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I think  you just need to be you. If they truly love you they will love you for you even if you shy, quiet, always wears sneakers and sweats, or if you confident, talkative and do it up.Its about that person wanting you flaws and all. I would reather have on guy truly love me for me the way I am than 100 guys who like me for changing who I am or because i am overtly trying and throwing my self in their face.
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If you with him...Just be ya damn self...Don't 'get' or 'make' anyone do anything...do ya thing...that's how divorce happen "She was never like that when we were dating" "He used to be so sweet"
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All the things i have suggested are not...not being yourself..

i mean all the things i have suggested are good improvements...

why be negative unconfident and sad all the time, and if you are itís a good thing to change...

they are all good personal improvements people should be continuously assessing within themselves...

being negative all the time, doesnt work for anyone..

negative =more negative being drawn back to you..

so yeah be yourself but try and evaluate yourself improve yourself...

its the way forward!

other wise your stale and stagnant being the same..

 

 

 

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Originally posted by ladybugstar130 ladybugstar130 wrote:

spells. now that's my type of ish. waxing candles, trying string up in the moon. Tried it all. LOL. either i'm not too good at spells or that mess just doesn't work.
 
 
ConfusedLOL................it seems like the latter, lol.................i've heard it does work though, but most times with HORRIBLE conseqeunces...........ehhhhh.........like the man becoming obssessed with you...Confused................nooooooo thank you.
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Originally posted by AClassAct AClassAct wrote:

Originally posted by exotic_erotic exotic_erotic wrote:

how about casting a spell on them? won't that work like a charm???


LOLLOLLOL If I weren't Christian, then maybe..........j/kBig%20smile
 
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Originally posted by exotic_erotic exotic_erotic wrote:

how about casting a spell on them? won't that work like a charm???
 
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change ya title to

how to attract a man and get him interestd,

coz nothing up there will get him to love you





Edited by afrokock - Dec 25 2008 at 8:51am
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hey mbya777
where did you meet those guys? Did men often approach you often before or did you notice a change it that too?
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

change ya title to

how to attract a man and get him interestd,

coz nothing up there will get him to love you



 
ClapClapClapEXACTLY!
 
From what i've experienced, men really dont mind spending money on a female whom company they enjoy. And if these men are "loaded" then a couple of dinner dates and gifts really aren't that serious. Come back to us when she getting all of these men to propose....
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I agree with these statements but they are more geared towards how to get guys to notice you and become attracted to you.
 
It is my personal philosophy that men like women in heels and colors. Black is okay if it's a nice cut shirt or dress but what really gets them are bright colors.
 
Look around a room the next time that you go to the club or anywhere that there are a lot of people. Everyone is mainly in black, grey, white or blue. I've stuck out so much by wearing teal, purple, green and pink but not dark colors, jewel tones (bright). I really think that it livens you up and even if you're not smiling, it makes you appear more approachable and positive.
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