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 Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 4:32pm |
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I took my car in for service and ended up being flirted with/flirting back (I guess?) with one of the sales guys . he accosted me outside. I mentioned to him that he was very good looking because he was and I guess he thought I was flirting. He asked for my number and I was like 'wait a min now, I was just making an observation; I'[m not interested." I came home and was telling hub about it so we could LOL together and he said "I know, you pocket dialed me and I heard the whole thing it was hilarious." that whole scenario was hilarious to me.
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Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 4:32pm |
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Some people are just stupid and are oblivious to their partner's feelings, so while one may consider it cheating, the other may not see the issue...is it still cheating then?
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Bad communication. People will let things slide thinking they can handle it...But eventually it can cause real issues. You should let someone know....hey I don't tolerate this or that behaviors. Now if they continue despite your feelings, then that is a different issue.
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Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 4:35pm |
eanaj5 wrote:
Some people are just stupid and are oblivious to their partner's feelings, so while one may consider it cheating, the other may not see the issue...is it still cheating then?
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yes I think it is. IMO it only takes 1 vote (out of the 2).
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Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 4:36pm |
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what's that saying, cheating begins in the mind or something like that...
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Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 4:37pm |
PurpleHaze wrote:
eanaj5 wrote:
Some people are just stupid and are oblivious to their partner's feelings, so while one may consider it cheating, the other may not see the issue...is it still cheating then?
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yes I think it is. IMO it only takes 1 vote (out of the 2).
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Yup...the one upset about it. I have seen too many conflicts in relationships where one person has issues with flirtation and the other is like "well that is how I am." I always say you can be that, but if you love that other person you will be that and alone.
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Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 4:38pm |
eanaj5 wrote:
Some people are just stupid and are oblivious to their partner's feelings, so while one may consider it cheating, the other may not see the issue...is it still cheating then? |
If the one on the receiving end sees it as cheating then yes, it is. But you are spot in with the people being stupid and oblivious or just outright disrespectful of and disregarding their partner's feelings.
Omission is lying. If you hide it from me, you are lying. If you can't share what you say/type/email/chat with me, you are a cheating liar. Sadly, I have had to explain this to my other half. More than once.
I still don't understand how that five minutes of pleasure is worth destroying one's entire life, career, family and everything he/she has worked for and hurting those who really love them.
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Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 4:42pm |
PurpleHaze wrote:
I remember I took my car in and ended up being flirted with/flirting back (I guess?) with one of the sales guys . he accosted me outside. I mentioned to him that he was very good looking because he was and I guess he thought I was flirting. He asked for my number and I was like 'wait a min now, I was just making an observation; I'[m not interested." I came home and was telling hub about it so we could LOL together and he said "I know, you pocket dialed me and I heard the whole thing it was hilarious." that whole scenario was hilarious to me.
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Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 4:44pm |
Now Purp you know you can't be nice to men. Any compliment means you want to take them in the back room and had sweaty sex  .
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Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 4:44pm |
Rumbera wrote:
Let me stop send emails to Idris ! |
files divorce papers! 
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