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Originally posted by morenaloca morenaloca wrote:

You can't say what you would do in a situation that you have never been in. Some ppl don't have loving, sane mothers. There's a difference between disciplining a child and abusing them. It's natural for a child to be afraid of their mother or love them too much to hit them back but it's human instinct to protect yourself. 
 
 
I understand exactly what you are saying.  I am going to show this video to my daughter so she has an example of what is not acceptable behavior from me, from a man, from a friend, or a random person down the street.  Empowering my daughter/our daughters is our responsiblity as MOTHER's.  I love her too much to hurt/abuse her like that or the ways that have been inflicted on other BHM who had a testimony.  To strike her is to strike a part of myself and I am not about to take an unreasonable beating especially if I did not strike strike first.  I love the lord and lord knows my heart...I really would want my daughter to use common sense and knock me cold out of my senses.Cry
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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I was telling someone at work that like two days ago. He said he wanted to see me get mad....im like...no you dont...

I tried to explain to him that I dont get mad like normal people....it's like ptsd...it lingers, days and hours will go by and watch the fck out.

Im at a 0 or a twenty...all the damn time. I usually over react or under react.
 
I have a co-worker who said she wants to see me go HAM on a customer!!!
 
Everyone there is like, "omg, you are so sweet on the phones!  I never see you lose it!" and I have to explain,
 
"If I lose it, I will extinguish a whole family line.  Not the one person...their whole bloodline.  I will even dig up deceased relatives, and punch their remains then set them on fire.  I don't play.  Trust me, you don't want to see me mad, because I do NOT calm down, and you WILL be scared."
 
It's why I joke a lot.  It's why I try to stay in the pic threads on here, and not get involved in drama threads.


That one time you went OFF on ThisOne.. wooooo jayzus!!
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@CLC wow, I am exactly like that.  I don't get angry easily but when I do....Lawd
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Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

But in the same breath you said if your child hit you you would knock the hell out of her with your hand or an object........Youre being a super hypocrite......shouldnt you walk away as well? But as a parent do you feel you have that right? Im really confused......

Please don't call me a hypocrite . I have said the same thing several times . I SAID AS A ADULT YOU SHOULD NOT HIT YOUR MOTHER PERIOD . Walk away if possible . I don't abuse my child . When she turns your age , she better never try to hit me as her mother . I AM THE PARENT NO MATTER HOW OLD YOU GET . Why can't you see the difference in a non abusive mother ? NVM. I am old enough to be your mother . I came in the topic with sympathy and concern , but you want to pick out a few words to change what i said . Again sorry your mother was abusive . I am not that type of mother . I document cases on my job and follow up . My great great nieces and nephew are your age and know to never raise a hand at me . I said several times , I donot belive in whooping kids . I made it clear my comment was about Adult children who try to hit me first  . Go at another member with similar thoughts .  

Ive notice you tend to read what you want in people's post and play the victim role like someone is attacking you.......your putting words in my mouth.....you commented on my post and I asked you to clarify......what i said was.....at a certain age you can no longer physically discipline your child.....because they are no longer a child......in the words of granny you dont provoke your children......you then said if a parent hit you walk away......i said if a child does then walk away.....but because your the parent you should......you have the right to in your words knock the hell out of your own child......basically thats why i called you a hypocrite...because of your you can take the abuse but I can't mentality.......
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OO is making a lot of sense.
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SleepyNot worth repeating myself . I can't provoke my child to hit me . I have no desire to play victim on bhm .  

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WOW...my heart really breaks for that girl...she is probably scarred and what does that say for her future as a mother and in relationships?  always having to overcome the psychological and physical trauma her mom put on her.

my aunt was the verbal type and she'd yell at us over every damn thing.  one day she tried to whoop me and i hauled off on her ass.  she learned THAT day.  say what you want but i will not be touched by ANYBODY.
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thats not the first time the mother beat the daughter like that
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The other people were yelling fight back.....but no one tried to break it up.....but thats how you get beat.....
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this thread brings back memories and make me really sad even though i havent spoken to her in 3 years i still hear her yelling at me..ill be in my apartment and ill still hear her and get scared..when i was homeless and this lady took me in she said she would watch me sleep thru the night and i would jump at every noise i heard  
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