No, your life is not too sad right now.
YOU are too sad right now. I know it sucks, you wasted years on this loser, but all you should focus on is you. Make yourself better, make yourself brighter, you don't need a man, you need your love 100% to yourself.
Someone once wrote here on BHM: "You have to b the kind of person that the kind of man U want, would want"
So, what kind of man do you want? Someone who is smart, intelligent, has a great job, good sense of humor, great in bed, etc etc AND is in love with you.
So what do you do? You give to yourself first. When you love yourself, you only attract men who like women with a good self esteem. Some member wrote in another thread:
| KottonKandy wrote:|
there was a time looooooong
ago that I didn't feel like I was deserving of someone who can do for
me. All my life I had to do things on my own and was made to feel that
way. Once I got in the mindset that I am worthy of having a man who
doesn't mind providing (not just in a man, but life in general, I'm
worthy of having a "good" life), I started naturally meeting men who saw
Think about it. This guy is not good for you. The fact that he didn't know what to say means that he probably was worried that you liked him too much. He probably thought you were cool with just messing around, no strings attached, and got annoyed that you were in love.