Men Only As Mature As The Woman They're Dating?

I think it's a two way street. A man who wants a "higher quality" person is going to assert themselves to reach whatever is necessary to be on that person's level (if they're not already).

But at the same time, a woman who sets no standards gets exactly the image she put out - nothing.

You can't "force" a man to do what you want them to, but as a woman if you project an image of "this is what I'm about and I don't settle for less", you're going to get the man who's willing to put in the effort to show that he's not just projecting that image of quality - but IS quality.

I've seen with some of my guy friends that they do whatever they can get away with if the woman doesn't have the good sense to show that she doesn't want to take their crap. Whereas, some of my guy friends have female friends who will never give them the time of day (in a romantic sense) because they don't see anything that impresses them.

nitabug wrote: newin2009 wrote: Idk... It kind of confused me too when I heard it, so I brought the question here. Wouldn't a man change some of his "ways" for the right woman? Don't we all make some changes to a certain degree for the person we love. Unless manipulation, coercion or force is involved, your behaviors are your own. If she is the reason he changed, she'll be the reason he goes back to being a fck up.

No, it is up to a man's parents to raise him, not his wife.

Serwa wrote: No, it is up to a man's parents to raise him, not his wife.

Over_all wrote: It's not true for me in a sense of it depends on what I'm looking for.. If you're looking for a chic to actually take serious she has to be as mature as you. If not you'll find yourself getting into fights you dont' understand.. If I'm just looking for something to smash for awhile she could be as ignorant as she wants thats her buisness