false just because the wife was uncomfortable with her being a leader of one group. My mom was so hurt by the rumor and threatened to sue. She went to the pastor and pastor wife to clear her name and she got mad that they accused her of wanting such an "ugly little man" LOL. And one of the women mean to my mom got mad at me for not greeting her at church. I'm like I was being nice by ignoring you. If you have a problem with my mom, I automatically have a problem with you. 

They also ran off another single lady who was a leader of a youth girl's group I was in. The women said a single woman should not be leading a youth all girl group because she didn't set a good example due to her not having a husband. And after I graduated high school, these women talking about they want me to marry their hoing sons. My mom recently remarried and stayed in that church. And my mom wonders why I hate going to her church Confused


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Anna your story was funny and sad and I would act the same way if that was my mom. It's sad how even in a place of worship, people do not know how to act. 

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Church was the only place I felt like being single was a disease.  
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