Wow, I haven't posted here in a longgggg time. Just thought I'd swing by and noticed someone had commented on this year-old thread recently.
I think that anyone can wear whatever they want, as long as they don't do a half-arsed job at it. I've said it before on here, but you can do whatever you want as long as you do it well. I do think that blonde hair doesn't really suit very dark skinned girls, but even if they want to wear blonde hair, it doesn't mean they're attention seeking/wanting to be white/ghetto, etc. If you like a look and it makes you feel beautiful and confident, then you don't need someone elses approval.