Okay so to all the BHM researchers I haven't been able properly research whether or not this topic has been posted before.
I feel like he's living a double life
1. He's not from the same city I am from. I'n the 6 months we've been together I have only been to his hometown once. He has taken several trips home to see his daughter yet I was not , or it was made impossible for me to be included. The one occasion I went home with him, I had to be left in a hotel while he picked up his daughter.
2. He gaurds his like a watch dog. His phone follows him to the bathroom in the shower to the dinner table in the bed etc.
3. He and his ex wife/ baby mama never hold a conversation in my precense. We have been living together for six months I have only witnessed two phone conversations between the two of them.
4. He talks to her for long periods of times...(when he's not at home).
5. He delete's her text messages.
6. He has not introduced the two of us.
7. The child never comes here to visit.
Maybe it's just chance or I dont have enough to accuse him accurately of this. But i have the feeling that he and his so called ex wife are really still together...maybe even in an open relationships are these good enough signs to conclude he is hiding a double life. How do I go about uncovering this or getting him to prove ?
Are there other things that can suggest if a man is living a double life?