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How can your mother let her own daughter and grandson live in a motel for a month and keep her boyfriend in her house?
He is manipulative. He probably put your mother against you; he might have said that he saw you in bad company and the door of your room should be removed because you are doing something wrong.

If it is bad financially for you to move out, you need to talk to her about it. Call her before she gets home and tell her you'll treat her to a dinner, a mom-and-daughter kind of thing. Take your son with you, and talk to her about your lack of privacy, that the man needs to move out if he does not pay any bills, and even if he does help with any bill, it is not enough because of the stress he is putting you through.

Maybe away from his influence she may tell you what he has been feeding her (and I am sure there are lies). You need to check the house for drugs and hidden cameras.
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Yes I have tried to talk to my mother but everytime the subject of him comes up she gets loud and defensive as soon as i say his name she starts calling me a dumb mailto:b@tch - b@tch and other names, september was the last time I have actually communicated with her. I don't say anything to her except excuse me if I have to cross her path we don't speak because of him.

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yall probably going to hate because of this post but ohh well. Your mother doesn't owe you shat, sorry to tell you, her boyfriend over there probably giving her the best diq she got in her life. And her 28y/o daughter is over here complaining about him. Get a pocket knife and some mace and make sure that he knows you got  it and will use it, in case he gets out of line. Because my spidey sense's are telling me that this fool might try it. Just keep your head strong and save money and move out when you can. Good luck.
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Time to move out!! I hate to say this but your mom really aint sh*t
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Originally posted by JustTryna13 JustTryna13 wrote:

Last March I put a lock on the door and while I was at work, I dont know what story he told my mother but they took the door down. My one year old son and I would wake and see his face every morning. It got to the point where I took my son and stayed in a motel for a month. I only came back because my mother called me and said that my son should not be in dirty motels and that she talked to her boyfriend and that I should just stay until i find my own place. It looks like I will have to stay in a motel again this time because I have no peace, I know I should not hate but hate is what I feel for him.

 
Wow! Unbelieveable.
 
Your mom is not a real mother to you.
 
You just move out and put this out of your mind. Unbelieveable.
 
Please go back to the motel because if you can't lock your own flippen door - you have no privacy and anything can happen to you in that house! What are you a PRISONER. It's like they wanna KEEP you in that house under their control.
 
I don't think you should tell your mom where you are going though. She's not right in the head. You need to BE SAFE and clearly your home environment is off.
 
Please leave and don't tell them where you have gone - stay away from them both. Maybe that loser will leaveand then you see your mom again but don't live with her again .. too strange!
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Originally posted by JustTryna13 JustTryna13 wrote:

Yes I have tried to talk to my mother but everytime the subject of him comes up she gets loud and defensive as soon as i say his name she starts calling me a dumb mailto:b@tch - b@tch and other names, september was the last time I have actually communicated with her. I don't say anything to her except excuse me if I have to cross her path we don't speak because of him.

 
Yep, that is what I would imagine is going on with your mom if she is okay with this mesed up arrangement. What language.
 
She has made her choice though ... it's HIM over you.
 
Forget about her - clearly she is damaged. Stay away from your mom.
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Guess it's true, everybody ain't ment to be a parent. Shes d*cknytized, for real..

And her bf ain't right in the head. He git symptoms of a sexual predator.

How old is your mom? Just curious if she living the cougar life.

Sorry to say this but yo moms kinda *&%^$#@Eed up in the head... IA leave her alone too...she gotta be crazy choosin a bummy ass dude over her child.

Even if he did have money aint no man comin before my child oh hell Naw. Not callin u a child sweetie just lookin through a mother's eyes.

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Originally posted by cece1987 cece1987 wrote:

yall probably going to hate because of this post but ohh well. Your mother doesn't owe you shat, sorry to tell you, her boyfriend over there probably giving her the best diq she got in her life. And her 28y/o daughter is over here complaining about him. Get a pocket knife and some mace and make sure that he knows you got  it and will use it, in case he gets out of line. Because my spidey sense's are telling me that this fool might try it. Just keep your head strong and save money and move out when you can. Good luck.


Being in love with a guy's dick never worked out for any woman...

@justtryna13, has your mom always been like that when she dates a man? or is only this man?
do you currently have a door in your room? you need a door, but cece is right; it is your mother's house, she chose her man, and sadly you are on your own.

I do agree with Printer that if you move out, you should not tell her to where.
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Gosh I thought about this situation .. half the night.
 
I think another factor in these 'people' trying to get her to stay there .. is because she is payIng her mother rent. So if the daughter takes her income ... those two will be SOL.
 
 
 
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Twisted_Angel My mom is 60  her dude is 65 whatever he say she does, she was almost arrested listening to him. My mother had partial custody of my nephew because my brother was serving time in another state anyway she enrolled him in school and all of a sudden my nephew mother wanted to visit him even though she never came to see in the seven years he been wit my brother. my brother only did three months and was released and was coming to pick his son up once he found a job. Long story short when the mom would come over to visit my momboyfriend would tell my nephew's mother that my mom and me dont want her son there and she need to take him and so she did. She won't even let us see him now. My mother was about to be arrested because my nephew missed so many days of school listening to her dude.
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