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there is some deep stuff as well though that made them also feel a way about me (not my fault..) for a long time.. lots lies.. lots of phony.. that i wont get into to. 

i missed for the, 'deal with out of obligation' part. 

theres only like 1 that i deal with out of obligation. everyone else has been banished and doesnt even get a hi from me.. and she (as well as 1 other) forced their way back into my life.. i feel bad ignoring a person.. we talked and i grew to kinda understand some things.. 


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Originally posted by whitrhymes whitrhymes wrote:

Do you all have close family members you don't like but deal with out of obligation?
nope. i will cut you off with a quickness for my own sanity/wellness/health/happiness. 

matter of fact, a cousin is inching on to the chopping block right nah. she will be joining the list with her worthless ass mother soon. Smile
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What she do to you Neka?
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Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

What she do to you Neka?
absolutely nothing. she knows i'll come for her neck. however, she'd been rather disrespectful to our (much more patient) grandmother. 

i don't want anything to do with her at this point and i hope my grandmother will do the same. 
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Oh, I see. you can't be disrespectful to your ancestors.
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especially since she's had a hand in raising all of us; my cousin most of all. i feel legit rage when i think about it. 

however it's fine. lessons were learned and mistakes shan't be repeated. for her, i hope it was worth it. *shrug* 
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I figured out long ago that I will not be dealing with anyone that I don't care for just because we share dna Confused. I invite who I like to Thanksgiving and do not answer questions about why who didn't get an invite. If you don't like the seating line up or feel a certain type of way cause I didn't invite cousin Mary, then carry your self over to her crib.


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Are any of yall the relative that nobody likes?
Coco sounds like she might be.
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if you hate your own kin folks then the rest of the world doesn't mean jack to you. To have them kinds of feelings toward your own blood wow quite sad to me.. your poor father hatin on his mother. 
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natalie coles' mother was VERY jealous of her too in the same way my mother is of me, it's because i look just like my daddy / like natalie cole looks just like her dad too ( may the Lord rest both of their souls) sooo in these cases the mother is in her mind taking out her anger or whatever on the father through the childDead which is mentally sickAngry but it happens ( she never physically abused me but she was VERY cunning & wicked & mean ) for some odd reason i intuitively blocked her sheitt on all levels / so i was basically fukkin all her bullsheitt upLOL

sidenote: sheitt let me stop lyin by 9yrs old i was str8 fukkin mothers' schemes & foolery UP!LOL


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