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......because no one has ever made an extremely stupid decision in their twenties in the name of "love". 




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Originally posted by OhMyCurlz OhMyCurlz wrote:

......because no one on here has ever made an extremely stupid decision in their twenties in the name of "love". 



that woman was damn near 30. Stop. And to do something so permanent...this wasnt her signing for a car for a broke aint sh*t man that ended up fcking up her credit. This was removing her ability to give life.

If she knew in her heart of hearts that she wanted more babies then she shouldnt have went through with this...this isnt the 1960's, she had plenty of birth control options at her disposal and she chose the most permanent. Bye felicia. She should have loved herself more. the fact that she's angry about this after the fact is very telling...it wasnt even a mutual agreement, the sterilization was something he wanted, not them together...foolish


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Yes... most people don't permanently prevent themselves from giving birth if they know in their "heart of hearts" they want more kids (Geek). She made a decision with someone she cared about that they would not have more kids together because she thought they were going to stay together. Women compromise often and get the short end of the stick, that's what the entire OP is about. She made a very stupid decision. That's not unusual. Whether it's getting your credit phucked or having kids with a bum (what is more permanent than that?)... most women have done something stupid/sacrificed over a ni**a, period. 


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In all seriousness.....it would have been more practical for Ne-Yo to  have had a vasectomy.

A vasectomy can be reversed and he could have frozen some of his sperm just in case his vasectomy couldn't be reversed.

According to the site below frozen sperm can live indefinitely. 

http://www.thespermbankofca.org/content/how-long-can-sperm-be-frozen
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote OhMyCurlz Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 30 2014 at 4:55am
Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

In all seriousness.....it would have been more practical for Ne-Yo to  have had a vasectomy.

A vasectomy can be reversed and he could have frozen some of his sperm just in case his vasectomy couldn't be reversed.

According to the site below frozen sperm can live indefinitely. 

http://www.thespermbankofca.org/content/how-long-can-sperm-be-frozen
True. He's selfish for even asking, she was dumb for agreeing. The fact he asked her to do something so permanent shows he cared more about himself than her and she cared more about him than herself. 

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plenty black kids out there to adopt

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Originally posted by bindy bindy wrote:

In all seriousness.....it would have been more practical for Ne-Yo to  have had a vasectomy.

A vasectomy can be reversed and he could have frozen some of his sperm just in case his vasectomy couldn't be reversed.

According to the site below frozen sperm can live indefinitely. 

http://www.thespermbankofca.org/content/how-long-can-sperm-be-frozen


it's a much simpler procedure too. Less invasive.

^^vasectomy.
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why on gods earth would ne-yo allow her to be on the show if he is still filling up her bank account and allowing her to live in his house ? how much pull does he have on this woman ?
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At most, I would've gotten a birth control implant... and that is the most I would do. Even if I knew I never wanted more kids, I wouldn't mutilate myself for anything or anyone.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

boy that is sad.
why couldn't he get a vasectomy? No insurance (joke)

women do too much.

Or strap up.....He would rather permanently stop her from having more children and possibly cause other complications just to avoid using condoms? Or fix himself? He is a total bytch.....
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