It definately was the coconut oil. My lesson in this, I can not use coconut oil as a sealer for my hair. Today was my wash day, so I switched my routine:
Deep conditioned overnight with Hairveda SITRINILLAH DEEP CONDITIONER mixed with Sunflower oil
Shampooed this morning, ACV rinse, Lustra silk hair mayonnaise (30 minutes under the steamer)
Miracle 7 deep conditioner and sealed with castor oil (l left this on my hair for 4 hours and then steamed for 30 minutes)
Giovanni leave in conditioner and sealed with sunflower oil.
Flat ironed my hair.
My hair feels amazing!!!! I can run my fingers over it and no breakage!!!!