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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:


Yes, there was a time looooooong ago that I didn't feel like I was deserving of someone who can do for me. All my life I had to do things on my own and was made to feel that way. Once I got in the mindset that I am worthy of having a man who doesn't mind providing (not just in a man, but life in general, I'm worthy of having a "good" life), I started naturally meeting men who saw my worthiness. 



Interesting.
You attracted what you thought = you were worth of love, attention and being spoiled LOL, and then you got men who wanted to give you that.

It makes sense why some women only meet an abusive man after another...because they don't know their self-worth.


So are you still traveling with him or did you guys settle in some city?
What about your side hustle, are you still doing it?


yes to everything...having a ball. It's interesting how the mind works right...lol
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Did you read The Secret?
it talks about how what you believe, you attract.
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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Did you read The Secret?
it talks about how what you believe, you attract.

I haven't, but I will check it out....
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I would not quit, never completely depend on a man. Continue to work and save your money.
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Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

I wouldn't quit my job (regardless of how non-career it is) until I got married if I were you. 

Girlfriends don't qualify for spousal support.


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I had a guy like this in the past...

idk felt like some control thing...

I wouldn't do it
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Originally posted by Twisted_Angel Twisted_Angel wrote:

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I had a guy like this in the past...

idk felt like some control thing...

I wouldn't do it


IA...

I wouldn't stop working and it does sound a tad bit controlling
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I agree with printer on some things...I don't see the harm in travelling with your man but don't quit the job yet. And as long as you both know what it is between you guys, there's nothing wrong with what you're doing.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Twisted_Angel Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 03 2014 at 11:58am
Well...my man wanted me to go from FT to PT..cuz he feels like I do too much and wants me to depend on him more.. we had a big discussion about it cuz I thought he meant he wanted me to stop working too...and my answer would of been um hell naw negro..

But even after im married I couldn't depend on a man 100%..(80% would be the most for me).I know it sounds harsh but I would keep a small bank account on the side because I am happy and in love, but you never know what the future holds...

I don't think you should ever give up EVERYTHING, because you have a man..

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Originally posted by Petty LaBelle Petty LaBelle wrote:

Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

I wouldn't quit my job (regardless of how non-career it is) until I got married if I were you. 

Girlfriends don't qualify for spousal support.


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