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She can stay mad then lol People are too picky when they want stuff done for free
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what ever. i know how to braids and do twists too. But i do it over the span of like 4-5 days. If i do it for someone else i'll have to do all that time straight through, hell no. The sam way i learned and practiced you can too. And mofo's want that sh*t for free too! 14-16 hrs constantly moving my hands for FREE!!
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My friends already know, if you're not willing to learn the skill to do it for me too... don't expect sh*t from me.

One friend STAYS in the kitchen with me helping me bake all the time and she also wanted to learn..So when her bday came around, I made her a 3 tiered cake. I learned to do sew-ins, and she agreed to learn as well. Free hair done for both of us

Another friend refuses to learn or even TRY either one..and so I refuse too.

It's not always tit for tat, but a lazy/stingy friend gets a lazy/stingy friend

I tell people all the time. I don't LIKE doing this stuff, but I'll TEACH you how (lashes etc)
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i love my SIL...but ive stopped doing her hair. I spend hours on her weaves, braids, cornrows etc only for her to always take them out in less than 2 weeks. Now i send her yt links, she gon' learn  Pinch
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Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

i love my SIL...but ive stopped doing her hair. I spend hours on her weaves, braids, cornrows etc only for her to always take them out in less than 2 weeks. Now i send her yt links, she gon' learn  Pinch


This would piss me off.
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Originally posted by zolloh zolloh wrote:

i love my SIL...but ive stopped doing her hair. I spend hours on her weaves, braids, cornrows etc only for her to always take them out in less than 2 weeks. Now i send her yt links, she gon' learn  Pinch


i hate that sh#t. people who dont know how to take care of the hair and snatch it out in a few weeks. those braids are supposed to last 2 months, bish why your hair out 3 weeks later???? they itched?? WASH THEM! wasting my cotdamn time.

or they wanna pay you at a STEEP discount. like 50 bucks for box braids. Gtfowtbs . they want you to come to them, sit on a uncomfortable chair, dont offer you nothing to eat you have to order food, stay in their tiny house for 10 hrs all for $50? niqqas is bold
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Ive had ppl catch attitude because i want to charge them. I only do my mom and sis hair for free.

If thy ain't conversing currency thy refuses to converse.


word. i am in completeth agreement. doeth thoust the funds f'r mineth timeth and w'rketh? nay? then i can't helpeth thou.
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yeah I was thinking that anyone who would need to pay me, I'm not close enough to WANT TO do their hair lol. Folks that I would do, it's gratis.


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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

lol. just say no.
don't give a reason.
 
This lol
 
She'll get over it.

Co-sign.

And if she wants to hold an attitude then she can.  The fact that she was bold enough to say that tells me that doing her hair would result in a migraine for you. 

I only do hair for a couple people that I know. I made the mistake of hooking up a friend's aunt. It was a total nightmare. Now I keep everything under wraps. I almost didn't talk to my grandma for a bit when she let it slip that I did micro-links. Had all my aunts and cousins asking me questions.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Doing someone's hair is so taxing .
 

Hair stylists have to have a passion bc that ish is aggravating


Lol, I'm not a professional stylist but I know how to do hair. I actually enjoy doing real hair(washing, dc, relaxing, cutting). I know how to do almost any kind of braids and twists but I don't always feel like it. I charge nothing less than $100....even for kids , braiding is time consuming and tiring. I've had people get mad when I wouldn't do it for free for the simple fact that I "knew how" . One of my sister's associates got mad because I wouldn't keep her daughter's hair up(braids for free), but she herself keeps a fresh $300 plus sew in at all times. No bish, no.

Edited by aNgElIc*SoUl - Aug 06 2014 at 2:42am
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