He always searches through my phone....so I took the time out to search thru his lastnight while he was p.o. sleep....I somehow searched thru his text messages (that he thought he deleted) But I knew where to go to recover them. So this person name P texted him a few times...bk n fourth, the convo went something like this.
My S/O: I thought you had a dude thats why i ain't been hittn you up outta respect
P: I thought u had 1 too thats why i ain't been hittn you up
My S/O: well you can still hit a niqqa up then sometimes
P: Oh ok, we can still hang out sometimes
My S/O: When
I read that and said nothing till the next morning. I asked who was P? He said oh just someone that texted him to ask a question, I asked him why he delete the messages..he says, cuz what he was texting me for was sum bs and i ain't wanna leave that in my phone. Notice he says HE. Come to find out HE is a SHE. So he's had this short convo with this chic that stays right next door to his mother. WOW DO I NOT TRUST HIM OR WHAT.
I dunno what to do, part of me says leave him alone if you can't trust. The other part of me says hunnie just do you and see how it plays out.
Swear I just wanna say F it all together and just keep it moving but im so tired of jumpin into relationship after relationship (ive only had 3 total)
Should I stay or should I go BHM? What would you do? Am I petty? Is this something minor that i'm just taking way outta proportion