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Originally posted by joileprincess joileprincess wrote:



I only do hair for a couple people that I know. I made the mistake of hooking up a friend's aunt. It was a total nightmare. Now I keep everything under wraps. I almost didn't talk to my grandma for a bit when she let it slip that I did micro-links. Had all my aunts and cousins asking me questions.


microlinks?
ruh oh, now I'm getting ready to be put on silent treatment LOL cause I have questions--

what type of hair do you use?
do you use the silicone lined links?
how long do they last?
blending issues?
Big smile

I ordered some link things last year but never really did anything with them. I had high hopes though lol.


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Sorry if it sounds harsh but phuck her feelins.  If you don't want to do it, then she should just accept it. 
BTW baking someone a cake is way less time consuming than braiding someone else's hair.  
 
So don't feel bad, just keep it moving.
 
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That's how I felt after putting in genie locs by myself! People asked me and I told them no but they understood and accepted my refusal!

Your SIL is entitled as hell!
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Originally posted by Ds2nice Ds2nice wrote:

Sorry if it sounds harsh but phuck her feelins.  If you don't want to do it, then she should just accept it. 
BTW baking someone a cake is way less time consuming than braiding someone else's hair.  
 
So don't feel bad, just keep it moving.
 

Girl I don't feel bad at all. She'll live.
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is this going to make things uncomfy at the next  family Thanksgiving dinner? lol

SILs can be a handful.
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Purp it might. She holds grudges and acts petty. I have been through some stuff with this girl man. I don't really care about her being mad though. She does it with everybody. We just ignore her. She throws tantrums. She is a grown 40 something year old woman with kids too.

We have come a looooooooooooong way from how it used to be. We wouldn't even speak to each other years ago. She stopped talking to my husband too because she was mad that we were together. Thats why no matter how close she tries to get I keep her at a certain distance. I think she is one of those people who will turn on you in a minute. I try to be cordial and friendly to set a good example for my kids. I don't want them to see no craziness. But if she come at me wrong it could go there again. I'm trying to be a civilized lady. 


She hasn't texted or called me since then so we will see. LOLLOL

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petite, dang. Sorry to hear all that.  Can't believe she stopped speaking to her brother. Does she think she runs things or something? lol
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Yeah she does think that. And I don't play those type of games. She ain't running nothing over here with me and mines and it eats her up when she doesn't get her way. 
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yeah I got that vibe from her when you said she said "I'm getting ready to save some money...' without asking you a thing about if you have time to do her hair or feel like it. That sounds like somebody trying to manipulate me and I don't respond well to that (just speaking of how I'd take it..)
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