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UPDATE UPDATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Okay so he has been calling her when his bm goes to work, and they've been texting throughout the night when he can't talk on the phone. So she's still k.i.t with this fool. Not only that but he has been lying to her still yet about coming over to spend time with her, he finally shows after the fact that he tells her he needs $ to buy his daughter some pampers. WOW RIGHT, so he shows up fo sho bcuz he needed that $. He's been with her since.....which has only been overnight LOL, he will be departing very soon i'm sure to go home to his girl and kids Wink.  And when she even thinks about texting me about how she's so hurt this that and the other I will not even reply. Because i'm tired of hearing about it. Smh... Thx for listening ladies!
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Do not reply to her ... do not support that nonsense situation she is involved with.
 
Let her fall on her face ... it's the only way she will ever learn.
 
My mother always said ... you can learn a lesson one of two ways:
 
- You can learn the easy way (meaning you have enough sense to take good advice from people that love you and wish you welll) or
 
- you can learn the same lesson ... the HARD way (by falling on your face) and for some people the ONLY way they can learn is ... the hard way.
 
Leave her alone until she comes to her senses.
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Originally posted by Beauty620 Beauty620 wrote:

UPDATE UPDATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Okay so he has been calling her when his bm goes to work, and they've been texting throughout the night when he can't talk on the phone. So she's still k.i.t with this fool. Not only that but he has been lying to her still yet about coming over to spend time with her, he finally shows after the fact that he tells her he needs $ to buy his daughter some pampers. WOW RIGHT, so he shows up fo sho bcuz he needed that $. He's been with her since.....which has only been overnight LOL, he will be departing very soon i'm sure to go home to his girl and kids Wink.  And when she even thinks about texting me about how she's so hurt this that and the other I will not even reply. Because i'm tired of hearing about it. Smh... Thx for listening ladies!

or respond "LMAO" LOL
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Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:

Originally posted by Beauty620 Beauty620 wrote:

UPDATE UPDATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Okay so he has been calling her when his bm goes to work, and they've been texting throughout the night when he can't talk on the phone. So she's still k.i.t with this fool. Not only that but he has been lying to her still yet about coming over to spend time with her, he finally shows after the fact that he tells her he needs $ to buy his daughter some pampers. WOW RIGHT, so he shows up fo sho bcuz he needed that $. He's been with her since.....which has only been overnight LOL, he will be departing very soon i'm sure to go home to his girl and kids Wink.  And when she even thinks about texting me about how she's so hurt this that and the other I will not even reply. Because i'm tired of hearing about it. Smh... Thx for listening ladies!

or respond "LMAO" LOL
 
I like this response..
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your friend is so dumb.. I just want to punch her!!!!!
uughhhh!
 
Raising my blood pressure...Confused
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Originally posted by mickie mickie wrote:

your friend is so dumb.. I just want to punch her!!!!!
uughhhh!
 
Raising my blood pressure...Confused
 
And that is exactly how I feel LMAO....swear for the life of me she pisses me off because she's so to the point where she says she loves him and she doesn't feel she should stand aside and let the former girl have him ( and him and his bm who she's referring to has 2 kids, youngest is 4 months ) So yes she will fall on her face learning the hard way as the poster mentioned above and when she does i'm not going to be the one whom she can vent too.
 
Straight IDIOT LOL 
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That's really sad... your friend is wasting her life running after a loser. Any man who can only meet you at night and leaves either during the night or early morning has a woman to go to - you are just the midnight snack.

She can't see it for herself and she refuses to listen to anyone else. There is truly nothing you can do.... deeply inside, she knows it is wrong for him to ask for pampers' cash (because she vents to you) but she cannot let go of the dude.

She is in love with his d!ck, not with him, because if she were, she would be really HURT that he disappears on her like that.

She needs to get out of this vicious cycle, but only her can do that.

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Originally posted by Beauty620 Beauty620 wrote:

Originally posted by mickie mickie wrote:

your friend is so dumb.. I just want to punch her!!!!!
uughhhh!
 
Raising my blood pressure...Confused
 
And that is exactly how I feel LMAO....swear for the life of me she pisses me off because she's so to the point where she says she loves him and she doesn't feel she should stand aside and let the former girl have him ( and him and his bm who she's referring to has 2 kids, youngest is 4 months ) So yes she will fall on her face learning the hard way as the poster mentioned above and when she does i'm not going to be the one whom she can vent too.
 
Straight IDIOT LOL 
 
I have a friend just like her and it got to the point where my boyfriend had to put his foot down and ban her from my house lol
he was tired of hearing the foolishness...
 
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Thanks Ladies.....

It's sad indeed. And your right she will never listen to anybody. Gotta learn on her own...hopefully soon she'll wake up.
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One question ..how old is she?
 
I ask because at a certain age like 40 or so ... it's kind of hard to EVER change. Stern Smile
 
She should be careful or she will be doomed to repeat this pattern for the rest of her life.
 
Then she will end up being one of those women that sits around saying 'all men are dogs' - only it's not all men .. it's just that she CHOOSES dogs.
 
She can't tell a 'good man' from 'a dog'. I wonder what her back story is like because women tend to model the behavior ... of their mothers.  
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