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Soooooo-- Your brother is possibly projecting to minimalize/normalize/justify his actions and you're asking if it's naive to have trust in one's partner?

No. I don't think it's naive.
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Depends on what you consider cheating!!
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Soooooo-- Your brother is possibly projecting to minimalize/normalize/justify his actions and you're asking if it's naive to have trust in one's partner?

No. I don't think it's naive.


Im not asking because his statement made me wonder if I'm naive. I'm good on this side as far as trust. I just wanted to get people's opinions on that way of thinking. I have heard women say similar things that my brother said. Thats all.LOL
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Women know what they have. Some women say their man doesn’t because it's the truth, some women say that because that's what you're supposed to say.
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Why shouldn't you feel like your man doesn't chest........
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Why shouldn't you feel like your man doesn't chest........


This. Its not so far fetched. 
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Originally posted by nekamarie83 nekamarie83 wrote:

Soooooo-- Your brother is possibly projecting to minimalize/normalize/justify his actions and you're asking if it's naive to have trust in one's partner?

No. I don't think it's naive.

exactly. OP is your brother young? Thats a very immature and unsupportive thing to say to a sibling.
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No my brother is almost 40. His 1 year marriage just failed because he cheated. He just has that dumb immature mentality. I don't take anything he says seriously.
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I don't think he is cheating but it's just my nature not to be loud with it.
It's nothing I would shout out.
" oh no, my sugar pop doesn't cheat!!!"

I don't have reason to believe he is but it's just nothing I would shout out
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Not really related to the topic but I read a post in here triggered something I thought about a few weeks ago.

I've always assumed I have never been cheated on. Never caught a girl cheating, never really suspected it, never had any damning evidence.

I'm pretty convinced now that one of my best friends in HS and my gf at the time messed around at least once. Nothing new that I've found, just an older, wiser me remembering some old details and putting the pieces together. Like how the three of us went out together one day when me and her were having problems, and then a few weeks later him calling me and saying I should cut her off for good, but not having a reason why. And around that same time, her acting really strange and not wanting to hang out with him anymore even though we'd have a fun time.

I kind of sort of want to ask him, though none of us are close anymore. I honestly don't really care much since it was so long ago, but the light bulb did go off and sometimes curiosity gets the better of me.

Ain't got sh*t to do with this topic but I just wanted to drop it somewhere since I'd only thought about it in my head.


Edited by Random Thoughts - Feb 07 2014 at 9:00pm
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