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    Posted: Sep 22 2013 at 1:49pm
My man has been on my case lately about my makeup. Most specifically, my blush. He says he prefers the good-girl natural look. The thing is that he met me with that makeup. 
Its not like I wear alot of makeup like those gurus on youtube. All I do is wear foundation, eyeliner, foundation and blush. I think it looks really natural and I've never had any complaints. Without any of those "ingredients", I feel like my face is really plain, borderline boring. He says the blush looks unnatural. I just want to be free to wear whatever I want on my face and only have him call me out if its looks crazy.

Does your man comment on your makeup? What do you think?
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Originally posted by meitsme123 meitsme123 wrote:

My man has been on my case lately about my makeup. Most specifically, my blush. He says he prefers the good-girl natural look. The thing is that he met me with that makeup. 
Its not like I wear alot of makeup like those gurus on youtube. All I do is wear foundation, eyeliner, foundation and blush. I think it looks really natural and I've never had any complaints. Without any of those "ingredients", I feel like my face is really plain, borderline boring. He says the blush looks unnatural. I just want to be free to wear whatever I want on my face and only have him call me out if its looks crazy.

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I think that's too much & ur man is right
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lol, u said foundation twice. maybe that's why it seems to be a lot.  Are there any others  you're leaving out?
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Fake the natural look with makeup!! That always fools them LOL

Are you heavy handed with the blush? Blush shouldn't be too noticeable...
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Reduce the amount u use... maybe u r applying the makeup too heavy. The only way I could give good advice are with pictures...one without makeup...one with makeup

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Oops, I meant foundation, blush, eyeliner and mascara.

I started doing my makeup in front of him and he started seeing the different steps of my makep. So most often, he'll say that I should stop after the foundation and the eyes.
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Make up makes some people look better.  Without pics I cant help you
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he complained after the fact he had seen how you do ur makeup???
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Originally posted by meitsme123 meitsme123 wrote:

Oops, I meant foundation, blush, eyeliner and mascara.

I started doing my makeup in front of him and he started seeing the different steps of my makep. So most often, he'll say that I should stop after the foundation and the eyes.
 
So then he is not really against makeup .. it just the blush that he's against?
 
Actually, this make sense. 'blush' is not supposed to be noticable. If applied correctly, with the right color for your skin .. it should just give you a 'glow' but if you can SEE it ... especially on black skin .. it goes into the 'looks too fake' category. black people don't have red cheeks naturally.
 
I would try toning it down and seeing what he says. We really need pics because honestly some girls DO wear too much makeup. If you tell them they will say otherwise.
 
(On the other hand .. it's your face. Does your man try to tell you other things you should of shouldn't be doing? Some men are just controlling so they will always be in your face about 1 thing or another. If that is the case .. use your head and step away from him.)
 
No, I have never had a man comment on my makeup. Although I do attempt to appear as if I am only wearing a little eyeshadow and lipstick. Wink I say appear .. because I got my skin together so I only wear a bit of powder - no foundation .. so whole routine last 5 minutes. To me foundation is a killer in terms of too much makeup.


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Yes, I agree with the other girls, you are probably applying too much.
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