Menses- Quit lurking

You've found the one you say you want to be with for the rest of your life. You're head over heeks for her. You really think you can remain faithful to her for the reast of your life? Have you tried? You find other women beautiful but you have no desire to sleep with them bevcause of the on you have at home? They say men weren't meant to be monogamous.... Is that rtue or are all of us women doomed?

Girl, we live in a patriarchal society. You know they love to throw the responsibility of themselves on the shoulders of others so they can continue doing what they want; having their cake and eating it too.

"Humans aren't mean to be monogamous, it's our animal instinct!" Then explain monogamous species of animals. Something as basic as self-control should not be absolved from an individual just because he has a penis. If he wants to get an open relationship, let him get one. But don't give a monogamous relationship the open relationship treatment and expect everything to be fine and dandy when your partner finds you have deceived them.


Even rapists do that crap, blaming the rape on a woman. "She teased me; she dressed in a way that was asking for it; even though she said no she didn't fight me off."

Oy vey!

Midna wrote: Girl, we live in a patriarchal society. You know they love to throw the responsibility of themselves on the shoulders of others so they can continue doing what they want; having their cake and eating it too. "Humans aren't mean to be monogamous, it's our animal instinct!" Then explain monogamous species of animals. Something as basic as self-control should not be absolved from an individual just because he has a penis. If he wants to get an open relationship, let him get one. But don't give a monogamous relationship the open relationship treatment and expect everything to be fine and dandy when your partner finds you have deceived them. Even rapists do that crap, blaming the rape on a woman. "She teased me; she dressed in a way that was asking for it; even though she said no she didn't fight me off." Oy vey!

Midna said it

If men weren't meant to be monogamous, then how could women be expected too? Because we're female? 

Aerie wrote: If men weren't meant to be monogamous, then how could women be expected too? Because we're female?

My sister isn't monogamous. She would have her main man, the one for whom she had feelings for and then she would have other men, because she got presents, etc.