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Originally posted by shortnsweet08 shortnsweet08 wrote:

You might also try posting this in the natural section...

Lol. Thanks. I was thinking that as soon as I posted!Embarrassed
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I must give your dad points for being aware and concerned about your hair. Because of your track record of not taking care of your hair, then you will need to prove to your dad that you can and will take care of your hair going forth. Explain to your dad that a relaxer stresses the hair in order to straighten it, and with the twisting and pulling you get from braiding this is to much stress for the average head of hair and it will more than likely result in breakage and more hair issues. From this day forward it is your job to show your dad that you can and are willing to take care of your hair. And you must start doing so, because in the long run it will benefit you. Learn to negotiate with your dad. Do not yell or whine, just explain yourself and maybe get the support of another relative for back up. God bless you!
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did you end up having to get the perm anyway??
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Thats ass backward. Where's ur mom and is he going to the salon with u? 

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Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Thats ass backward. Where's ur mom and is he going to the salon with u? 
omg she said her mom died
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I know its late but if you haven't convinced him yet show him the Chris Rock  movie "Good Hair" When he sees what that relaxer does to that soda can he won't want that on your head Wink
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Hey baby girl! What happened? Did daddy come to his senses? I just read your cry for help and I pray it worked out in your favor. If it didn't then to keep your hair from being on the floor, keep your hair clean, conditioned and moisturized weekly or bi-weekly. Please give us an update
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I dodged a bullet the first time, but now they are trying to make me get one this time. I really don't want one because I KNOW my hair will fall out. I don't like doing extra work with my hair andf having to get it "touched up" and redone every few weeks is way too much work. Plus I was planning on going natural once my air got to a certain length. So much for that now though Cry
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And I forgot to add it is mainly my aunt wanting me to do this. I can't change her mind. She has one so she doesn't see from my side of the story.
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Originally posted by Sunshine6 Sunshine6 wrote:

And I forgot to add it is mainly my aunt wanting me to do this. I can't change her mind. She has one so she doesn't see from my side of the story.
o boy, i hope its not too late. I was going to say the same thing the other girl said about showing your dad the chris rock movie. but if u said its your aunt u may be in trouble. i would go to plan b and pull out ......THE BIG GUNS.....
 
thats right baby, when auntie is not around, i would pull out them puppy dog eyes, and start crying to daddy. cuddle up under him and tell all about how those perms burn your scalp and give you a headache. make stuff up if you have to. remember, u r daddy's little girl, and they hate to c their daughter cry. ask him to give it to you as a christmas present. o, and still show him the movie!!!
 
good luck and tell us how it goesWink
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