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I wouldn't do it unless you know the male real well... like cousin/brother type of ish
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I've roomed with 3 different guys. Guy 1 had romantic aspirations and moved quickly after he realized I was in a serious relationship and he didn't have a chance.

Guy 2 was the best room mate I've ever had; we just got each other and respected each other's spaces. Didn't have any issues whatsoever! He moved out when he got married.

Guy 3 was sh*te! He was a slob, was late on rent, and we just didn't get along. That's all just to say, it's really trial and error. Have a plan when/if you do move in for if things don't work out
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I did this for 2 years.  We shared a 4 bedroom house and hardly saw each other and when we did it was great.  Very easy living situation.

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I would say...be careful....I have never lived with a man...I moved from my parents to with a boyfriend who became my husband... I want everyone who reads this post to remember this phrase for the rest of your life...
 
The only place of true peace and tranquility is at YOUR  home...
 
As I have gotten older, I have learned you will never have true peace at work...coworkers
and supervisors change everyday....a job that is sweet in January 2012 is terrible in July 2012 when a new boss arrives.
 
Many adults will never have true peace at your parents home, many times we are still viewed as a child and you can't say, do or have company as you like...etc..
 
You have to be careful who you live with, who you let live with you..... because  home is your haven, your place of peace....your place to refresh, mentally rest, don't worry or have concern....
 
If you...deep in your heart even remotely like this man....if you are honest with yourself you will feel "something" when all these different women are coming and going.  Also, say you two "date, sexing or kick" it for a minute then he is back to his other women....how you gonna feel.
 
Good luck, be smart...I would not do it.....but at the same time...if your environment is TERRIBLE...then you have to MOVE....but I'd not make it long term...
 
 
 
 
 
 


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Nah men are the biggest cock blockers ever.
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Second thought I be livin too foul to live with a man, I already know he gonna blow up my spot
 
But after my experiences living with trifling ass women, maaaaaaaan I'm gonna stay where I am and risk getting my head blown off -__-
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the sex was great

it is what it is, it was what it was

no one bitched when someone brought someone home

boundaries and mutual respect
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

the sex was great

it is what it is, it was what it was

no one bitched when someone brought someone home

boundaries and mutual respect
This! Dateless night someone to cuddle and eat Chinese food with, no biggie lol.
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i have lived with a male roommate... 

let's just say it turned out to be a bad situation... 

but it could work with the 2 right people. 

i agree with whoever said as long as it is someone
you have not had sex with - nor would have sex with -
then it could work.


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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

the sex was great

it is what it is, it was what it was

no one bitched when someone brought someone home

boundaries and mutual respect
This! Dateless night someone to cuddle and eat Chinese food with, no biggie lol.




For us it was nandos,

But it was always cool coming home to cooked food etc.

And amid all that.. Her rent was always on time.



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