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    Posted: Jan 28 2013 at 8:51am
So I just started a new 'friendship' with this girl  who seems to bring up the subject of money. While talking she made a statement to me: "I do not live for free like you".  I found it strange because I do not live for free, I pay rent, and I thought it was strange of her to be checking for my living situation since I have never discussed these things with her. 

How open are you with your friend/acquaintences about money? Do you discuss your salary and other things with them?
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me and the members of my faction do not discuss our money.

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My friends and I are in the same socio economic bracket... money doesnt need to be discussed, there is no call for it...

Now my family, that is another issue.... I never bring up money with them as in their minds I have too much and they don't have enough, and they're forever trying to "solve that equation"....
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It's none of their business really...
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i always talk about money with ppl. not a big deal to us. well not with ppl i just formed *friendships* with.

Edited by Lady ICE - Jan 28 2013 at 9:32am
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People will always try to "count your coins" ...that's where the whole "so what do you do for a living?" question comes from. But I'm way to private to discuss money with anyone. 
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yes we talk about it. No biggie.
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Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

While talking she made a statement to me: "I do not live for free like you".  I found it strange because I do not live for free, I pay rent, and I thought it was strange of her to be checking for my living situation since I have never discussed these things with her. 

 
What was your response? I hate people that throw out random insults all willy nilly like that. Pinch
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Friends and money sometimes don't mix..
I don't mind talking about the cost of certain things and averages..
I'm not going to divulge in what I make..
All they need to know that I make enough to pay for all of my needs and some of my wants..
I'm a really private person..
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i know how much all my friends make. its no big deal. but we have all been friends for 12+ yrs. i wouldnt discuss money matters with someone im just getting to know.
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